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Topic: Can Moon conjunct Saturn in synastry create an emotional bond?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 13, 2017 09:29 PM
I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 05:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?
Absolutely,, I have this with a female co worker and I love her to pieces. I am Saturn, I do watch not to do the wet blanket thing or try to but at the same time, Saturn will be solid for the moon person. IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 404 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 09:22 AM
I've always found this aspect to be binding, in that it creates a sense of not giving up on eachother, so can help a relationship become long term..Although it can have a dull, plodding along, boring effect to the relationship, maybe feeling that you come to a stale mate or that the moon person may feel the Saturn person is a bit of a drip. Or perhaps a too sober a relationship, lacking in spontaneous passion... it does though provide reliability in eachother, a sense of being able to trust in eachother to always be around... If you are a person like myself who seeks stability in a partner who is consistent, then this is a nice aspect to have. If you are after excitement and adventure in your partner, then this might not work for you. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 09:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by abrightfutureahead: I've always found this aspect to be binding, in that it creates a sense of not giving up on eachother, so can help a relationship become long term..Although it can have a dull, plodding along, boring effect to the relationship, maybe feeling that you come to a stale mate or that the moon person may feel the Saturn person is a bit of a drip. Or perhaps a too sober a relationship, lacking in spontaneous passion... it does though provide reliability in eachother, a sense of being able to trust in eachother to always be around... If you are a person like myself who seeks stability in a partner who is consistent, then this is a nice aspect to have. If you are after excitement and adventure in your partner, then this might not work for you.
Thanks for your input do you know how this aspect would play out in regards to friendship? IP: Logged |
Iridia Knowflake Posts: 374 From: The Vault Registered: Mar 2017
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posted August 14, 2017 12:46 PM
If by emotional bond you mean something warm and overall pleasant then I wouldn't look for that in this aspect. Attachment? Sure, but it may feel like prison more than anything. Saturn is likely to feel responsible for the Moon, maybe even protective. The Moon could become a little too dependent on Saturn. Not a bad aspect if the people involved want something serious and lasting.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 14, 2017 01:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Iridia: If by emotional bond you mean something warm and overall pleasant then I wouldn't look for that in this aspect. Attachment? Sure, but it may feel like prison more than anything. Saturn is likely to feel responsible for the Moon, maybe even protective. The Moon could become a little too dependent on Saturn. Not a bad aspect if the people involved want something serious and lasting.
But I've read some positive things about this aspect though. IP: Logged |
waxlobster Knowflake Posts: 893 From: Birmingham Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 14, 2017 01:34 PM
Well I have Moon-Saturn conjunct natally, so pretty much all of my school year had Saturn conjunct my Moon too. In terms of friendship it is wonderfully bonding.My best friend from school feels like family and there's nothing sombre about our friendship We still laugh and laugh and laugh when we meet up. I would think it would be more difficult if you lack Saturn in your personal chart but the flipside is that you would be drawn to it too. We always seek what we lack... Actually, thinking about it my parents have this haha!! Their Moons are conjunct and my Dad was a Moon-Saturn too. They had a close, hilarious, powerful, amazingly deep 50 year marriage. It never crossed my mind for a second that either of my parents lacked devotion, even though they argued and wound each other up at times (Aries Sun & a Sun-Mars conjunction)...so yes it certainly aids true devotion and commitment :-) ------------------ blog: http://waxlobster.blogspot.co.uk/ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74076 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 14, 2017 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I know a lot of people say this is a harsh aspect. But is it possible that it can create an emotional bond between two people?
Yes, it can but the Saturn person may be very critical of the Moon person, like calling the Moon person a baby when he is hurting etc ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 142689 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 21, 2017 05:58 PM
Makes sense, Ami!IP: Logged |
manderin Knowflake Posts: 849 From: New York, NY USA Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 23, 2017 09:25 PM
Oh yes. Many happily married couples have this one. I Think it's overall a very good aspect unless perhaps someone's Saturn is badly aspected in their own natal chart.The moon is a wavering planet and so it often craves stability. Saturn can provide this if it is conjunct, Trine or Sextile the moon. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4209 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 10:05 AM
I think its a terrible aspect. For a man at least. Its like getting married to your overprotective mother who is there only to suffocate you. A very controlling aspect. Best to avoid!IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 11:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: I think its a terrible aspect. For a man at least. Its like getting married to your overprotective mother who is there only to suffocate you. A very controlling aspect. Best to avoid!
