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Topic: Your Charts with your Exes
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 27, 2014 01:02 PM
  
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Originally posted by Enneline:
I was far more obsessed I think (but anyway I always have the feeling that I am the one who's more involved) but when I left after nearly 4 years of (partly violent and cheating) ups and downs he was the one who cried me a river 
Cheating....maybe his Leo Mars on DSC square Uranus in Scorpio 8th (violence here too) in combination with his Venus square Saturn in social houses (7th, on MC)? What do you think?
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Enneline
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posted June 27, 2014 01:15 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Cheating....maybe his Leo Mars on DSC square Uranus in Scorpio 8th (violence here too) in combination with his Venus square Saturn in social houses (7th, on MC)? What do you think?
I was not his type and to be honest today I wonder why I have ever been attracted to that guy? He was neithor good-looking nor nice let out intelligent yes, you are right and sun/venus in sag opp. IC doesn't help to keep a man interested IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted June 27, 2014 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
yes, you are right and sun/venus in sag opp. IC doesn't help to keep a man interested
oh, yes, definitely that... Looking at the second...so, you're looking for the perfect Sag Venus opp your Mars? degree after degree?  This is intense too, but unbalanced...probably the anchor was Sun/Moon, Sun/Venus IC - a familiar feeling, maybe warm and fuzzy - was your lonely Moon serving him? but couldn't get much in return? how was Venus/Saturn felt? IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted June 27, 2014 01:42 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
oh, yes, definitely that...Looking at the second...so, you're looking for the perfect Sag Venus opp your Mars? degree after degree? This is intense too, but unbalanced...probably the anchor was Sun/Moon, Sun/Venus IC - a familiar feeling, maybe warm and fuzzy - was your lonely Moon serving him? but couldn't get much in return? how was Venus/Saturn felt?
Yes AND my Neptune was longing for them It's obvious that I look for romantic love with a lot of sexual attraction  I always blamed my moon for my lack of feelings... oh yes. I was urged by him to serve but I refused most of the time. He really was like "Come on, pls. help me. Why don't you help me? Ah I need a massage...you too? Ah, i can't" That was not sexy. And Venus sq. Saturn was nice at first because I felt the binding effect but later I had been faced with struggles to leave. My bad consciousness and a feeling of duty hold me back. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 27, 2014 02:36 PM
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((Hugs))
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Yes, you can see the violence in your synastry, LeeLoo. Thanks for sharing  and again sorry for that f***ing experience
 Thank you, dears! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 27, 2014 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Yes AND my Neptune was longing for them It's obvious that I look for romantic love with a lot of sexual attraction
Good choice!
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I always blamed my moon for my lack of feelings... oh yes. I was urged by him to serve but I refused most of the time. He really was like "Come on, pls. help me. Why don't you help me? Ah I need a massage...you too? Ah, i can't" That was not sexy. And Venus sq. Saturn was nice at first because I felt the binding effect but later I had been faced with struggles to leave. My bad consciousness and a feeling of duty hold me back.
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tgem
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posted June 28, 2014 08:46 AM
@Leeloo- do you still have the chart of me and my Ex? I definitely DO NOT seeing us getting back together but that chart would be an interesting one to look at.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 08:49 AM
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Originally posted by tgem:
@Leeloo- do you still have the chart of me and my Ex? I definitely DO NOT seeing us getting back together but that chart would be an interesting one to look at.
Yes, indeed. It must be in the 11th harmonics thread, I guess. But it would be better if you reposted it, composite too. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 29, 2014 07:24 AM
Hey LeeLoo Considering it's still Merc rx I thought this thread is a great idea... I'll keep mine ridiculously simple and just post the synastry of my only two "official" relationships. The birth times are accurate for both  So this was my high school boyfriend who also turned out to be my longest and most stable relationship overall-at least on the surface (we're still friends)  And this was my "rebound" relationship in a way, even though it turned out to be a complete disaster on so many levels. Important for growth though of course lol.. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted June 30, 2014 09:09 AM
I haven't had the time to look at the charts, FireMoon, but I will IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted June 30, 2014 01:07 PM
I'm inside (their birthtime unknown)  IP: Logged |
page one
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From: USA
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posted June 30, 2014 01:33 PM
LOL @DP--Their sun opposing your Moon, and squaring your Mars. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted June 30, 2014 02:05 PM
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Originally posted by page one:
LOL @DP--Their sun opposing your Moon, and squaring your Mars.
