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Topic: Moon in the 4th house
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hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 12:05 AM
  
Do you attract like crazy someone's moon in your 4th house?I attract like crazy moon in aries, I love these folks and is dawning on me that is bc Aries falls in my 4th house. What is your experience in synastry with this placement?? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted June 14, 2018 01:02 AM
I really love cancer moons (my 4th house)
I had my moon in my ex 4th house conjunct his IC and he always said he felt super comfortable with me, more than anyone else he’s ever met and he compared me to his mom once (which was his highest compliment since he adores her) lol
I also felt super cozy with him, he felt like home.
I really loved being at his house also, first time I walked in there I instantly fell in love with it and it felt right.
We spent most of our time together there. IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted June 14, 2018 10:11 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I really love cancer moons (my 4th house)
I had my moon in my ex 4th house conjunct his IC and he always said he felt super comfortable with me, more than anyone else he’s ever met and he compared me to his mom once (which was his highest compliment since he adores her) lol
I also felt super cozy with him, he felt like home.
I really loved being at his house also, first time I walked in there I instabtlt fell in love with it and it felt right.
We spent most of our time together there.
I felt the same way when someone's moon fell in my 4th house. There was an instant comfort level when we met and we started "living together" right away a.k.a. I was spending every waking moment at his place and slept over almost every night. Wherever we were together there was a feeling of "home."
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FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2018 11:09 AM
I have my own Aries moon in the 4th house. I don’t know an abundance of Aries moon people, but I do attract a lot of Aries Sun women as friends. I’ve always felt like they were easiest to get along with. I’ve never dated an Aries man...I’m wondering if I should.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 11:13 AM
^That explains why I like you lolIP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 11:22 AM
If I look at my sexual history in the last decade, 10 years, excluding my partner and my ex-boyfriend that I reconnected with in 2011:First Lover: Moon conjunct Mars in Aries falling in my fourth house. 2011 One night stand: Venus in Aries in my 4th house. 2016 2nd Lover: Moon in Aries in my 4th house. 2017 Tr Uranus conjuncting my 5th cusp Transit: One night stand but he wanted to keep seeing me: Moon in Aries in the 4th house. 3rd Lover: Moon in Aries in my 4th house.
All a coincidence, I don't look for moon in Aries, but I am seeing a pattern and decided I need to figure this out. It just happens that for me to open my legs to someone even if is just a one night stand they have to feel like coming home, I have to feel an emotional connection and desire to care for them, I have to feel comfortable and Moon in Arie does it. I am picky about that, I need to feel like I care for you and this placement provides this instantly and I need that comfort and sense of familiarity.
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FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2018 01:07 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
^That explains why I like you lol
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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 14, 2018 01:41 PM
Aries is in my 1st house. My 4th house is Cancer. And I don't attract many Cancers-despite also having the Moon in CancerI was however drawn to an Aries friend's place. It had such a strong bohemian feel that I loved. His 4th house in Sag housed my Sun.  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Aries is in my 1st house. My 4th house is Cancer. And I don't attract many Cancers-despite also having the Moon in CancerI was however drawn to an Aries friend's place. It had such a strong bohemian feel that I loved. His 4th house in Sag housed my Sun.
Does your 4th house share two signs? IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted June 14, 2018 02:39 PM
No, I've never personally met a Virgo moon except for my mother. My IC is Virgo obvi. I just know some Virgo moons like celebrities, I think they are alright, reading up on them. IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted June 14, 2018 02:43 PM
I tend to attract Virgo suns and mercuries more than the moon. Again, never met a Virgo moon except my mother. I think that the moon and venus in 4th house synastry are very babying aspects and I personally do not like feeling babied or making someone else feel like a baby. The hard/neutral energy of the sun, mercury, mars, other non-fem planets in my feminine 4th makes me more comfortable, it gives me balance. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 03:20 PM
Is not about feeling "babied" or "babying" the other LOL. There is a lot more to it than that. Is an aspect conducive to commitment and relationships, marriage, moving in together. Domestic bliss. Enjoying alone time just the two of you. Moon in a partner's fourth house:
When your Moon is in your romantic partner’s fourth house, you bring out his or her desire to live with you and create a firm foundation in regards to home and family. You both may have similar upbringing with this placement and may remind your partner of one of his or her parents. You could give your partner the feeling of security & comfortability around you. You may create a desire in your partner to have more alone time with you away from the world. You both may like and share the domestic duties of life and wish to have more alone time together.
When your relationship partner’s Moon is in your fourth house, you get the feeling of wanting to live together. You may wish to have more alone time with your partner and have him or her all to yourself. Your partner gives you the feeling of being very secure and comfortable in a home situation. You may feel you both truly belong together. Your partner may remind you of one of your parents with this placement. Your partner may give you the feeling of nostalgia and feelings of the past. Above all there is the feeling of enjoying a domestic life with his partner and a feeling of meant to be.
