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Topic: What are the love aspects in synastry?
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:22 PM
  
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Originally posted by Orange:
not, no feelings. i have two examples where one of the persons had their Venus exactly on my ASC and North Node, and another one with their Venus exactly on my DSC/Sun/South Node and I've felt absolutely nothing for them other than friendship feelings. In both cases, my 7th house ruler was unaspected.In all other cases when i fell in love - my 7th house ruler was aspected vy either Venus or Sun, while other so called love aspects were not present
Ah, you need a very specify kind of love. But now I'm confused, sorry if I ask too many questions  . Wouldn't Sun/Venus make aspects to your 7th house ruler is a bit general? People born on the same day or have the same Venus placement would make you feel love (while no other so called love aspects are presented)?
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:27 PM
Geminigal, first thing I notice is Sun oppose Uranus, but Sun/Uranus is your Angle rulers AND Nodes ruler, plus Nodal axis align on MC/IC point to your together, I don't think this Uranus is bad. And you do have 12th house stellium, really sweet and Leeloo said it's a must-have for you to feel love if you have 12th house placements natally and/or synastrically.------------------
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Hey, you have venus in scorpio and mars in aries and does his natal promise to match these requirements? No! Sometimes astrology is very simpel 
Hehe, I like your simple approach. Bingo! I'll give you a kiss if you promise to stop trying to steal my women.  ------------------
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Enneline
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posted July 07, 2014 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Hehe, I like your simple approach. Bingo! I'll give you a kiss if you promise to stop trying to steal my women.
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:32 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I think Enneline is right.It has several important sweet aspects, some good marital aspects, friendship aspects, pattern completion. There's nothing wrong with the luminaries cross on your nodes IMO, on the contrary, it's the most impressive part of the synastry. But this synastry lacks physical/erotic attraction aspects. His Mars may have been tempted by your Neptune, but that's it for both sides.
Aww, yes, I didn't feel any physical attraction which is a big must for me in love relationship. It may sound shallow but it's the only difference between love rel and friendship for me. ------------------
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Ha! I can't do that and you know that. But I won't do anything to them they don't want to
Arghhh, it's the worse kind of seduction! But my women are safe from your stealing tactics, we're an official trio  . ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 02:39 PM
To answer your questions in a short way, when I look at a good romantic synastry, it has to have:SEVERAL romantic aspects (pointing to mutual feelings) SEVERAL erotic aspects (pointing to...how does Cappy say?....ah, yes! bunga bunga! lol mutual! this one also)
and, of course, marital/long-term/ good communication/completion/similarity/complementarity etc aspects (if we're talking relationship here, and not a fling or a one night stand etc.)
The more, the better
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geminigal2805
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posted July 07, 2014 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Geminigal, first thing I notice is Sun oppose Uranus, but Sun/Uranus is your Angle rulers AND Nodes ruler, plus Nodal axis align on MC/IC point to your together, I don't think this Uranus is bad. And you do have 12th house stellium, really sweet and Leeloo said it's a must-have for you to feel love if you have 12th house placements natally and/or synastrically.
Ohhh Tulipe u r such a doll! Thank u.
Never wanted to get married at all... now this? I feel as if someone walked upto me n gave me a million dollar winning lottery ticket. : D
I have never felt that sun-uranus aspect in our relationship. Cuz i have it natally? He has mars opposite Juno natally. So he doesnt complain all that much. Even if he were to he doesnt have a choice now hehehehe. J/K
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 02:47 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
To answer your questions in a short way, when I look at a good romantic synastry, it has to have:SEVERAL romantic aspects (pointing to mutual feelings) SEVERAL erotic aspects (pointing to...how does Cappy say?....ah, yes! bunga bunga! lol mutual! this one also)
and, of course, marital/long-term/ good communication/completion/similarity/complementarity etc aspects (if we're talking relationship here, and not a fling or a one night stand etc.)
The more, the better
But that's what I'm asking here, what are those? lol. That's too long a list I guess. Are you gonna directing me to your Compilation thread? ^^ ------------------
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Enneline
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posted July 07, 2014 02:48 PM
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The charts look nice, but the 5th harmonic aspects per se aren't necessarily artistic in nature. Friend nr. 1 has a keen intuition and empathic qualities, Friend no. 2 is an original person (shhh don't tell them )
However I think friend number 2 can be successful as an artist, I see something to do with the hands (handcrafting) Is it so? Or anything involving manual dexterity, it could be an instrument as well.
What's your opinion in artistic talents and how they appear in charts? I strongly agree with this Lady: http://art-astrology.blogspot.de/
she blames moon-venus-neptune connections for the need to be an Artist Yes, friend No. 1 is indeed strongly empathic. She often knows things before they happen.
She once was a graphic-designer and wants to become a photographer but has never been successfull yet  Yes, friend No. 2 is great in handcrafts. She is very talented in sewing and crocheting. And she used to play the piano. She is a biologist but has been trying for years to make a living of sewing clothes, fashion consultance, croching of scarfs. People love and admire her and buy her staff but the income is not enough yet I am hoping for my friend No. 1 that Saturun near MC looses his effect since she has entered her 30s I've always been worried about the lack of aspects between the libra sellium and the mc of my friend no. 2 and libra is not the best placement in house no 10 IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted July 07, 2014 03:12 PM
Not necessarily, Enneline. In artistic and creative charts, I've ALWAYS found the Muses to be running rampant. Check 'em out for yourself and prepare to be amazed.How they're figured gives clues to what talents, how they can best be used, and how predominant they'll be in the native's life. Creative professionals, for example, almost always have them involved in the lights. KLIO reveals a lot, too, in the way of what 'gets us noticed'. NODAL hits to nKLIO often tend to show up when someone is influential for us in terms of career or life path. IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:13 PM
Oww, where did the other posts go? I haven't read them all, so sad. Thanks Geminigal for all the answers to my questions ^^, I happened to see your pic as well, you're a beautiful lady with a fairy tale romance  Indigo, I have Juno conjunct Union, Alma conjunct Valentine. Leeloo, I wanted to savour your post but it dissapeared, ouch. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 03:14 PM
Oh, I can't believe it...what happened to my post? Have you at least seen it, Tulipe?IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted July 07, 2014 03:14 PM
Oh, good, it hates you, too, Lee? I was starting to feel singled out! Something is amiss.We've got ourselves a gremlin, ladies. IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:15 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Oh, I can't believe it...what happened to my post? Have you at least seen it, Tulipe?
