posted August 17, 2016 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
I agree that the Saturn/moon conjunction is very binding. Either in a composite or natal. in the natal the person will always elicit long term relationships. and in the composite devotion is always present. and I also agree that sometimes the Saturn/moon conjunction can be a problem as one will stick with bad relationship just a strongly with good relationships

todd

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posted August 18, 2016 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
What do you folks think about Venus trine or sextile Saturn?

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I think it depends so much on Saturn in the natals. Was it this thread where someone--Todd I think--was saying that people with Moon-Saturn conjunct natally attract only long-term relationships, but also will stay in bad relationships for the long haul? I have it conjunct my DC in 7h Cancer and I also have Cancer Venus--I have LOTS of (hard and soft) Saturn DWs in all my good relationships, bad relationships, in-between and mixed relationships, platonic friendships. If Saturn energy doesn't come up, I guess it doesn't feel like anything important is happening for me? It's also my chart ruler.

That said, I experience hard aspects and soft aspects really the same way--Saturn makes the relationship feel important, binding, and serious in a good way--and they also have a sapping, bummer effect on the non-Saturn planet being aspected.

posted March 01, 2017 02:37 PM            

However there are some very long-term binding aspects and they tend to involve saturn and some of them are not good at all.

Simplified: oppositions and squares to saturn are very binding, but unhappy relationships. Conjunctions to saturn are similar. Only sextiles and trines are positive.

posted March 01, 2017 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
Lifetime binding is hard to come by in this age of Viagra and youth obsession.

However there are some very long-term binding aspects and they tend to involve saturn and some of them are not good at all.

Simplified: oppositions and squares to saturn are very binding, but unhappy relationships. Conjunctions to saturn are similar. Only sextiles and trines are positive.

Saturn square mars is very binding and often found in abusive relationships. Saturn wants to control mars and mars is a very independant planet which means it does not take lightly to being controlled. Almost always mars gets up and leaves saturn...or tries to. But Saturn (usually the abuser in the relationship) thinks it has a right to try to MAKE mars stay with him anyway and he can use some pretty nasty tactics to make that happen. From what I've seen mars usually gets the upper hand in the end, by leaving Saturn alone in the mud while mars finally gains their independance again. When Saturn is sextile mars, the Saturn person supports mars in their ambitions rather than trying to control them. Both are binding, but you have to ask yourself what you really want to be bound to. Not everyone's love is worth having. Especially with Saturn, that person's version of love can involve controlling behavior.

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posted March 03, 2017 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Venus Saturn from my experience.
Neptune also, that delusional d-bag

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LOL, I've had this one. Blahhhh. Seems like a smoke screen at times but I still care for him in that I want him happy in life etc. He could be elusive , make plans and then skip on them. Not too much but it would happen from time to time. I adored him though and still think he is adorable.

posted March 07, 2018 11:46 PM            

My first best friend from childhood (I was 2, she was 4, we lived across the street) had her Sun exactly conj my South node/Saturn. We're no longer in touch as much but it was a long friendship and we'll always be tied/remember each other & we traded Christmas cards every year.
My longest childhood friend has her Moon conj my MC/South Node/Saturn. Her Sun is also conj my ASC & opp my Vertex, our nodes are conjunct, Mars conjunct, my moon conj her Venus. (same as her husband.) We were born 10 days apart - so our charts are very similar. We've known each other since age 5, her family is like family to me, we've traveled all around the world together & I was in her wedding. We'll definitely be friends for the rest of our lives. ;}