posted July 07, 2014 09:32 AM            

To give me an example, can you tell me if I have romantic feelings in this synastry? I'm on the inside. I know what I feel or the lack thereof, so I can give you feedbacks ^^.

posted July 07, 2014 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Oops...new data

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It's old data actually, I want to analyze myself . I'm gathering information for my falling in love aspects.

Cappy, you witch, do you read mind? Shhh...

posted July 07, 2014 12:41 PM            

The sun/moon you guys have is good, means you understand him emotionally, but then you have moon square moon which isn't so good. That would mean at times you don't understand each other emotionally, probably can make each other crazy.

I don't see anything stable, I see lots of destruction and misunderstanding. You have too many hard aspects overruling the good ones. Passion that leaves just asquickly as it appeared. I don't see anything that's worthwhile or lasting. It looks one sided with the both of you.

Are you guys dating now? I see an age gap, how was that?

posted July 07, 2014 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
In the chart i see Venus-Neptune.. isnt that a love aspect?
I remember Leeleo said Moon-Venus n possibly moon Neptune as a lovey dovey aspect. It was in my thread where i posted a synastry chart of my husband and me. Moon-Venus DW and moon-Neptune DW.
Correct me if Im wrong LL : )

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I don't know if you're wrong ^^, that's why I asked. Neptune rules my 11th house, I appreciate his care but maybe it's too soft an aspect for me? My Neptune sextile my Venus already, I didn't feel any different . I can speak for Moon-Venus in this case, nothing lovey-dovey, just mutual appreciation, like one friend for another.

posted July 07, 2014 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
I would love to know that as well.

I used to think that sun/venus etc. indicate love but I've had such aspects with sooo many human beings and I am pretty sure that I never really loved and no one ever really loved me....I would have been married 1000 times if those aspect really indicate love.

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With my friends usually I have Moon-Venus aspects, Sun-Venus as well, I think it's another kind of love, not necessarily romantic.

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He wasn't man enough for you?

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posted July 07, 2014 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
In terms of love Sun/Moon, Saturn/Venus, Moon/Pluto, Mars/Moon, Uranus/Venus, harmonious ascendant aspects and 12th house aspects.

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Ah, so these are love aspects? Thank you, apart from Sun/Moon and Mars/Moon, are outer planets make us fall in love? I'm beginning to think Saturn is my love planet number one.

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Are you guys dating now? I see the age difference lol, how was that?

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He courted me, I refused ^^. But he was very important for my growth, made me see what I really want in a man. Honestly the age difference doesn't matter much to me. After him I fall in love with an even older guy , no big deal.

posted July 07, 2014 01:06 PM            

I don't mind age gaps either. I married a guy 16 years older, you'd have no idea there was any, talking or hanging out with the both of us. Age is nothing but a number.

posted July 07, 2014 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I think they are and very important. Angular aspects are pretty huge too in synastry in my opinion. Saturn is HUGE as well.

I don't mind age gaps either. I married a guy 16 years older, you'd have no idea there was any, talking or hanging out with the both of us. Age is nothing but a number.

I'm glad he helped you grow, that's really awesome. Hopefully you find someone who's even better.

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Thanks ^^, and if by the older guy you mean DeepFreeze, I'm glad you found such beautiful love. Just a side question though, about the love aspects, does a synastry have to have all those aspects for love to happen? I have experienced Moon/Mars, Sun/Moon, Saturn , Pluto/Venus/Sun, and no romantic feelings for me either. Would a lot of planets-angle aspects, especially ASC/DSC axis, indicate love?

posted July 07, 2014 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I have had all of the forementioned aspects with other people, but if my 7th house ruler does not aspect their Venus or Sun, I don't feel love. My 7th house ruler rules my relationships..

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When someone puts his love planets on your Angles, especially Venus, do you feel love? How about his DSC ruler makes aspect to your DSC ruler, not necessarily Venus/Sun?

posted July 07, 2014 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
I don't know if you're wrong ^^, that's why I asked. Neptune rules my 11th house, I appreciate his care but maybe it's too soft an aspect for me? My Neptune sextile my Venus already, I didn't feel any different . I can speak for Moon-Venus in this case, nothing lovey-dovey, just mutual appreciation, like one friend for another.

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posted July 07, 2014 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Thanks ^^, and if by the older guy you mean DeepFreeze, I'm glad you found such beautiful love. Just a side question though, about the love aspects, does a synastry have to have all those aspects for love to happen? I have experienced Moon/Mars, Sun/Moon, Saturn , Pluto/Venus/Sun, and no romantic feelings for me either. Would a lot of planets-angle aspects, especially ASC/DSC axis, indicate love?

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Yes DeepFreeze thank you. Still don't know go I got so lucky.

posted July 07, 2014 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I dont know Tulipe. Thing is with my husband,all our angles are conjunct. Not asc/dsc axis but IC/MC axis. Angles conjunct nodes. N some planets too. Plus Venus-moon,moon-neptune,moon-pluto,mars-Jupiter double whammys. Sun-neptune,Saturn trine Venus. Ruler of seventh house conjunct Desc, Vertex conjunct Desc, Mars-Venus aspects. We have just one Uranus aspect. So i dont know. He puts his Asc,Sun,mercury in my SECONDARY SEVENTH house. Thats what works for me.

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Wow, Geminigal, what synastry you have there, no wonder your husband asked you to marry him on your 2nd date (correct me if I'm wrong ^^). In this case I think Moon/Venus, Venus/Neptune add to the lovey-dovey feelings, but you're already in love before you feel those aspects lol. Awww, do you have prominent Uranus in Composite per chance?

posted July 07, 2014 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Yes DeepFreeze thank you. Still don't know go I got so lucky.

No they don't all have to happen at the same time. I think moon/moon though is really important. But the synastry has to have harmonious aspects as well as bad. Not more of the bad though, too much tug and pull. Passion that leaves very quickly. I absolutely agree that planets-angle aspects indicate love, powerful love. Ascendant aspects seem important in our relationship so I'd think it'd be important in others.

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We receive what we give . Thanks for giving me hope , your story is inspiring.
And so I shall put Angle aspects, Angle rulers aspects in my love aspects list, as the core must-have. Aspects from outer planets to love planets as spices and inner to inner as mutual appreciation. What should we fit the houses overlay in? I'm thinking about Lotis's theory on secondary love houses.

posted July 07, 2014 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
When someone puts his love planets on your Angles, especially Venus, do you feel love? How about his DSC ruler makes aspect to your DSC ruler, not necessarily Venus/Sun?

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not, no feelings. i have two examples where one of the persons had their Venus exactly on my ASC and North Node, and another one with their Venus exactly on my DSC/Sun/South Node and I've felt absolutely nothing for them other than friendship feelings. In both cases, my 7th house ruler was unaspected.

In all other cases when i fell in love - my 7th house ruler was aspected vy either Venus or Sun, while other so called love aspects were not present

posted July 07, 2014 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Wow, Geminigal, what synastry you have there, no wonder your husband asked you to marry him on your 2nd date (correct me if I'm wrong ^^). In this case I think Moon/Venus, Venus/Neptune add to the lovey-dovey feelings, but you're already in love before you feel those aspects lol. Awww, do you have prominent Uranus in Composite per chance?

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posted July 07, 2014 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
With my friends usually I have Moon-Venus aspects, Sun-Venus as well, I think it's another kind of love, not necessarily romantic.

[QUOTE][b]He wasn't man enough for you?

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Hey, you have venus in scorpio and mars in aries and does his natal promise to match these requirements? No!