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Topic: What are the love aspects in synastry?
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 04:08 PM
  
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Originally posted by Orange:
Mars/Neptune is sexey!
Neptune wants the Mars one, but plays hard-to-get. Mars likes that and off he goes to capture them, but it's not so easy. It's particularly entrancing.
Yes, yes, I agree, sis. But the conjunction is a bit tricky, IMO, can go the other way. Of course, it's not always so. IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 04:13 PM
Mars/Neptune = Sex addiction/tantric sex/underwater sex ^^/drowning sex lol I think all outer planets contact are tricky, I myself seek Mars oppose Neptune in Composite romantic relationship.
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 07, 2014 04:17 PM
drowning sex hahahaha
what do you mean by "seeking"? It's an aspect you like?
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
what do you mean by "seeking"? It's an aspect you like?
By 'seeking' I mean with the first round/person it got close, the second round/person it became an exact opposition, it's like I'm seeking it out. I have natal Mars square Neptune ^^. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 07, 2014 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
By 'seeking' I mean with the first round/person it got close, the second round/person it became an exact opposition, it's like I'm seeking it out. I have natal Mars square Neptune ^^.
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next to neptune
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From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 07, 2014 04:30 PM
I like neptune as well - neptune/sun, neptune/moon and neptune/venus!IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 04:40 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I like neptune as well - neptune/sun, neptune/moon and neptune/venus!
lol, you're Neptune's neighbor, no wonder. ------------------
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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted July 07, 2014 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Aww, yes, I didn't feel any physical attraction which is a big must for me in love relationship. It may sound shallow but it's the only difference between love rel and friendship for me.
Friendship plus sex sounds more like FWB to me...What about being in love? Don't you think it should be the main marker of a LOVE relationship? You were in love with your ex-boyfriend, right? If yes, then it's surprising that you ommited this aspect. ------------------
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 04:50 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Friendship plus sex sounds more like FWB to me...What about being in love? Don't you think it should be the main marker of a LOVE relationship? You were in love with your ex-boyfriend, right? If yes, then it's surprising that you ommited this aspect.
Ow, you misunderstand me. I love my friends like I love my family, as my flesh and blood. With my ex-boyfriend, apart from romantic feelings, I love him like I'd love a brother. ------------------
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted July 07, 2014 04:55 PM
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With my ex-boyfriend, apart from romantic feelings, I love him like I'd love a brother.
Interesting. Maybe your feelings are turning platonic since you're not together anymore. Unless you always felt this way about him...But wouldn't that feel like incest?  ------------------
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next to neptune
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From: The Moon
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posted July 07, 2014 05:00 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
lol, you're Neptune's neighbor, no wonder.
Yeah well I am, but I'm also very romantic and lovey-dovey IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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From: France
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posted July 07, 2014 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]With my ex-boyfriend, apart from romantic feelings, I love him like I'd love a brother.
Interesting. Maybe your feelings are turning platonic since you're not together anymore. Unless you always felt this way about him...[/QUOTE] huh? To me it is to have his back, to be there for him when he hits a rough patch, loving him for who he is, and letting him go wherever his heart tells him to. That is platonic? That is what I feel for my friends too, I have very few friends because I can only love like that with few. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 07, 2014 05:04 PM
Hey, what's the quarrel here? Being in love and feeling unconditional love are not mutually exclusive IMO.IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]But wouldn't that feel like incest?
Family love to me is to always love each other no matter what life throws at us or what mistakes we made. He's just an ideal brother that I want to have, sorry ^^, I should explain it more clearly. ------------------
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Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hey, what's the quarrel here? Being in love and feeling unconditional love are not mutually exclusive IMO.
Cappy didn't understand what friendship and family love mean to me . ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 05:10 PM
But you were in love too, right??IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 05:19 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
But you were in love too, right??
Yeah, I stayed in a unfamiliar unfriendly country (at that time) which I've never imagined doing, faced loneliness, difficulties, I'm leaving my family and friends who I love dearly behind. You think it's just for physical attraction? ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 07, 2014 05:25 PM
Me? No. Anyway, when there's love, it's difficult to draw the line, it's all mixed up: feeling in love with unconditional love with physical attraction etc.  They're all there, acting in sync.IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 07, 2014 05:30 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Me? No. Anyway, when there's love, it's difficult to draw the line, it's all mixed up: feeling in love with unconditional love with physical attraction etc. They're all there, acting in sync.
What I mean about physical attraction is that if I didn't feel the sparks at first, I won't develop romantic feelings later. And if I will consider that person to be my friend or not, only time will tell. And I don't separate being in love, unconditional love and physical attraction etc either, it's the whole bunch. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted July 07, 2014 05:33 PM
I can relate to that, Tulipe, I am the same. And if there's no physical attraction, romantic love can't develop either (for me).IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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From: France
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posted July 07, 2014 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I can relate to that, Tulipe, I am the same. And if there's no physical attraction, romantic love can't develop either (for me).
I think what I described is very plutonian, saturnian and neptunian too ^^. Aw, my kind of love  . Well, I'm off to bed now ladies. Thank you all for replying to my questions ^^, I learned so much from this, and it's great talking and sharing ideas with you. ------------------
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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted July 08, 2014 05:10 AM
But unconditional love doesn't exist  ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 08, 2014 06:13 AM
It is there, somewhere, very hidden  You think not? IP: Logged |
Tulipe
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posted July 08, 2014 06:26 AM
I believe in it, as I believe Santa Clause exists somewhere
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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted July 08, 2014 06:56 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It is there, somewhere, very hidden You think not?
It probably is there, somewhere. In the dimension of the Source. If not unconditional love then at least complete acceptance. ------------------
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