posted November 30, 2018 05:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
But you said in the other thread she thinks he doesn’t love her? and I would 100 agree with that, it shows in the charts...

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posted December 01, 2018 02:59 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
One of my friends pointed out that my pluto conjuncts her sun and opposes her moon. He said she might perceive me as having power over her and even find me intimidating on some level. Thoughts? Have any women had a man's pluto touching your sun and moon? How did it feel for you?

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posted December 01, 2018 11:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Nope, its more complicated then that
She has Sun in scorpio and moon in Taurus.

Which means, EVERYONE she meets and interacts with and are from the same generation as she is will have their Pluto on her Sun and opposite her Moon. Now her own pluto is not in scorpio though.

Pluto spends around 21-31 years in the same sign, so yeah almost everyone she knows near her age should have their pluto on her sun n aspecting more or less, her moon, so you are not special on that regards, sorry

I have Sun in Taurus myself, opposite Pluto.

So my sun is aspecting the Pluto of everyone I meet from my generation.

It is an energy she is used to. It roughly means, she often has power struggles with people she meet from her generation. It also means, she shines her sun on pluto in scorpio people, meaning she is shining her sun on your pluto.

This can at first feel very exciting and thrilling for the pluto person, but after the initial phases, the pluto person will start to feel vulnurable, exposed and uncomfy with the person who shines their sun on their pluto. Especially if it is love related emotions involved.

Sun will light up all the darkest places in pluto. All the fears, anxieties, all the unprocessed feelings and thoughts and psychological problems, everything you wanna keep mysteriuos or hidden will be lit up by the sun person, mercilessly. The sunlight do not discriminate between anything, it will expose it all. This can either heal you (if you let it) or cause power strruggles.

Also sun is very powerful, dominant and strong planet, pluto is the same. Putting two strong, powerful dominant planets, where one represents darkness, and one, light, will cause power games, and also have tremendous effects and outcome for both.

Often the pluto person, will if he/or she is open to it, start to face his/her fears and problems etc, and with time the person will "transform" to her/himself to the better.

In short, pluto-sun will cause for a battle scene, where you both go to battle bringing your own bagage to the battle. And either you will fight on this battle field and kill each other (the relationship) and resent each other.

Or you will process your problems through each other, heal each other, and create a strong bond.

After that one either leaves the relationship, after lessons learned, about oneself. Or one can bond and stay together for years... it depends on many other factors.

And there is also that moon on moon sandwiched between sun-pluto thing, that one is more interesting I reccon...

However, there is many great articles and youtube videos about pluto-sun-moon synastry, so google it!

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posted December 01, 2018 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Your tone sounds rude. I feel bad about taking the time to write as long as I did :/

and its not my own interpretations, its whats said by other astrologers about "generational planets".

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posted December 01, 2018 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
lol ok if you say so. just because I said its generational does not mean you are not special, but if you interpretend it as that?

I shared loads of information about sun-pluto dynamics but you comment by being this way instead

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posted December 05, 2018 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
It is usually the way that the conflict and the tension within the synastry is more of an attractive force than synastry that brings less or no tension.

But given how long you have been on LL, you likely know this already. As it is fairly common knowledge.

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posted December 05, 2018 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I'm not sure who you are talking about now.

If you want people to actually provide astrological views, maybe post the charts?

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posted December 05, 2018 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
No you were fine. Just, I am reading many posts, and have a lot of tabs open, and also I am writing articles myself.

We really just skim through posts don't we? Anyhow, post the charts. Or not. Please yourself.

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posted December 06, 2018 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

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We are 7, almost 8, years apart in age. So, you think it is common for someone to meet someone else who has their pluto closely conjunct their sun and opposite their moon? We aren't just talking about pluto aspects, we are talking about close conjunctions and other aspects. No, not every Scorpio person born in the '80s or '90s has a close sun/pluto conjunction with everyone they meet from their generation. That is a pretty big oversimplification. And the same goes for moon in taurus.

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Yes you're right it is significant because it's close and you have an age gap, which means she doesn't really have the aspect natally. My bf and I have my Pluto opposite his Sun exactly and are 8.5 years apart, and he doesn't have this aspect with anyone else he knows because he doesn't know people my age. Lol

I myself have had many experiences with people born in 1986-1987 with their Pluto on my Venus-IC and it's always intense!!! Because I do not have it natally and didn't grow up knowing people 8+ years older than me.

posted December 20, 2018 02:33 PM            

We saw each other basically every day for a few months and it often seemed like we were right on the verge of being something. It felt so close a few times. We were right there. There were at least half a dozen occasions where I was on the verge of asking her out. The words were right on the tip of my tongue. Then the next time I saw her she would be in a bad mood or there would be some sort of other barrier to keep me from making the move.

The last time I saw her happened by complete chance. I was sitting on a bench lost in deep thought when I heard a voice say my name. I looked up and it was her. This threw me out of whack because it was on the opposite side of campus from where we normally meet and I wasnt expecting to run into her. She started a conversation and we talked about exams and so on. She kept lingering as if she was waiting for me to say something, but I just told her to have a nice weekend and let her walk away. I didn't know that would be the last time I would see her before next semester.

posted December 20, 2018 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Update:
The semester ended almost two weeks ago and nothing ever really happened with that girl.

We saw each other basically every day for a few months and it often seemed like we were right on the verge of being something. It felt so close a few times. We were right there. There were at least half a dozen occasions where I was on the verge of asking her out. The words were right on the tip of my tongue. Then the next time I saw her she would be in a bad mood or there would be some sort of other barrier to keep me from making the move.

The last time I saw her happened by complete chance. I was sitting on a bench lost in deep thought when I heard a voice say my name. I looked up and it was her. This threw me out of whack because it was on the opposite side of campus from where we normally meet and I wasnt expecting to run into her. She started a conversation and we talked about exams and so on. She kept lingering as if she was waiting for me to say something, but I just told her to have a nice weekend and let her walk away. I didn't know that would be the last time I would see her before next semester.

That kind of sums us up. It was just never the right time.

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posted December 20, 2018 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Well I really believe everything happens for a reason, and something whether conscious or not (or nerves maybe?) is holding you back from pursuing a relationship with her, now and up until now. I would like to think that if you really felt that strongly about her you would just swallow your pride/fear/nerves/whatever it is and just go for it. It seems complacent to say "oh well see her next semester" instead of...oh crap, I should have said something, I'm going to call/text/write/send pigeon mail so we can hang out again and I can tell her how I feel.

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Also, I reached out to her
on facebook right after the semester ended and we had a short conversation, but she quit responding and never read my latest message. By her own admission, she "sucks at responding to messages and texts." She even once said she usually doesnt respond to guys because she doesn't know what to say.