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posted April 19, 2016 01:54 PM            

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*shudders*

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posted April 19, 2016 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I bet his Sagittarius Venus is over it already.

(tease)

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Yeah I know he's got women throwing themselves at his feet so....

He'll recover okay.

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posted April 27, 2016 06:09 PM            

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I'm not sure why I never got these post notifications. You all are such teasers. Golly.

And yes, I am recovered. Thank you.

"Love goes on." — Venus in Sagittarius

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posted April 27, 2016 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
"Love goes on." — Venus in Sagittarius

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Cheers to that

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posted May 31, 2016 10:57 PM            

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My little Sag Venus spoke too soon.

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posted May 31, 2016 11:18 PM            

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Is there anything you'd like to report to the saturn-venus files?

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posted May 31, 2016 11:32 PM            

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I think it might be mars retrograde and with Mercury not too long out of Rx too. I feel as though I am back in square one. For the past week, she has been on my mind constantly. In our composite chart, our venus was conjunct pluto in scorpio.

There hasn't been any contact between us though and I'd rather eat broken glass than contact her again. LOL.

Edit: It ended in April-ish, and I know it hasn't been long enough, so I can understand that part. The obsessive thoughts however, very unlike me.

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posted May 31, 2016 11:41 PM            

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Did you get a closure when you ended it? Or was it done at the spur of the moment?

Saturn-Venus is karmic. She is probably thinking about you at the same moment, ya kno

these things are interchangable

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posted May 31, 2016 11:46 PM            

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It was a spur of the moment and it was the damn boat weekend that I mentioned before and I was angry, but fed up. She tried to reach out over text message, but I never responded.

As far as thinking about me too, we were linked that way when were together. I always knew when she was upset about something.

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posted June 01, 2016 12:21 AM            

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think about the frustration, too. Not just the good times. People tend to forget why they wanted to break up in the first place and romanticize the relationship after its over.
( i know, easier said then done)

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posted June 01, 2016 12:24 AM            

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I have venus conjunct saturn natally, so I suppose that' why usually in synastry it doesn't create much problem. It's tolerable.

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posted June 01, 2016 04:27 AM            

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The Saturn of a generation sits right on my sun/asc.
I would feel critized, oppressed and unloved. I simply hate that. No chance to get involved with me.
But i guees it depends on the natal chart- i am heavily Aries influenced and no aries wants to feel restriction

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posted June 01, 2016 04:46 AM            

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I have been dating different people from the generation whose Saturn falls on my ascendant for the past year and I dunno... I'm Aries influenced too with the (classical) final dispositor of my Scorpio planets being Mars in Aries... but without this too I think I would find Saturn-Asc soooo difficult. I'm maybe (maybe again) breaking up with my guy because it's just not fair to either of us. If we were to stay together it would be eggshells for him and STILL he wouldn't be able to avoid hurting me and making me feel like crap... this is what a Vedic astrologer said re: my last relationship with his Saturn on my Asc and it seems to hold true for this one too man is it ever sad... i wonder if anyone ever did have a happy relationship like this. The ascendant person has to be willing to be a real doormat. I can't quite do it. I slip up once and talk back and he's out the door fuming. Thank the beautiful Mean Dark Moon conjunct my Vesta and soon my ascendant for this latest slip-up...

.... yeesh, Saturn...

I always think if only they could get a handle on their Saturn. Ha! Wait about 50 years and then maybe!

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posted June 01, 2016 07:43 AM            

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I don't think a Scorp would ever be a doormat, Yun. You've got too much pizzazz.

Regardless, one shouldn't be made to feel like a doormat, or 'put down' in any way. If that's what's inadvertently happening, despite him trying not to -- then don't feel bad about taking a break and some breathing room for yourself.

And yeah, one really has to have a 'handle' on that Saturn -- or Mr *safe haven* can quickly turn to Mr *suffocating the life outta me*.

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