posted July 18, 2018 05:22 PM            

Mars/Pluto in synastry.

posted July 18, 2018 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
UPDATE:
I have this with my current lover and we had sex the day we met and the sex is amazing. I am pluto and he is mars. As the pluto person I am fascinated by his sexual nature and want to get to know all his fantasies and get to the core of each fantasy and what drives them psychologically, I don't want to control his mars, I let him be alpha but also have venus/mars square his mars so. My asteroid abundantia sextiles his Mars which completes a YOD with my PLUTO.

Mars/Pluto in synastry.

Mars square or inconjunct Pluto: at first it can feel like a subtle yet entrancing energy between the two people involved. Mars feels it physically-Pluto feels it emotionally. Mars is easily provoked into action by Pluto, at times mars actions become more instinctual and with out much thought. Mars needs to touch Pluto-it’s an unconscious desire to get intimate with them no matter what present emotion is being expressed-be it rage-be it happiness or in most cases be it lust. Pluto unlike mars is emotionally provoked-their emotions are laid out on display. Most people see Pluto as the mastermind in this combo, while this is somewhat correct it’s not in the way most would see an “upper hand” being presented. Pluto is mainly able to “see” the intensity-the inner workings and the overwhelming pool of depth of the interaction. Pluto becomes the catalyst while mars takes the form of the willing test subject. Pluto no matter if they are male or female will be very vulnerable to mars-and mars be it male or female will always be the more domino/alpha desire in the relationship. A deep and sometimes almost uncontrollable level of intimacy and sexual desire exist in this relationship. Both parties need and crave one another. Sex should be taken with caution as it can easily become an addiction. The parties may notice that they’re often horny more often than they’ve ever been before entering this partnership. Sex is the immediate expression of all the pent up tension and often fights lead to sex as well. This is an Aries meets Scorpio type of friction presented in the square. Whilst the inconjunct is a more Capricorn meets Leo type of connection-it’s pride vs the commandment of piety. The energy between the two is often more hidden and disclosed with the in-conjunction! Pluto often takes the role of the quiet controlling force-often seeking complete reign over mars-secretly wanting every inch of mars but rather than outwardly expressing this, Pluto hides behind a wall of aloof-cold earthly reservedness(Capricorn) whilst mars daringly flaunts and teases Pluto In a semi aware -semi unaware dance. Mars wants to entice Pluto, mars is loud and preforms for Pluto(Leo). Pluto no matter how reserved is utterly entranced by Pluto whilst mars is intoxicated by Pluto’s seemingly aloof and restrained nature. This relationship is volatile and raw-it’s a cut that never gets a bandage. You love one another tenderly but it can feel like you’re drained being together. But also like you’re the most alive you’ve been. Sex here always has a quality of death in it. Brake ups are common ground and occur in the heat of the moment. I’ve often found these couples reconnect constantly throughout their lives until they eventually get it right! They usually are loyal deeply to one another and never let go. In some cases over time this aspect makes a relationship unbreakable.

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It’s been awhile since anyone commented and I had given up on this whole thing but it’s like I was meant to see this today! I had a major blow up with him yesterday for the first time and I swear I wrote him off but I still feel a pull. He hasn’t contacted me either and it’s like a stand off at the moment. He wants business, then pulls me close, then pushes me away. Then soon as I’m like I’m freeeeee and I’m about to date he does something to pull me in again and when I’m so in he’s like “go away!” It’s maddening! We have a business / personal thing going on. Though we haven’t had sex yet we’ve been intimate in other ways and it’s like I can’t resist every time I see him I Neeeeeeeeed him. Then when he goes away and I want him he pushes me away... then I’m like ok I’m good now let me go date, he pulls me back.

I want to have sex to the point I’m going crazy and as soon as like I’m gone he pulls me back but doesn’t cross the line. It’s maddening. This explained a lot for me. I realized this is going to be a long ride. I’m strong but at times I just be like I got so much going on I deserve better, then he ropes me back. I don’t even feel there’s anyone else... he’s either scared or waiting or something. Thank you for this it helped me a lot. Especially that cold aloof sexual lust push pull going on.

posted July 18, 2018 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by shaniajam:
It’s been awhile since anyone commented and I had given up on this whole thing but it’s like I was meant to see this today! I had a major blow up with him yesterday for the first time and I swear I wrote him off but I still feel a pull. He hasn’t contacted me either and it’s like a stand off at the moment. He wants business, then pulls me close, then pushes me away. Then soon as I’m like I’m freeeeee and I’m about to date he does something to pull me in again and when I’m so in he’s like “go away!” It’s maddening! We have a business / personal thing going on. Though we haven’t had sex yet we’ve been intimate in other ways and it’s like I can’t resist every time I see him I Neeeeeeeeed him. Then when he goes away and I want him he pushes me away... then I’m like ok I’m good now let me go date, he pulls me back.