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LunaIscariot
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posted June 14, 2018 04:07 PM
Oh I forgot to mention, my mother’s moon falls in my dads 4th house, and she also said the first time she layed beside him he “felt like home” so it gives a strong sense of familiarity and emotional attachment/comfort. This is a placement that is really great for intimacy and bonding on an emotional level and inducing trust. Moon, IC and IC ruler aspects and overlays give the “warm fuzzy cuddly feelings” or oxytocin that makes people truly bond and become attached to each other on a deep level that has nothing to do with attraction or dopamine like the 5th/7th houses etc.
4th house or ruler contacts or overlays are almost ALWAYS present in significant or long-term connections.
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Orange
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posted June 14, 2018 04:54 PM
I have Gemini in my 4th house. I do not attract nor I am attracted to Gemini Moons or Suns or anything Gemini, romance wise. I had a friend with a Gemini Moon and it was a blast while it lasted. My 4th house is empty, natally. I do not attract anything to it.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 04:56 PM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Oh I forgot to mention, my mother’s moon falls in my dads 4th house, and she also said the first time she layed beside him he “felt like home” so it gives a strong sense of familiarity and emotional attachment/comfort. This is a placement that is really great for intimacy and bonding on an emotional level and inducing trust. Moon, IC and IC ruler aspects and overlays give the “warm fuzzy cuddly feelings” or oxytocin that makes people truly bond and become attached to each other on a deep level that has nothing to do with attraction or dopamine like the 5th/7th houses etc.
4th house or ruler contacts or overlays are almost ALWAYS present in significant or long-term connections.
Yes! This last guy his moon is on my IC and my moon on his 8th, I Loved cuddling with him so much and got attached so fast! Ahhhhh! I feel moon in the 8th has the issues of moon conjunct pluto and moon in the 4th is like a moon conjunct moon. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
I have Gemini in my 4th house. I do not attract nor I am attracted to Gemini Moons or Suns or anything Gemini, romance wise. I had a friend with a Gemini Moon and it was a blast while it lasted. My 4th house is empty, natally. I do not attract anything to it.
Huh? your IC is not touched by any of your lovers? With my ex I had my southnode on his IC and my moon squared his IC very tight. My moon was right on his DC too and we had moon conjunct moon. You know I am a big fan of moon conjunct moon so its not surprising I love moon on the IC or the 4th house. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted June 14, 2018 05:27 PM
nothing on my IC or my 4th house. For a Gemini Moon and IC which is very airy and has no roots- the 4th house is probably not so important, dunno. My loves have a strong presence in my 7th and 8 and 12th house, cluster of planets there and along my ASC/DSC.also, because of my 8th house Venus which is all or nothing type of love, the 5th house of mine is also very empty and never been highlighted by other people's planets. It is in Cancer and I do not like Cancer men nor planets in Cancer. Interesting that... 8th house people don't have "lovers", they take hostages ….. :-D IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 14, 2018 06:12 PM
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8th house people don't have "lovers", they take hostages ….. :-D
hahahahahhaaahah I don't do that, I want them to want to be with me 100% willingly but I get you are joking, good one. I avoid manipulation but perhaps when the venus in the 8th avoids such tactics perhaps the partner they are involve in may engage in such tactics.
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FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2018 07:00 PM
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capricorncheriscty
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posted June 15, 2018 12:40 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Is not about feeling "babied" or "babying" the other LOL. There is a lot more to it than that. Is an aspect conducive to commitment and relationships, marriage, moving in together. Domestic bliss. Enjoying alone time just the two of you. Moon in a partner's fourth house:
When your Moon is in your romantic partner’s fourth house, you bring out his or her desire to live with you and create a firm foundation in regards to home and family. You both may have similar upbringing with this placement and may remind your partner of one of his or her parents. You could give your partner the feeling of security & comfortability around you. You may create a desire in your partner to have more alone time with you away from the world. You both may like and share the domestic duties of life and wish to have more alone time together.
When your relationship partner’s Moon is in your fourth house, you get the feeling of wanting to live together. You may wish to have more alone time with your partner and have him or her all to yourself. Your partner gives you the feeling of being very secure and comfortable in a home situation. You may feel you both truly belong together. Your partner may remind you of one of your parents with this placement. Your partner may give you the feeling of nostalgia and feelings of the past. Above all there is the feeling of enjoying a domestic life with his partner and a feeling of meant to be.
