posted April 01, 2016 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
What bothers you about the Venus person?

I am the Venus in a Saturn-Venus conjunction, and I am tired of the never satisfied Saturn. Demands keep pouring. Enough already. Just love me the way I am, as I love them the way they are. I have virtually no demands towards the Saturn person.

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OK, if that's how you wanna do it.

Enough of the underhanded stuff. If you're feeling unloved, under appreciated, under-cuddled, say something. Tell me. I'm doing my best here. I take time off work to spend time with you, but that's not enough.

If you want to go out with your girlfriends, fine, but tell me ahead of time so I can cancel the plans we made a week earlier. Be considerate of my time and life too. You say you love me and respect our relationship, then match your actions with your words. What's so hard about that?
Edit: if you didn't want to spend the day out on the boat, then say something and give me some suggestions here! For the love of Joseph!

Edit #2! And I'll huff and I'll puff and I'll blow this freakin' house down! sorry I got heated for a moment there.

Orange, is that enough? I hope you got the jist.

posted April 02, 2016 12:13 AM            

Venus: Well, how am I supposed to know, you haven't told me in 24 hours.

Me: OK...

The struggle is real. I can't believe how accurate the descriptions are for this aspect in synastry.

posted April 02, 2016 12:34 AM            

he said - I dont believe Saturn is all that bad. You probably are playing the victim now Let me go to read it myself online

posted April 02, 2016 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Loved reading this thread 🤓👍

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posted April 09, 2016 09:46 AM            

They are nothing like that.
Interestingly if someone`s a bit critical at times it is the Venus-person.

But all in all they are just very devoted to each other, cooperative, constructively, plus very affectionate and caring.

And Orange? I can only imagine the storm that would follow, if my Dad dared to address my Mom in that way, asking her if she was wearing underwear.
Though he seriously couldnīt care less if she did or did not. It would ust never occur to him to be a subject of talk!

And well I do have to say though that my Mom sometimes criticizes his "sloppy" way of dressing (he is Saturn conjunct ASC in Virgo - you can imagine HOW sloppy he really dresses! ), but it usually just leads to a bit of verbal banter and joking (and him getting changed, because it just doesn`t really matter to him that much, but if it does to her, he seems to be okay with it).

How I see it also play out in their case is the grace and elegance they radiate when they dance. They usually attract a lot of attention when they do, because there`s just something quite classically elegant about them dancing. Which they still love to do btw.

posted April 09, 2016 05:52 PM            

It seems a similar dynamic is developing between my partner and his most recent crush/beloved person... his Saturn, her Venus... and very little activation of her Saturn (her descendant ruler), save a trine to his Mercury (Asc ruler). I think an imbalance in Saturn aspects can bring on these kinds of issues, a sense that we are giving unequal levels of respect and consideration. We are looking for Saturn balance in general, whether they come through midpoints (Saturn/Juno, Saturn/Jupiter...), or ptolemaic aspects or whatever.

Anyway she just left for a 3 week trip to south America with her boyfriend and he was pretty hurt that she didn't call to say goodbye or anything so he texted her a goodbye. He's saying they had agreed to stay in touch regularly and he feels she isn't holding up her end. This is painful for him because he wants to maintain the connection and he notes that they do dissolve if not upkept. It seems to me like he's almost demanding a lot of her which she isn't prepared to do... after all she's decided she would rather remain committed to this other guy and there's a reason for that. A person can only do so much.

posted April 09, 2016 07:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Sorry to hear that champ

You are going thru a Transit of Saturn in square to your Venus and relationship do break up under this difficult transit. It is a saturn test for your love. If it is a strong one, it will keep on living. Break up, make up.
If it doesn't serve you any more purpose, Saturn will wipe it out without your consent. Whatever happens, its for the best.

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posted April 09, 2016 09:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
How many times has transiting Saturn squared your Venus so far? Things completely resolve/dissolve after the final third hit ( provided it hits back and forth instead of just once).

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