Yes, sun square mars DW. You're on the right track. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 01, 2014 09:17 AM
Hi, FireMoon
In the first I see:
getting together because of similarity (angles, some planets), supported by Sun/Venus to Jupiter, 7th house emphasis, potentially compatible Moons but not aligned (in aspect), which IMO is a separative aspect there's also Sun/Venus in 8th, the mesmerizing kind plus the outers there on DSC and Sun the hot physical attraction of the venus to Mars an Moon T/square, but out of sign
a loose square for the Leo Moon, an energy not easily handled
In the 2nd I see: a missed Venus Mars opp...things would have been very different if they aligned, IMO Mars Venus on angles as instant attraction, but Mars is basically unaspected Deep conversations and potentially harsh truths revealed with Mercury/Pluto
a very pretty Sun/Moon on Eros/Psyche and a very pretty Mystic rectangle. A lot of potential mutual fascination here with all those opps
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 01, 2014 10:08 AM
Wow...DP, it looks like your Pluto was very stimulated in this relationship Your 12th stellium too which is good, but it was a very Plutonian relationship for you. The woman brought your 12th stellium out of its hiding with her Sun to your Moon, but didn't bring anything to the other side (Pisces), not directly, and I think this is important to your chart. there is a nice Grand Trine completion, very nice, but the Kite points to her SN/Chiron - to her, in the end, it was more like a reverse motion; once the lessons of SN/Chiron are learned, there is sometimes a need to distance oneself from the relationship Is this what happened? Or she just moved back home? Too bad you don't know her angles, it's an interesting synastry.
Your Moon is a bit lonely in the relationship.Venus conjunct Uranus and mercury is a bit incompatible with Virgo Venus in 12th square Neptune.
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 2412
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 01, 2014 02:27 PM
It was incredibly unhealthy. It was my Pluto but they were very controlling and jealous, abusive. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 02, 2014 06:19 AM
I am sorry, Deep Freeze IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 2412
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted July 02, 2014 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I am sorry, Deep Freeze
Oh it's OK. I just didn't know if it showed. It was a very.... I guess... "turning point" type of thing for me. I came out better in the end having learned so much. IP: Logged |
viiv28
Knowflake Posts: 41
From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 09:22 AM
Here is me and the last person I was seeing. We started of as "friends" more than a year a go, and things somehow developed into a romance by accident, I was much more into him than he into me. Also I go crazy when I sense that the person is flaky or flirty and not that crazy about me, so I just got scared and broke it off. But it was very interesting relationship regardless, because we spent extremely long periods o time together, without being in a couple prior to that.
And the feelings I felt or him were not sexual, and developed very slowly, but to a very strong extent. This is not very typical of me. Also always I was the active and the relationship.  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 09:34 AM
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viiv28
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From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 09:37 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
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fixed it Also I have noticed about him, that he colder women, who are not into him that much. He tends to idealize them. He had relationships with two women, who did not care that much for him, so he was madly in love with both of them, still. While my being into him did not do me any favors. In fact when I grew cold, he would show significantly more interest...
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 03, 2014 09:54 AM
It was probably his 5th house ruler(falling in love ruler) Mercury in the 11th - an Aqua vibe - and his Venus in Aqua in his first.If your Mars had been in Aqua, it would have probably been different almost, almost... you like a Venus there, but in Cap, IMO I see here why you were the active part: your Mars on ASC and Venus - I see this often when the woman becomes the chaser -, Moon opp Sun as well
It's not a bad synastry, but it wouldn't have lasted, IMO: your Venus is unaspected and you're a bit of a mismatch, not each other's type.
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viiv28
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From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 10:02 AM
yes, well to be honest it was me who is not his type, not the other way around. I sensed I am too grounded for him, indeed. But I have noticed also that I very often fall in love with cancer moons/venuses...and then I usually tend to be the "man", which actually makes me fall more in love. What means unaspected Venus of a person in synastry? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 4342
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 10:17 AM
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Originally posted by viiv28:
yes, well to be honest it was me who is not his type, not the other way around. I sensed I am too grounded for him, indeed. But I have noticed also that I very often fall in love with cancer moons/venuses...and then I usually tend to be the "man", which actually makes me fall more in love. What means unaspected Venus of a person in synastry?
You can post your natal chart in the "What is your ideal partner" thread, to see your "astrological" type.
An unaspected planet's needs in a synastry are not meant, so she behaves erratically, takes proportions or feels blocked. The synastry does not support a positive evolution for that planet's energy.
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viiv28
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From: kaspichan
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 03, 2014 10:21 AM
that is exactly how I felt lovewise. That we communicate very well on verbal, intellectual and sexual level, but not on love level, if I can say that. IP: Logged |
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