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ChildofVenus
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posted August 13, 2017 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?

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posted August 14, 2017 05:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?

Absolutely,, I have this with a female co worker and I love her to pieces. I am Saturn, I do watch not to do the wet blanket thing or try to but at the same time, Saturn will be solid for the moon person.

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posted August 14, 2017 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always found this aspect to be binding, in that it creates a sense of not giving up on eachother, so can help a relationship become long term..

Although it can have a dull, plodding along, boring effect to the relationship, maybe feeling that you come to a stale mate or that the moon person may feel the Saturn person is a bit of a drip. Or perhaps a too sober a relationship, lacking in spontaneous passion... it does though provide reliability in eachother, a sense of being able to trust in eachother to always be around...

If you are a person like myself who seeks stability in a partner who is consistent, then this is a nice aspect to have.
If you are after excitement and adventure in your partner, then this might not work for you.

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posted August 14, 2017 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
I've always found this aspect to be binding, in that it creates a sense of not giving up on eachother, so can help a relationship become long term..

Although it can have a dull, plodding along, boring effect to the relationship, maybe feeling that you come to a stale mate or that the moon person may feel the Saturn person is a bit of a drip. Or perhaps a too sober a relationship, lacking in spontaneous passion... it does though provide reliability in eachother, a sense of being able to trust in eachother to always be around...

If you are a person like myself who seeks stability in a partner who is consistent, then this is a nice aspect to have.
If you are after excitement and adventure in your partner, then this might not work for you.


Thanks for your input do you know how this aspect would play out in regards to friendship?

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posted August 14, 2017 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iridia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If by emotional bond you mean something warm and overall pleasant then I wouldn't look for that in this aspect. Attachment? Sure, but it may feel like prison more than anything. Saturn is likely to feel responsible for the Moon, maybe even protective. The Moon could become a little too dependent on Saturn. Not a bad aspect if the people involved want something serious and lasting.

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posted August 14, 2017 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Iridia:
If by emotional bond you mean something warm and overall pleasant then I wouldn't look for that in this aspect. Attachment? Sure, but it may feel like prison more than anything. Saturn is likely to feel responsible for the Moon, maybe even protective. The Moon could become a little too dependent on Saturn. Not a bad aspect if the people involved want something serious and lasting.

But I've read some positive things about this aspect though.

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posted August 14, 2017 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I have Moon-Saturn conjunct natally, so pretty much all of my school year had Saturn conjunct my Moon too. In terms of friendship it is wonderfully bonding.

My best friend from school feels like family and there's nothing sombre about our friendship We still laugh and laugh and laugh when we meet up.

I would think it would be more difficult if you lack Saturn in your personal chart but the flipside is that you would be drawn to it too. We always seek what we lack...

Actually, thinking about it my parents have this haha!! Their Moons are conjunct and my Dad was a Moon-Saturn too. They had a close, hilarious, powerful, amazingly deep 50 year marriage. It never crossed my mind for a second that either of my parents lacked devotion, even though they argued and wound each other up at times (Aries Sun & a Sun-Mars conjunction)...so yes it certainly aids true devotion and commitment :-)

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posted August 14, 2017 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?

Yes, it can but the Saturn person may be very critical of the Moon person, like calling the Moon person a baby when he is hurting etc

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posted August 21, 2017 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Makes sense, Ami!

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posted August 23, 2017 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes. Many happily married couples have this one. I Think it's overall a very good aspect unless perhaps someone's Saturn is badly aspected in their own natal chart.

The moon is a wavering planet and so it often craves stability. Saturn can provide this if it is conjunct, Trine or Sextile the moon.

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posted August 27, 2017 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think its a terrible aspect. For a man at least. Its like getting married to your overprotective mother who is there only to suffocate you. A very controlling aspect. Best to avoid!

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posted August 27, 2017 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I think its a terrible aspect. For a man at least. Its like getting married to your overprotective mother who is there only to suffocate you. A very controlling aspect. Best to avoid!


I have this aspect with a man he and I are friends he's the Moon and I'm Saturn. I don't think the Saturn person is out to make the Moon person miserable. It's not like we intentionally try to suffocate the Moon person. We just care a lot for them and want to be there for them. I know a lot of people say this is a negative aspect but there are good things about it as well. For example The guy that I have this aspect with is currently having some financial issues. And I've been there for him helping him so it's not all bad. At least the Moon person knows that they have someone around who is willing to stick by them. I thought the conjunction would be a little easier than the square and opposition.

