posted August 29, 2015 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Lol Dop!! My Nessus is on my Mars, so ya, that's not good! Fortunately it's 2.5-3 degrees apart, plus retrograde!

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posted August 29, 2015 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hypatia238:
[b]Thank you Ami, Aubyanne and Gabby for all your ongoing input on Nessus and Dejanira. I resisted to look into it so much but little by little learned more and more about it and eventually I become ready to fully grasp it and could not have done it without all of your input and support.

How fitting that my understanding of Nessus and Dejanira fully took off while Transit THISBE-PYRAMUS were conjuncting my Tropic Dejanira Conjunct SIDEREAL NESSUS and that all of you have been planting the seeds for this understanding to take place for some time now and all three came together during this time to help make that final leap of understanding.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all 3 of you.

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Thanks Gabby for saying that, it means a lot .

I don't know why I couldn't find Hercules, I click CONTROL + F on astro asteroid list but it wouldn't find it that day LOL, thanks for the number but now I seee that the asteroid is spelled out differently HERACLES so that is why.

My Heracles does not appear to be connected to his nessus, Dejanira or Zeus nor Vice versa but in addition to that Nessus-Dejanira-Zeus TSQUARE we have; his Heracles conjuncts my AMOR. I have always said if he ever cheats I would forgive him and we would work it out and he feels the same so neither of us sees cheating as a deal breaker. He has never cheated though and I did like over 4 years ago for a few months after been with him for about 4 years in our relationship faithful and when I did cheat his nessus square dejanira was at its peak of acting out and that is how I dealt with it.

posted September 08, 2015 04:48 PM            

Our Dejanira's do not form a major aspect to this Sun/Nessus/Heracles conjunction ... BUT ... they are opposite each other - his Dejanira is on my South Node and my Dejanira is on my North Node. (I have always hated it there! What kind of a destiny is that?? Yippie! - destined to be a frikkin' VICTIM??? What a truly awesome reason for existing!)

Anyhow. Moving on. As far as the Sun - Heracles/Nessus synastry is concerned I can definitely relate (as the Sun person) to some of the things written here, but not others.

- Am I abused? No. I don't feel that way.
- Is the relationship compulsive? Yes, definitely.
- Do I think that the relationship has a purifying element to it? Hell yes! Amy - you nailed it there. I totally relate to the psychological "burn", the pain of ego layers being peeled off, the power of the relationship, the feeling of being stripped naked psychologically and the purification that accompanies that.
- Do I feel traumatized? Well - it is a curious mixture of feeling exposed and protected at the same time. Perhaps because of Nessus AND Heracles both being together. Heracles being the hero and protector; Nessus representing passion, lust, intensity, compulsion and danger.
- Do I feel vulnerable? Yes. I think he does too, but not as much as me. Dejanira opposite Dejanira on my nodal axis. For those who believe in past lives - perhaps he was the vulnerable one last time, and it is my turn now.
- Is the relationship profound/deep/transformative? Yes.
- Will we ultimately get badly hurt? IDK. Hope not. I'm hoping that the Nessus/Heracles conjunction will balance his energy that touches my sun ; and that our Dejanira opposition will also balance each other out.
- How does he feel as the Nessus/Heracles person? Not sure. Anybody willing to guess? I suspect my Sun might be igniting those particular energies in him which normally lie dormant.