Well maybe in your personal experience it is not that way but in MY personal experience (like Venus in 4th) it is very babying. I know what this house placement in synastry means, I was just answering your original question. I've never had Moon in 4th with anyone other than my mother. I've had Venus in the 4th though and it's babying, as I feel 4th house synastry personally is babying when the planet/asteroid in question is feminine. For ME, when it's a masculine or neutral planet, i don't get that babying vibe as much. There's a lot more to it than that, but that was just my take for the day. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 15, 2018 01:10 AM
I definitely did not feel babied by the guy whose venus fell in my 4th or the guys whose moon fell on my IC or 4th house, that is the last thing that they did. Maybe bc is in Aries. Can you picture a moon in aries or venus in aries babying their lover?! LOL Its not happening. If anything the venus in aries guy was rough.I could understand how you would feel babied by your mother though, she is your mother. But apparently you have experienced someone's venus in your 4th house and felt babied even though Virgo I don't feel babies people. I wonder if that guy whose venus fell in your 4th had cancer placements. IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted June 15, 2018 10:55 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I definitely did not feel babied by the guy whose venus fell in my 4th or the guys whose moon fell on my IC or 4th house, that is the last thing that they did. Maybe bc is in Aries. Can you picture a moon in aries or venus in aries babying their lover?! LOL Its not happening. If anything the venus in aries guy was rough.I could understand how you would feel babied by your mother though, she is your mother. But apparently you have experienced someone's venus in your 4th house and felt babied even though Virgo I don't feel babies people. I wonder if that guy whose venus fell in your 4th had cancer placements.
I said I felt babied by people with Venus in my 4th or Neptune in my 4th (like old people). My mother's moon in the 4th is obviously babying because she's my mother, but I've seen some Virgo moon celebrities and I feel like they would be kind of babying if we ever met. They just have that coddling personality that I don't particularly like. Which is why I said it's probably because MY IC is feminine AND the planets in question are also feminine. It's just my experience, obviously everyone experiences different things. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted June 15, 2018 05:18 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
nothing on my IC or my 4th house. For a Gemini Moon and IC which is very airy and has no roots- the 4th house is probably not so important, dunno. My loves have a strong presence in my 7th and 8 and 12th house, cluster of planets there and along my ASC/DSC.also, because of my 8th house Venus which is all or nothing type of love, the 5th house of mine is also very empty and never been highlighted by other people's planets. It is in Cancer and I do not like Cancer men nor planets in Cancer. Interesting that... 8th house people don't have "lovers", they take hostages ….. :-D
me too and I am an 8th house sun. Never really had moons in my 4th or on my IC until recently. I have some Suns and Venus in my 4th from family and they weren't the easiest relationships. I much prefer moons in my 1st for harmonious, but notice moons in my 7th show up often for growth. IP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted June 15, 2018 06:45 PM
I don't think so, but someone's Moon in my 4th house may not be the best thing ever. My 4th house is ruled by Pisces. Pisces? My Moon is in Gemini. That sounds like a set-up for pain on both our ends. What if their Moon squares my Moon? If a person's Moon is in a very early degree of Aries, their Moon may fall into my 4th house as well. Would I like this any better? Absolutely not. An extremely early Aries Moon conjuncts my natal Mars and that means our Moons being square is escalated by Mars too. On top of that, a double whammy with someone's Mars conjunct my Moon would be pretty bad as well.Someone's Moon in Pisces being conjunct my IC from 3rd house might be more acceptable. I have no experience with this so far. The only sign I attract like crazy is Cancer. If someone isn't a Cancer Sun, they might have other planets in Cancer. It's pretty ridiculous how many Cancers I attract. At first, I blamed it on my South Node, but it's more likely to be a Vertex-related thing. My Vertex is in Cancer. And for me to put my Moon in a person's 4th house, they would require a Sagittarius Midheaven, mainly because my Moon is in a late degree. If someone's Midheaven is in Sagittarius, they would not have any romantic interest in me and this is actually mutual for me as well. I found someone with a late Aquarius Ascendant that has their IC in Gemini. My Moon falls in their 4th house, but I'm a terrible match for any person with an Aquarius Ascendant. It's cool. I'm fine with this and I will not hesitate to be friends with these people. Depending on the degree of someone's Sagittarius Midheaven, there's also a problem with my South Node potentially falling into their 4th house. How would an Aquarius Rising handle South Node in Cancer chilling in their 4th house? Not well. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 15, 2018 10:29 PM
^^What house does your cancer fall in?I heard moon conjunct mars is hot in synastry, it creates attraction, desire to procreate, and good sexual chemistry. All I know is that I feel comfortable with moon in aries folks, I enjoy hanging out with them and talking to them. I like moons that fall in my water houses. I also love moon in leo and it falls in my 8th and I love moon in sag and it falls in my 12th or conjuncts my AC. Now with my partner his moon falls in my 7th and with my ex my moon fell right on top of his DC. Moon in 7th definitely creates a desire for marriage.
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