I want to have sex to the point I’m going crazy and as soon as like I’m gone he pulls me back but doesn’t cross the line. It’s maddening. This explained a lot for me. I realized this is going to be a long ride. I’m strong but at times I just be like I got so much going on I deserve better, then he ropes me back. I don’t even feel there’s anyone else... he’s either scared or waiting or something. Thank you for this it helped me a lot. Especially that cold aloof sexual lust push pull going on.

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posted July 18, 2018 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Can you post your Davison and Composite with him?

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I’ve never been able to get a chart as I moved from my birth country early when I was 5 never saw my birth fortifications and my parents are no longer alive. Don’t know his time of birth so going off of our birthdays here is what I have:

His:

Sun was in Capricorn at 18° 10'.
moon Moon in Taurus at 11° 38'.
mercury Mercury was in Capricorn at 15° 54'.
venus Venus in Sagittarius at 01° 30'.
mars Mars was in Aries at 00° 20'.
jupiter Jupiter in Pisces at 18° 50'.
saturn Saturn was in Sagittarius at 16° 15'.
uranus Uranus in Sagittarius at 24° 04'.
neptune Neptun was in Capricorn at 05° 59'.
pluto Pluto in Scorpio at 09° 38'

This is mine:

posted July 18, 2018 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
We can still do a Davison and Composite without time of birth! Give me your birth info you have and I will post for you.

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posted July 19, 2018 07:48 AM            

The men seem more... hmmm... I guess vengeful is the word I’m looking for. They seem to have a grudge against women in general.
I don’t want to generalise and say every single guy with Moon opposite Pluto is prone to gynophobia or misogyny but ... I have actually seen it play out this way.

posted July 19, 2018 07:51 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
UPDATE:
I have this with my current lover and we had sex the day we met and the sex is amazing. I am pluto and he is mars. As the pluto person I am fascinated by his sexual nature and want to get to know all his fantasies and get to the core of each fantasy and what drives them psychologically, I don't want to control his mars, I let him be alpha but also have venus/mars square his mars so. My asteroid abundantia sextiles his Mars which completes a YOD with my PLUTO.

Mars/Pluto in synastry.

Mars square or inconjunct Pluto: at first it can feel like a subtle yet entrancing energy between the two people involved. Mars feels it physically-Pluto feels it emotionally. Mars is easily provoked into action by Pluto, at times mars actions become more instinctual and with out much thought. Mars needs to touch Pluto-it’s an unconscious desire to get intimate with them no matter what present emotion is being expressed-be it rage-be it happiness or in most cases be it lust. Pluto unlike mars is emotionally provoked-their emotions are laid out on display. Most people see Pluto as the mastermind in this combo, while this is somewhat correct it’s not in the way most would see an “upper hand” being presented. Pluto is mainly able to “see” the intensity-the inner workings and the overwhelming pool of depth of the interaction. Pluto becomes the catalyst while mars takes the form of the willing test subject. Pluto no matter if they are male or female will be very vulnerable to mars-and mars be it male or female will always be the more domino/alpha desire in the relationship. A deep and sometimes almost uncontrollable level of intimacy and sexual desire exist in this relationship. Both parties need and crave one another. Sex should be taken with caution as it can easily become an addiction. The parties may notice that they’re often horny more often than they’ve ever been before entering this partnership. Sex is the immediate expression of all the pent up tension and often fights lead to sex as well. This is an Aries meets Scorpio type of friction presented in the square. Whilst the inconjunct is a more Capricorn meets Leo type of connection-it’s pride vs the commandment of piety. The energy between the two is often more hidden and disclosed with the in-conjunction! Pluto often takes the role of the quiet controlling force-often seeking complete reign over mars-secretly wanting every inch of mars but rather than outwardly expressing this, Pluto hides behind a wall of aloof-cold earthly reservedness(Capricorn) whilst mars daringly flaunts and teases Pluto In a semi aware -semi unaware dance. Mars wants to entice Pluto, mars is loud and preforms for Pluto(Leo). Pluto no matter how reserved is utterly entranced by Pluto whilst mars is intoxicated by Pluto’s seemingly aloof and restrained nature. This relationship is volatile and raw-it’s a cut that never gets a bandage. You love one another tenderly but it can feel like you’re drained being together. But also like you’re the most alive you’ve been. Sex here always has a quality of death in it. Brake ups are common ground and occur in the heat of the moment. I’ve often found these couples reconnect constantly throughout their lives until they eventually get it right! They usually are loyal deeply to one another and never let go. In some cases over time this aspect makes a relationship unbreakable.

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posted July 19, 2018 11:09 AM            

We actually have the square and inconjunct. His Pluto squares my venus conjunct mars and my pluto inconjuncts his mars.

posted July 19, 2018 11:17 AM            

Davison for you two (TOB for both unknown):

posted July 19, 2018 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
^^You two have a Venus/Jupiter theme that repeats itself in the Davison and Composite. Interesting that in the Davison your venus opposite jupiter squarer your nodes making it your skipped step and venus is also squaring pluto.

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posted July 21, 2018 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Friday the 27th the eclipse will activate your Venus/Jupiter/Pluto Tsquare. Try to hang out with him that day, he might finally open up and give in.

