posted November 27, 2013 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
I belong to the killer club as well....

Being ignored can be powerful is a positive way.
If we are speaking with good intentions, no one can doubt, retort or even lightly respond to the comments.
Or so I tell myself

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Oh that is true!

And HAPPY THANKSGIVING to you both, too!

@Charmaine, thank you for the longer reply, I'll get back to you soon...though I know you are busy so I won't rush it.

Don't forget to eat french fries with your holiday dinners, gals, it's the one dish no one should ever forget!

posted November 27, 2013 02:37 PM            

Omg Faith! You got it right with the french fries. They make every meal perfect.

to you both.

posted December 20, 2013 08:50 AM            

I'm sorry, I didn't even see this bumped yesterday!

Hope your holidays are happy so far, girls! Do you have any big plans for Christmas? Traveling, visiting people, anything? We don't do Christmas officially, but we travel around to a lot of Christmas-y places, go to a family party, send some presents and basically keep busy.

Charmaine this is so true: " Isn't it odd that when you're trying to follow a special diet, suddenly you find yourself surrounded by all sorts of temptations?"

Yeah, I guess it's all psychological. Lately I've been feeling a bit self-destructive (maybe it's Saturn right on my NN) and have eaten french fries every day this week. Oh well at least they taste good.

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Since taking a calmer approach (not ALL the time) and avoiding particular things which annoy me like anyone who deliberatley wants to provoke me there have been major improvements.

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!!! You usually seem very deeply calm to me. I wonder if people tend to demand too much of you because they mistake you as being this bottomless pit of peace and reassurance. ...Do you have any Taurus in your chart, btw, because this reminds me that I get a Taurus vibe from you...no worries if you'd rather not say.

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I don't even remember sleeping..just feeling something wet on my face..opened my eyes and saw two ice blue eyes with a panting mouth staring at me! Lol! My wolfy fluffa decided it was time for me to wake up.

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Awww! Is your fluffa really part wolf?? I love wolves. I once had a telepathic conversation with a wolf at a zoo...I asked the wolf, in my mind, to come over to me from the far side of the enclosure where he was, and he immediately trotted over and stared me down. Now, you can't forget something like that.

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That's another thing which annoys me: when you're expected to be "around all the time" to reply on a thread you were active on....There were times I genuinely forgot.

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Yeah, it gets confusing sometimes, I think I'm getting the cold shoulder from someone and it's just mystifying: did they write something to me, somewhere, and I "ignored" them? I dunno! Hazards of forum life.

Keeping this kinda short since it's a busy time of year...and if I killed the thread with this, I'm sorry, it was totally an accident!

posted December 27, 2013 09:01 AM            

Randall & Charmaine, ditto for you both.

Oh and Happy New Year, too!!!

posted January 06, 2014 11:52 AM            

Randall, if you're reading this:

I saw that you locked my thread in LLC 2.0 when the topic turned to SunChild. I wish you had let the conversation continue. I wanted to explain that I don't know all the details of that, and my checking out her forum is not meant to be perceived as an endorsement of her behavior and slight against you. I feel bad that you had to deal with someone being spastic and vindictive. She is usually not that way.

It's just like how my affection for sand is in spite of his antics here and definitely not because of them. I never objected to his being banned but miss him anyway.

posted January 06, 2014 05:39 PM            

I wouldn't have emailed you, if I'd thought it was a slam against Randall. Anything that happened with me last Summer, was due to my own hurt feelings, consistently being looked at as someone who might be involved in something that I would actually never participate in.

posted January 06, 2014 07:37 PM            

....i had forgotten about all of that.

Also SC is a great person and not malicious (as we all know, including Randall). Whatever happened was upsetting to her and shocking to everyone, including me when i heard about it.

I'm sure we've all moved passed it now. I don't want to see her get torn apart - i know how that is. So, since she can't defend herself further here, i agree that we can and should let it go.

posted January 06, 2014 07:38 PM            

Nothing else to say on the matter.

posted January 06, 2014 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Just another Love and Light pretender.

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People have said the same thing about me, you and even - of all people, juni!

We show each other our true colors that arent often always pretty.....these people/encounters are often our best teachers (mirrors). No need to hold hatred towards them for too long.

posted January 06, 2014 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
I don't claim to be a Love and Light anything. And Steiner hasn't burnt out my brain.

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That's right, you never claimed that. Nor proven to be.

Out of respect to charmaine, i will say no more. Just wanted to stick up for SC.