I just got a really fleeting look at it ------------------
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:17 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Oh, good, it hates you, too, Lee? I was starting to feel singled out! Something is amiss.We've got ourselves a gremlin, ladies.
Oww, not my thread... I want the beautiful posts back ( ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 03:24 PM
I was saying... My view on this: Rule number 1 (for me): personal love planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars) have to be aspected at some extent (although there are exceptions - synastries that defy this and go directly to rule number 2) Rule number 2: everyone has their personalized love planets (feeling planets and bunga bunga planets) and these MUST be aspected by general love planets and/or the other's personalized love planets.
General romantic aspects:
Sun/Moon - Yin/Yang archetype, all-inclusive Venus/Mars - Yin/Yang archetype, romantic and bunga bunga Sun/Venus - in practice, it is not a romantic aspect per se, it shows mutual appreciation/beauty/friendship/unconditional love, but it can be very romantic Moon/Venus - very romantic Moon/Mars - bunga bunga hot attraction lot of babies Yin/Yang can be romantic babymaking love quarrels ending in bed etc. Moon/Pluto - deep compulsive love, an archetype, bunga bunga and romantic, can become deep hatred or unrequited Venus/Pluto - similar with the above, but not quite: a love archetype, can be an unrequited aspect as well Venus/Neptune - classic and very romantic aspect Venus/Uranus - can be very romantic and bunga bunga, read the myth, also a possible unrequited/separative aspect Mars/Pluto - very hot bunga bunga Mars/Neptune - hot bunga bunga with lots of fantasies, can be romantic Moon/Saturn - a marital archetype
All the other combinations between these planets can become romantic/bunga if they are personal love planets.
Any of the above aspects, in isolation, can be part of a good friendship. Sun/Sun and Moon/Moon aspects are also very important for mutual attraction, no matter the aspect. Venus/Venus Mars/Mars etc. are a bonus in a good romantic synastry. IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I was saying... My view on this: Rule number 1 (for me): personal love planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars) have to be aspected at some extent (although there are exceptions - synastries that defy this and go directly to rule number 2) Rule number 2: everyone has their personalized love planets (feeling planets and bunga bunga planets) and these MUST be aspected by general love planets and/or the other's personalized love planets.
General romantic aspects:
Sun/Moon - Yin/Yang archetype, all-inclusive Venus/Mars - Yin/Yang archetype, romantic and bunga bunga Sun/Venus - in practice, it is not a romantic aspect per se, it shows mutual appreciation/beauty/friendship/unconditional love, but it can be very romantic Moon/Venus - very romantic Moon/Mars - bunga bunga hot attraction lot of babies Yin/Yang can be romantic babymaking love quarrels ending in bed etc. Moon/Pluto - deep compulsive love, an archetype, bunga bunga and romantic, can become deep hatred or unrequited Venus/Pluto - similar with the above, but not quite: a love archetype, can be an unrequited aspect as well Venus/Neptune - classic and very romantic aspect Venus/Uranus - can be very romantic and bunga bunga, read the myth, also a possible unrequited/separative aspect Mars/Pluto - very hot bunga bunga Mars/Neptune - hot bunga bunga with lots of fantasies, can be romantic Moon/Saturn - a marital archetype Any of the above aspects, in isolation, can be part of a good friendship. Sun/Sun and Moon/Moon aspects are also very important for mutual attraction, no matter the aspect. Venus/Venus Mars/Mars etc. are a bonus in a good romantic synastry.
Ah, thanks Leeloo , I'm saving this in my love file hehe. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 03:42 PM
You're welcome, sweetie. I added a lost phrase.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
We've got ourselves a gremlin, ladies.
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:48 PM
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You're welcome, sweetie. I added a lost phrase.
Thanks lovely, phrase added. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 03:55 PM
I want to add something about the Mars/Neptune conjunction: this one poses some problems, it can have the opposite effect: dilute Mars's drive/attraction.IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I want to add something about the Mars/Neptune conjunction: this one poses some problems, it can have the opposite effect: dilute Mars's drive/attraction.
Isn't Mars/Neptune conjunction has potential for tantric sex? ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 04:03 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Isn't Mars/Neptune conjunction has potential for tantric sex?
Yes, I think so...but it can also go the other way...underwater sex hahahaha
Well, that's not bad...I mean spilling an ocean of salted water on Mars fire arrow
I think more distant aspects are better in this case.
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Orange
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posted July 07, 2014 04:06 PM
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Yes, I think so...but it can also go the other way...underwater sex hahahaha
Well, that's not bad...I mean spilling an ocean of salted water on Mars fire arrow
I think more distant aspects are better in this case.
Mars/Neptune is sexey!
Neptune wants the Mars one, but plays hard-to-get. Mars likes that game and off he goes to capture Neptune, but it's not so easy. It's particularly entrancing. IP: Logged | |
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