posted October 13, 2018 08:33 AM            

Jk. Oh man it hurts reading a post like this. It be best I'd you move on, you deserve better. Sounds like a situation I've been in before and comparing synasteries can be unhealthy because I was and it's just better to let go all of it.

posted October 13, 2018 09:51 AM            

Nevertheless, you have a baby now and I am guessing you are emotionally drained and wondering how you're going to get through. And also survive the emotional trauma over time.

He's just on the run.. looking for better things. He didn't stand by you, isn't kind, isn't responsible. Is selfish and self-serving. Nothing unusual to see here about people.

I see that you have your Saturn on his NN.. a notoriously difficult aspect. One that I've read never gets off the ground let alone lasts.

Also, while your Davison is interesting with those mystic rectangles, there is the SN among the stellium. Is the SN here to blame one again for developed repellent forces over time?

I haven't looked at much else but perhaps these are enough. The nodes being so very much.

Get as much support as you can at this time. Take time to grieve, but ultimately reach out, reach out to every service, support group, play group, creative group, exercise group - be around people at this time (even though you may not want to be) as much as you can cope with it. Strengthen your body, mind, and spirit, and cease his actions prolonging further hurt and pain than they deserve to.

posted October 13, 2018 01:27 PM            

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I see that you have your Saturn on his NN.. a notoriously difficult aspect. One that I've read never gets off the ground let alone lasts.

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Could you please elaborate a but more on this? I've liked someone whose Saturn and Venus are on my North Node in 7th H all in Capricorn.

posted October 13, 2018 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Vansio in your Davison with him your have NN in Capricorn in the 1st house and Southnode in Libra conjunct venus in the 7th, I feel you weren't meant to be with him long term, southnode in the 7th with venus there means you two are meant to reconnect but also outgrow each other in this life time.

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Add to that Sassa's input about Saturn conjunct NN, Saturn limits and restricts so when it falls in the northnode those relationships tend to not take off or take off but then end once debt saturn owes NN is paid.

Vansio this is what comes to mind when considering the davison and the saturn conjunct NN in synastry you have with him:

You two came together so you could feel secure and feel supported, this gave you the solid foundation to make needed changes that will strengthen your autonomy and allow you to take off career wise (NN in Cap in the 7th, Davison). Once the relationship served this purpose and you become more independent and advanced in your career path his debt to you was paid and the relationship dissolved.

posted October 13, 2018 06:05 PM            

You should still get all the support you need

hypatia238, I like your gutsy interpretation. I haven't read the whole thread, maybe op has mentioned details about her career, and why you took that theme.

posted October 13, 2018 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
@Sassa I don't think Vansio is pregnant, there is another thread with a similar theme of been left for another girl and she is pregnant.

Vansio correct me if I am wrong.

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posted October 13, 2018 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Oh ok hypatia238, thanks. Nevermind then.

You should still get all the support you need

hypatia238, I like your gutsy interpretation. I haven't read the whole thread, maybe op has mentioned details about her career, and why you took that theme.

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posted October 13, 2018 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
You are right, the op of this topic is not pregnant, it the op of the other similar topic. They were both with their guy for almost 3 years and both guys suddenly fell in love with someone else and I think they both have Venus in Libra (I'm not sure though).
I was thinking of this topic when I read the other one.

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posted October 13, 2018 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
They both have sun in Virgo!

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You're right! Your comment made me find that other similar thread to compare those guys' natal charts! They share many similarities!
In fact all of their personal and outer planets are in the same signs except of the Moon! That gives:

•Virgo Sun
•Virgo Mars
•Libra Mercury
•Libra Venus

Which is normal since they are born a few days apart.

The most weird part is that they both have have ASC in cardinal signs at the same orb! One has AsC in Libra 10°56'and the other has ASC in Cancer 11°5'!

posted October 13, 2018 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
You're right! Your comment made me find that other similar thread to compare those guys' natal charts! They share many similarities!
In fact all of their personal and outer planets are in the same signs except of the Moon! That gives:

•Virgo Sun
•Virgo Mars
•Libra Mercury
•Libra Venus

Which is normal since they are born a few days apart.

The most weird part is that they both have have ASC in cardinal signs at the same orb! One has AsC in Libra 10°56'and the other has ASC in Cancer 11°5'!

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posted October 14, 2018 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

So transit Saturn is hitting both of their DCs as back in April Saturn was in Cap at 9 degrees if I remember correctly bf it went retro!

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