posted April 23, 2011 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
The conjunction can also encourage/suggest role playing.

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posted May 18, 2011 12:56 PM            

Neptune dissolves boundaries and blocks in order to let the soul flow, it dissolves anything that can blind the soul, even the ego.

For me, when i act on neptune, by repressing, my mars becomes stronger, more erotic. My dreams become extremely erotic and my sexual nature becomes more intense, like i can feel my sexuality more strongly.
But ti takes awareness, and dissolving of the ego somewhat. If you act on mars and neptune's bad vibes, you can become a nympho, acholic, drug addict all over something simple. Neptune takes all that martian energy and seeks to make it more grand so to speak, to peek it. Repressing for a minute from sex can make you see what the passioanate side of mars is truly about

I have a **** load of fantasies and perfer to be seduced as i think seduction is a part of sex and its nature. I love mystery and strictly go off vibes, not superficial things. I am attracted to and act on heat, not on the shallow things like looks.

npetune and mars takes alot of work if stressed. For me i had to go thru the bad phases first, through self denial, self inflicted pain, inner blindness, drinking and drugging, submission, and finally enlightment and inner truth. At first, i hated it i hated finding the readings and how they summed it up badly, but later on, i took a plunge within and learned that neptune deals with depth, pluto deals with the bottom line and neptune deals with the levels and intrevals of whatever it touches. It taught me the levels and interevals of my mars, with anger and how to channel it, self control and passion and how all of them work from the soul.

if you look at the bad, neptune doesnt have any boundaries. so you go down and drive yourself further down by succumbing to the dark side of neptune, the repression and stae of denial. But neptune places no limit of ascending either, you can go up and keep rising above any limitation

what it does love is subtleness and mystery and i know i come off as mysterious to many people. some women go for that bad boy reckless **** , i tried that image myself. But some women like who i am, how i carry out my plans subtlely and show myself through vibrations, not a big show. If you cant feel it, then im not there lol

posted May 18, 2011 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
So about SYNASTRY.....

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posted May 18, 2011 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
So about manners.

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posted May 18, 2011 09:18 PM            

Crazy Aquarian --- When you have a personal planet in aspect to an outer planet - as you said - you won't feel it with everyone in your generation. But it's very likely that you will feel it with people in your generation who have an aspect between the same planets.
I have the conjunction -- and my first love had the trine. (Taurus Mars trine Cap Neptune).
You always feel it, when it is a double whammy.

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In my chart I love this aspect. I think it's great from many perspectives... and as usual I disagree with the biased and pessimistic take of certain astrologers whose name I'd rather not even mention (to cut down publicity).

posted May 20, 2011 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
MyLibraWorld - What sign do you have this aspect in?
I've never been seriously addicted to anything. I mean I joke around that I'm addicted to astrology and chocolate and sex, but I'm actually not. A lot of people think it's nuts that I've never been drunk and that I barely ever drink coffee (which are two typical things most everyone is addicted to)
My conjunction is in Capricorn - 2' orb.

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posted May 20, 2011 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Welcome to the boards, MyLibraWorld.

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posted April 09, 2012 09:49 AM            

It's a PDF file, you'd have to DL it to see, but I'll post the info on Mars/Neptune to make it easier.

Synastry Neptune and Mars

Because Mars and Neptune are antithetical in nature, it might initially
seem that strong cross-aspects between them are invariably problematic.
Some descriptions of this pairing are downright sinister, implying that the
Neptune person leads the Mars person into corrupt ways. But despite its
bad press, this combination, creatively handled, may eventually prove
more fulfilling for both people than, for example, Moon-Neptune, whose
regressive pull may be claustrophobic in a sexual or parent-child relationship,
or Venus-Neptune, whose extreme romanticism may not tolerate
aging or ordinary human foibles. The tension and antipathy between
Mars and Neptune can sometimes become destructive, leading to cruelty
and victimization within a relationship. Equally, it may generate enormous
excitement, energy and creative enthusiasm:;-provided there is some
consciousness of the dynamic involved.
Neptune perceives in Mars' strength and vigor the redeemer as hero
or heroine-tough, potent, decisive, and capable of making things happen
in the world. Even if Mars is placed in a gentle or non-aggressive sign, such
as Cancer, Libra, or Pisces, and even if the Mars person feels anything but
heroic, the Neptune person will still idealize Mars' courageous spirit albeit
expressed in a sensitive and tactful fashion. Neptune looks to Mars
as a kind of champion: the one who will fight one's battles, protect one's
vulnerability, take on the world, and perhaps "take" oneself as well. The
sexual attraction between Neptune and Mars may be very potent, but the
fantasies are rather different from those between Neptune and Venus.