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posted August 27, 2017 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have this aspect with a man he and I are friends he's the Moon and I'm Saturn. I don't think the Saturn person is out to make the Moon person miserable. It's not like we intentionally try to suffocate the Moon person. We just care a lot for them and want to be there for them. I know a lot of people say this is a negative aspect but there are good things about it as well. For example The guy that I have this aspect with is currently having some financial issues. And I've been there for him helping him so it's not all bad. At least the Moon person knows that they have someone around who is willing to stick by them. I thought the conjunction would be a little easier than the square and opposition.

Just friends right?

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posted August 27, 2017 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Just friends right?

Well no of course not because you can't be just friends with someone you share this aspect with.

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posted August 27, 2017 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well no of course not because you can't be just friends with someone you share this aspect with.

Um, yeah you can. I share the conjunction (or trine, opposition, square) with many of my life long friends.

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posted August 27, 2017 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, of course it can. I've seen it in synastries of long-term partners.

I personally think it is preferable if the aspect is not so tight, but depending on what else is going on in synastry, it can be just fine.

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posted August 30, 2017 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a Cappy moon. My husband of 14 yr had his Saturn conjunct it by 2 degrees.

He felt so stable. It was comforting knowing he was solid and always there for me.

I have never ever had any moon/ Saturn contact (either way) where one person belittled the other as another poster stated (calling them a baby?!) The maturity of your chosen partner is definitely a factor.

In studying the charts I've collected over the years of both long term friendships and relationships, nearly all have some sort of moon/ Saturn contact, even if just minor. Seems to be a necessary ingredient in keeping people together. More so than any other Saturn contact. Not certain why this is.

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posted September 05, 2017 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Um, yeah you can. I share the conjunction (or trine, opposition, square) with many of my life long friends.


When you mentioned this I decided to check the synastry of this guy who I have been friends with since 2001. There have been times where we have gone a year or so without talking. He has even relocated but we always end up talking again some how. And we have Moon sextile Saturn in synastry I'm the Saturn person.

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posted September 05, 2017 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Well I have Moon-Saturn conjunct natally, so pretty much all of my school year had Saturn conjunct my Moon too. In terms of friendship it is wonderfully bonding.


Can I ask in what sign and house? the guy I'm seeing has this aspect natal and oh boy my triple water Sun/ASC/Moon is having a hard time getting his feelings out.

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posted September 11, 2017 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 13, 2017 02:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abrightfutureahead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi as another user has said, I also share this aspect with many of my lifelong best friends. I think of it as the "I friend you" aspect and not always good for relationships unless their is some more exciting and loving aspects to the moon person especially, but for friendship this aspect along with a sun/moon or moon/Mercury in my experience leads to long term friendship connections.

It's almost as if the Saturn person completely accepts the moon person for who they are despite any emotional issues they may have and they share a mutual understanding of eachothers sensitive feelings.

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posted September 13, 2017 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
Hi as another user has said, I also share this aspect with many of my lifelong best friends. I think of it as the "I friend you" aspect and not always good for relationships unless their is some more exciting and loving aspects to the moon person especially, but for friendship this aspect along with a sun/moon or moon/Mercury in my experience leads to long term friendship connections.

It's almost as if the Saturn person completely accepts the moon person for who they are despite any emotional issues they may have and they share a mutual understanding of eachothers sensitive feelings.


I have the conjunction with someone in synasty and we have Moon conjunct Mercury in composite. And Sun oppostion Venus in synasty. And with another guy my Saturn trine or sextiles his Moon and we have been friends for 16 years.

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posted September 14, 2017 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wonderful. It's good to hear positive things about this aspect!

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The saturn person is like the stern father and moon well is like an emotional teenager. Saturn is the reality bringer and the moon prefers the realm of unlimited possibility.

This aspect reminds me of the movie what dreams may come with Robin Williams specifically when he is appreciating the beauty of the dream world. Once he realizes the fear that he needs to do things to save his wife that's when saturn gets added to the picture.

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The saturn person is like the stern father and moon well is like an emotional teenager. Saturn is the reality bringer and the moon prefers the realm of unlimited possibility.

This aspect reminds me of the movie what dreams may come with Robin Williams specifically when he is appreciating the beauty of the dream world. Once he realizes the fear that he needs to do things to save his wife that's when saturn gets added to the picture.

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