I have this aspect with a man he and I are friends he's the Moon and I'm Saturn. I don't think the Saturn person is out to make the Moon person miserable. It's not like we intentionally try to suffocate the Moon person. We just care a lot for them and want to be there for them. I know a lot of people say this is a negative aspect but there are good things about it as well. For example The guy that I have this aspect with is currently having some financial issues. And I've been there for him helping him so it's not all bad. At least the Moon person knows that they have someone around who is willing to stick by them. I thought the conjunction would be a little easier than the square and opposition. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4209 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 12:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I have this aspect with a man he and I are friends he's the Moon and I'm Saturn. I don't think the Saturn person is out to make the Moon person miserable. It's not like we intentionally try to suffocate the Moon person. We just care a lot for them and want to be there for them. I know a lot of people say this is a negative aspect but there are good things about it as well. For example The guy that I have this aspect with is currently having some financial issues. And I've been there for him helping him so it's not all bad. At least the Moon person knows that they have someone around who is willing to stick by them. I thought the conjunction would be a little easier than the square and opposition.
Just friends right? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 12:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Just friends right?
Well no of course not because you can't be just friends with someone you share this aspect with. IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 27, 2017 01:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Well no of course not because you can't be just friends with someone you share this aspect with.
Um, yeah you can. I share the conjunction (or trine, opposition, square) with many of my life long friends. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 4679 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 27, 2017 08:20 PM
Yes, of course it can. I've seen it in synastries of long-term partners. I personally think it is preferable if the aspect is not so tight, but depending on what else is going on in synastry, it can be just fine. ------------------ The Declinations Guy > Expert birth chart rectification > Rising Sign Descriptions ♈ ♉ ♊ ♋ ♌ ♍ ♎ ♏ ♐ ♑ ♒ ♓ IP: Logged |
VestasLight Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Canada Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 30, 2017 08:50 AM
I am a Cappy moon. My husband of 14 yr had his Saturn conjunct it by 2 degrees. He felt so stable. It was comforting knowing he was solid and always there for me. I have never ever had any moon/ Saturn contact (either way) where one person belittled the other as another poster stated (calling them a baby?!) The maturity of your chosen partner is definitely a factor. In studying the charts I've collected over the years of both long term friendships and relationships, nearly all have some sort of moon/ Saturn contact, even if just minor. Seems to be a necessary ingredient in keeping people together. More so than any other Saturn contact. Not certain why this is. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 05, 2017 09:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by VestasLight: Um, yeah you can. I share the conjunction (or trine, opposition, square) with many of my life long friends.
When you mentioned this I decided to check the synastry of this guy who I have been friends with since 2001. There have been times where we have gone a year or so without talking. He has even relocated but we always end up talking again some how. And we have Moon sextile Saturn in synastry I'm the Saturn person. IP: Logged |
areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 1023 From: MX Registered: Feb 2016
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posted September 05, 2017 11:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by waxlobster: Well I have Moon-Saturn conjunct natally, so pretty much all of my school year had Saturn conjunct my Moon too. In terms of friendship it is wonderfully bonding.
Can I ask in what sign and house? the guy I'm seeing has this aspect natal and oh boy my triple water Sun/ASC/Moon is having a hard time getting his feelings out. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 142689 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 11, 2017 09:27 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 404 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted September 13, 2017 02:49 AM
Hi as another user has said, I also share this aspect with many of my lifelong best friends. I think of it as the "I friend you" aspect and not always good for relationships unless their is some more exciting and loving aspects to the moon person especially, but for friendship this aspect along with a sun/moon or moon/Mercury in my experience leads to long term friendship connections. It's almost as if the Saturn person completely accepts the moon person for who they are despite any emotional issues they may have and they share a mutual understanding of eachothers sensitive feelings. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5609 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 13, 2017 03:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by abrightfutureahead: Hi as another user has said, I also share this aspect with many of my lifelong best friends. I think of it as the "I friend you" aspect and not always good for relationships unless their is some more exciting and loving aspects to the moon person especially, but for friendship this aspect along with a sun/moon or moon/Mercury in my experience leads to long term friendship connections. It's almost as if the Saturn person completely accepts the moon person for who they are despite any emotional issues they may have and they share a mutual understanding of eachothers sensitive feelings.
I have the conjunction with someone in synasty and we have Moon conjunct Mercury in composite. And Sun oppostion Venus in synasty. And with another guy my Saturn trine or sextiles his Moon and we have been friends for 16 years. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light Moderator Posts: 858 From: Atlantis Registered: Nov 2016
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posted September 14, 2017 02:16 PM
Wonderful. It's good to hear positive things about this aspect!IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 19, 2017 06:54 PM
The saturn person is like the stern father and moon well is like an emotional teenager. Saturn is the reality bringer and the moon prefers the realm of unlimited possibility. This aspect reminds me of the movie what dreams may come with Robin Williams specifically when he is appreciating the beauty of the dream world. Once he realizes the fear that he needs to do things to save his wife that's when saturn gets added to the picture. IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 19, 2017 07:47 PM
The saturn person is like the stern father and moon well is like an emotional teenager. Saturn is the reality bringer and the moon prefers the realm of unlimited possibility. This aspect reminds me of the movie what dreams may come with Robin Williams specifically when he is appreciating the beauty of the dream world. Once he realizes the fear that he needs to do things to save his wife that's when saturn gets added to the picture. IP: Logged |