Neptune longs to be dominated by the superior strength of Mars, although
such feelings are often deeply embarrassing to acknowledge on a conscious
level because of the vulnerability involved. A man whose Neptune is in
close conjunction with a woman's Mars, and who is used to seeing himself
as the sexual initiator, may find it disturbing and threatening to discover
that he longs for a reversal of roles, and sometimes feels-and enjoys feeling-
dependent and helpless beside her.
Mars, in turn, tends to flourish in the role of champion and protector,
and the Mars person may feel stronger, more potent and more fulfilled
because there is a worthy cause to fight for. Mars will happily play the
knight, and Neptune the damsel in distress; regardless of gender, this is
the archetypal dynamic behind the aspect. Mars is St. George, or Perseus,
or Jeanne d'Arc, full of clumsy but sincere compassion, ready to strike
down the dragon and rescue the prince or princess from danger, imprisonment
or the world's lack of understanding. Neptune can invoke a greater
sense of power in Mars; Mars can invoke an awareness of fragility and other-worldliness
in Neptune. So far, all is well; Neptune inspires Mars to
greater vision, and Mars provides Neptune with a shield against misfortune.
But because we so often find Neptune frightening and dangerous to
the ego's need for control, the Neptune person may refuse to acknowledge
his or her dependency, or may experience deep unconscious envy of Mars'
toughness and sexual power. Secret fear, envy, and dependency may provoke
Neptune to undermine Mars' initiative and self-confidence, in highly
manipulative ways which frustrate the Mars person and fan anger and
even violence. Mars cannot fight underwater and, when baited, prefers the
efficacy of a simple punch or shouting match. Equally often, Neptune may
become addicted to being led; and Mars may eventually become weary of
always having to wear suits of armor while Neptune relaxes in yet another
warm bath.
The sexual charisma of Mars, as perceived by Neptune, may seem
untrustworthy and dangerous, because the protector might, at any point,
go off and protect or conquer someone else. In an effort to bind the Mars
person, Neptune may try to obtain protection through failure, illness or
victimization, or may unconsciously undermine Mars' potency through
subtle forms of rejection and evasiveness which keep Mars feeling uncertain
and confused. Neptune can thwart Mars' need for clear-cut action,
asking Mars to make the decisions, and then sabotaging the results. Or
Neptune may resort to sexual coyness and deceit, baffling Mars' cruder but
more honest approach to sexual matters. Neptune is adept at producing a
classic "Not tonight, but maybe tomorrow" script; Mars is refused, but
never directly, and the eager knight is kept hoping and waiting, 'increasingly furious
and frustrated, while Neptune plays virginal, tantalizing, or a peculiar combination of the two.
Ongoing frustration may draw cruelty and violence from Mars, as bear-baiting will draw savagery from the bear.

Behind this sad enactment is the Neptune person's deep fear of losing his
or her champion, whose strength and sexual magnetism are so idealized,
and without whom one might fall into the abyss. The less the Neptune
individual is able to honestly express his or her own capacity for aggression
and creative potency, the darker the undercurrents are likely to be.
The highly charged exchange of these two planets in cross-aspect can
generate not only enormous sexual pleasure and fulfillment, but also
inspired creative vision in both individuals. Neptune's imagination can be
directed and earthed by Mars, in lovemaking and in creative projects; and
if this contact occurs between two people who work together, it can be a
wonderfully productive and rewarding combination. It is perhaps most
difficult between parent and child, particularly if the child is Neptune and
the parent Mars; for the Oedipal dynamic may be colored by darker
themes. The faintly sadomasochistic edge of Mars-Neptune may be harmless
and even highly pleasurable between adults, but can be extremely
destructive enacted within the family fabric. Neptune possesses the gift of
subtle frustration, which can invoke violence in a violent Mars. Feelings of
guilt and shame may exacerbate the confusion. Yet it is not inherently
pathological to idealize one's parent or one's child--erotically or otherwise.
Pathology enters when there is unconsciousness and a blind acting out of
emotions. Mars-Neptune in synastry may reflect covert sexual manipulation,
subtle cruelty, and the loss of respect for one's own and the other person's
boundaries. Yet Mars-Neptune contacts between charts are not "dangerous"
or "bad." To offer its best, Mars-Neptune requires a greater degree
of self-awareness than many other synastry aspects. But the rewards are
worth the effort.

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Venus-Neptune, whose extreme romanticism may not
tolerate
aging or ordinary human foibles.

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posted April 09, 2012 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
I have had this conjunction very closely with like 3 different men, I dont think romantic, thats more venus neptune. The sex can go from absolutely divine and ecstatic to the most miserable and unsatisfying you ever had, No joke. There can also be an element of abuse, one astrologer said it was an indicator of possible rape or "being taken advantage of under the influence." In one experience of mine this was Precisely true.

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Were you the Mars or Neptune in this instance. I'm very sorry that happened to you.

The guy I'm talking to atm has his mars conjunct my neptune in cap. we don't have enough of a relationship for me to give you anything substantial, though.

posted April 09, 2012 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
I have had this conjunction very closely with like 3 different men, I dont think romantic, thats more venus neptune. The sex can go from absolutely divine and ecstatic to the most miserable and unsatisfying you ever had, No joke. There can also be an element of abuse, one astrologer said it was an indicator of possible rape or "being taken advantage of under the influence." In one experience of mine this was Precisely true.

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