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posted August 08, 2018 05:58 PM            

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It’s also the longest personal texting we’ve ever done. It’s always been about business. Felt really good to have that even for a moment, because I’ve been thinking how on the surface this has been and how I so wanted something more even just a plutonic conversation. Yet I know it’s not enough to go on... but he surprised me.

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posted August 08, 2018 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Thanks for the update.

I feel he is just not going to go for it, he seems to want to keep it strictly business and I feel you should move on and if is meant to be at some point he will make his move perhaps when you are no longer working together but is not fair for you to hold on to something when I feel he has no intention at this point of taking it to the next level.

He is perhaps been a little bit more vulnerable with you but still keeping it strictly professional from what I am seeing.

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I agree. I am starting to just relax and not let my emotions over power the best decision which is to be ok with him wanting nothing more than business. If he wanted more and didn’t want me to go he wouldn’t have taken me out, shared with me, not refuse my advances, and taken the next step. So I absolutely agree with you. Been feeling much better just letting go... I’m not completely there but I’m no longer holding tight. You helped me with that and maybe he sees that now, so thank you. We still gotta work together so the saga will continue hahaha... just not where I started lol. Thanks again.

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posted August 13, 2018 01:23 PM            

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Bump!

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posted August 13, 2018 01:52 PM            

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Lmao I swore I be forgetting about this thread Randall lol. Everytime I try to deter my attention from him he reels me in with business... doesn’t want me to get close but if I am about to leave he’s right there... I let my emotions out this weekend and he said I don’t know about all that but I know I have these videos I’ve edited for you and it’ll be released over the next few weeks. Then he’ll post something to make me mad and wanna run soon as I’m like showing out being bad doing what I want he’ll lure me back and say hey I just did this or that and make me calm down. Then relax again for a little. And the cycle starts again. I try to go he pushes me then pulls me back I feel it and see it. Nonetheless it’s still business.

I closed my feelings back up now so let’s see. We meet Wednesday for more business and he actually scheduled this around my schedule because the weekend was not feasible and we do this at my home which he thought was a great idea... he wants to be all up in my business my home all that but doesn’t let me get too close. It’s really weird. Like he wants no one else to have a chance but won’t let me do my thing... the whole summer I waited to have sex and he didn’t try it like he was waiting for my kids to come back so I wouldn’t be able to do it with anyone and I only trust him around my home at the moment. This is weeeeeeird. Is this how the Pluto moon thing do? He plays with my emotions but I know he’s doing it but I’m weak around him like I act like a child everytime and then he leaves and I’m like I’m tough how the hell. Like I can see him laughing when he comes around like he knows he has the power. Ugh.

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posted August 13, 2018 03:31 PM            

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LOL this is why I want you to forget him, I hate he has all the power hahaha....Like I am rooting for you!

Like with my guy he is a Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius and he has that "I am stoic and wont show you too much of my feelings thing going," and "I am going to play it safe" thing going..but he likes me, I know it and he has said it and we are intimate and he tries to see me when he can as he works almost non stop.

I just feel you deserve to be with someone you can be intimate with and he is not willing to go there bc of the nature of your relationship. You have the power to stop playing the pluto game with him and say "game over" lol.

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posted August 15, 2018 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
LOL this is why I want you to forget him, I hate he has all the power hahaha....Like I am rooting for you!

Like with my guy he is a Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius and he has that "I am stoic and wont show you too much of my feelings thing going," and "I am going to play it safe" thing going..but he likes me, I know it and he has said it and we are intimate and he tries to see me when he can as he works almost non stop.

I just feel you deserve to be with someone you can be intimate with and he is not willing to go there bc of the nature of your relationship. You have the power to stop playing the pluto game with him and say "game over" lol.

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You’re right. I’m taking a break... and I’m gonna let go. I crave intimacy right now and he’s not willing to do that. I need to put myself first. I have a date Saturday, I’ve actually had a couple of dates I said no to waiting for him. He never made the move and I still waited. I need to move on. Thank you for everything.

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