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Couple therapy sessions! As much as two people can make progress with each other. It can feel like burn out doing all the work yourself. When couples work things out and make progress, it can usually start as an augment before progress is made which can be exhausting if a lot needs to be worked on. Husband's therapist is amazing! I plan on going every other week to his sessions.

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I've been focused on wearing orange and pink a lot lately. Pink for just healing in general. And orange for happy confidence.

Anyways with Pluto is doing the grand finale squaring my sun I see where I have unfinished business.

I feel like if you are not an assertive or people pleaser. Pluto will put you in situations that make you speak up more and establish better boundaries.

Last weekend I had to tell a friend to stop being patronizing when he talks to me.

I had a therapy session with my husband today. This was my second time going. The therapist saw today how long I can hold on to anger. I told her how one time it took me 3 years to tell my husband I didn't like something. I realize how much my resentment has damaged my respect for my husband and how it has no place in a marriage.

Plus when I fight with him, I end up bringing up 5 different things. She was explaining that I do this because I don't address it soon enough. She is giving me a challenge to make sure I address issues within 24 hours this is going to be really hard for me. But I am willing to try because I started having revenge fantasies about my husband a few years ago.

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