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posted July 27, 2018 01:06 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
UPDATE:
I have this with my current lover and we had sex the day we met and the sex is amazing. I am pluto and he is mars. As the pluto person I am fascinated by his sexual nature and want to get to know all his fantasies and get to the core of each fantasy and what drives them psychologically, I don't want to control his mars, I let him be alpha but also have venus/mars square his mars so. My asteroid abundantia sextiles his Mars which completes a YOD with my PLUTO.

Mars/Pluto in synastry.

Mars square or inconjunct Pluto: at first it can feel like a subtle yet entrancing energy between the two people involved. Mars feels it physically-Pluto feels it emotionally. Mars is easily provoked into action by Pluto, at times mars actions become more instinctual and with out much thought. Mars needs to touch Pluto-it’s an unconscious desire to get intimate with them no matter what present emotion is being expressed-be it rage-be it happiness or in most cases be it lust. Pluto unlike mars is emotionally provoked-their emotions are laid out on display. Most people see Pluto as the mastermind in this combo, while this is somewhat correct it’s not in the way most would see an “upper hand” being presented. Pluto is mainly able to “see” the intensity-the inner workings and the overwhelming pool of depth of the interaction. Pluto becomes the catalyst while mars takes the form of the willing test subject. Pluto no matter if they are male or female will be very vulnerable to mars-and mars be it male or female will always be the more domino/alpha desire in the relationship. A deep and sometimes almost uncontrollable level of intimacy and sexual desire exist in this relationship. Both parties need and crave one another. Sex should be taken with caution as it can easily become an addiction. The parties may notice that they’re often horny more often than they’ve ever been before entering this partnership. Sex is the immediate expression of all the pent up tension and often fights lead to sex as well. This is an Aries meets Scorpio type of friction presented in the square. Whilst the inconjunct is a more Capricorn meets Leo type of connection-it’s pride vs the commandment of piety. The energy between the two is often more hidden and disclosed with the in-conjunction! Pluto often takes the role of the quiet controlling force-often seeking complete reign over mars-secretly wanting every inch of mars but rather than outwardly expressing this, Pluto hides behind a wall of aloof-cold earthly reservedness(Capricorn) whilst mars daringly flaunts and teases Pluto In a semi aware -semi unaware dance. Mars wants to entice Pluto, mars is loud and preforms for Pluto(Leo). Pluto no matter how reserved is utterly entranced by Pluto whilst mars is intoxicated by Pluto’s seemingly aloof and restrained nature. This relationship is volatile and raw-it’s a cut that never gets a bandage. You love one another tenderly but it can feel like you’re drained being together. But also like you’re the most alive you’ve been. Sex here always has a quality of death in it. Brake ups are common ground and occur in the heat of the moment. I’ve often found these couples reconnect constantly throughout their lives until they eventually get it right! They usually are loyal deeply to one another and never let go. In some cases over time this aspect makes a relationship unbreakable.

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posted July 27, 2018 06:54 PM            

I have Sun conjunct MC and I would never sleep with someone I work with. I wonder if that is also a personal rule he has for himself.

posted July 27, 2018 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I think if you want to be with him you can't have a business relationship with him.

I have Sun conjunct MC and I would never sleep with someone I work with. I wonder if that is also a personal rule he has for himself.

If I were you I would move on..he seems to have a connection with you but wants to keep those professional boundaries there.

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posted August 08, 2018 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
hahaha Randall wants an update

I do too...did you let go and move on?

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Lmao nope still here the saga continues... it’s very eerie that you guys asked because today was a tooootally different side than I’ve seen.

This weekend was the anniversary of my moms death. I decided not to do any business and just spend time with family. I told him that and he said business would resume regardless because staying consistent is best. So I thought he didn’t care much about me if he did that. I didn’t say anything but I had made up my mind that I am chasing someone or trying to be with someone that’s not even showing enough interest. Well Sunday came and weekend was over and he never did any business I messaged him about it and he said “I’m sorry I was sick”

He never ever says he’s sorry. Well he’s been playing around with posting on time like he should and I had already said I’m giving up and I thought he was lying but I just said ok hope you feel better. I’m used to him not responding so I left it at that. Yesterday he text back. I am feeling better and I’ll start on the business again for this weekend... surprised again... I said cool glad he’s ok take care of him self and fine. Well today I messaged to plan the next video but had some issues with when I could with my kids being back and honestly I was on the verge of giving up on this whole thing.

He figured out a plan to work my schedule around them, told me thank you for being patient with him, when I asked if he’s been taking anything and that I didn’t ask because he doesn’t share anything he said I took some theraflu I offered to come by and bring him something he declined (which I expected as he is very cautious)... but said thanks for thinking of him and he appreciates it.

posted August 08, 2018 05:57 PM            

I feel he is just not going to go for it, he seems to want to keep it strictly business and I feel you should move on and if is meant to be at some point he will make his move perhaps when you are no longer working together but is not fair for you to hold on to something when I feel he has no intention at this point of taking it to the next level.