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CardinalT-Square
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posted February 20, 2019 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Update:
I just ran into her for the first time this semester on Valentine's Day of all days. She gave me candy under the guise that she didn't need to eat it all herself, told me she had missed me, and joked that she thought I had been hiding from her. She also complimented my new hair and goatee.
Then I saw her again today and she said "feel how cold my hand is" and touched my hand. We talked for a bit and then she mentioned that she will be running a half marathon in the spring and asked if I would come support her. I am definitely getting a vibe that she has real interest in me.

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posted February 20, 2019 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@aquaguy91

I think that you and this girl have really great synastry despite what others on here tell you. The Sun conjunct Pluto, and Mars opposite Pluto are big aspects to have in any synastry, don't expect it to be long-term though, as someone who has had a few bad relationships in the past I can honestly tell you that with your synastry with this girl would be much better suited to something more casual.

You should check out these sites to learn more of how to approach her and how to deal with her tests. https://www.forums.red/i/TheRedPill/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

Don't mind the quarantine in the second link, there is a wealth of info that can help you make the best decision going forward with this girl. Just remember and I can't stress this enough for you and all men everywhere that this info is to help YOU and to make YOURSELF A BETTER PERSON FOR YOU AND YOUR OWN NEEDS!!!

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posted February 20, 2019 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
@aquaguy91

I think that you and this girl have really great synastry despite what others on here tell you. The Sun conjunct Pluto, and Mars opposite Pluto are big aspects to have in any synastry, don't expect it to be long-term though, as someone who has had a few bad relationships in the past I can honestly tell you that with your synastry with this girl would be much better suited to something more casual.

You should check out these sites to learn more of how to approach her and how to deal with her tests. https://www.forums.red/i/TheRedPill/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

Don't mind the quarantine in the second link, there is a wealth of info that can help you make the best decision going forward with this girl. Just remember and I can't stress this enough for you and all men everywhere that this info is to help YOU and to make YOURSELF A BETTER PERSON FOR YOU AND YOUR OWN NEEDS!!!



The thing is I dont feel lust for her in the normal sense. When I first met her, I wasn't particularly attracted to her. I started becoming more attracted to her over time when I felt the connection between us. We have moon conjunct moon and moon and jupiter in the 4th house in composite. It just feels good to be around her. Very homey and comfortable, but there is some passion in there as well.

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posted March 02, 2019 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why don’t trines count in regards to the ASC/DSC rulers? Why only the conjunction? I get that the trine is weaker but it should still be relevant.

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posted March 02, 2019 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi AQUAGUY-

I feel like this synastry is intense and light-hearted at the same time..Sun/Pluto I had with my first love, along with only 'friendship' aspects, yet the love and attraction was strong. We did not last for other reasons that I won't get into here....point being, synastry was lack-luster but we had a great relationship for a bit. So don't let the synastry be the end-all be-all.

She definitely likes you, and is attracted to you. She feels at home and safe with you, and you have a nice looking chart FYI. You are pretty in tune and in touch with your feelings, so trust your gut on this one and not the synastry 100%. I betcha this turns into something after March is completed, but you cannot get too intense with her too fast, as she is a little skittish. She needs a friend first, which it seems you two have so that's good!

I disagree that this synastry is lacking attraction- the fact that you even felt compelled to post it shows chemistry....that's my 2 cents.

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posted March 02, 2019 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also I don't think it's right to just say a relationship won't work out based on a synastry chart. When real life is what really matters.

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posted March 02, 2019 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
[b]@aquaguy91

I think that you and this girl have really great synastry despite what others on here tell you. The Sun conjunct Pluto, and Mars opposite Pluto are big aspects to have in any synastry, don't expect it to be long-term though, as someone who has had a few bad relationships in the past I can honestly tell you that with your synastry with this girl would be much better suited to something more casual.

You should check out these sites to learn more of how to approach her and how to deal with her tests. https://www.forums.red/i/TheRedPill/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

Don't mind the quarantine in the second link, there is a wealth of info that can help you make the best decision going forward with this girl. Just remember and I can't stress this enough for you and all men everywhere that this info is to help YOU and to make YOURSELF A BETTER PERSON FOR YOU AND YOUR OWN NEEDS!!!



The thing is I dont feel lust for her in the normal sense. When I first met her, I wasn't particularly attracted to her. I started becoming more attracted to her over time when I felt the connection between us. We have moon conjunct moon and moon and jupiter in the 4th house in composite. It just feels good to be around her. Very homey and comfortable, but there is some passion in there as well.[/B][/QUOTE]

So you actually can feel the composite aspects and placements? That's good to know because some people overlook the composite chart and put too much emphasis on the synastry.

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posted March 03, 2019 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So you actually can feel the composite aspects and placements? That's good to know because some people overlook the composite chart and put too much emphasis on the synastry.

Yes, definitely.

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posted March 03, 2019 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi AQUAGUY-

I feel like this synastry is intense and light-hearted at the same time..Sun/Pluto I had with my first love, along with only 'friendship' aspects, yet the love and attraction was strong. We did not last for other reasons that I won't get into here....point being, synastry was lack-luster but we had a great relationship for a bit. So don't let the synastry be the end-all be-all.

She definitely likes you, and is attracted to you. She feels at home and safe with you, and you have a nice looking chart FYI. You are pretty in tune and in touch with your feelings, so trust your gut on this one and not the synastry 100%. I betcha this turns into something after March is completed, but you cannot get too intense with her too fast, as she is a little skittish. She needs a friend first, which it seems you two have so that's good!

I disagree that this synastry is lacking attraction- the fact that you even felt compelled to post it shows chemistry....that's my 2 cents.



Thanks for your input. When you say "nice chart" are you talking about my natal?

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posted March 03, 2019 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capguy75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@LunaIscariot - not sure if you're still reading this thread but just wanted to pick up on something you mentioned earlier...
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:

A good one to look out for;
ASC-DSC axis conjunction, the rulers of one persons ASC conjunct the others DSC axis or vice versa, DSC ruler conjunct ASC, or the ASC ruler of one person conjunct the others DSC ruler. If you have mutual/DW hard aspects, best being the conjunction and then the square and opp between the ASC and DSC ruler or some sort of connection with the axis or rulers, that’s always a foolproof indicator of mutual attraction and chemistry.
For example; one person’s ASC ruler conjunct the others DSC, and the others ASC ruler square the others DSC ruler.


...this fascinated me. So if I'm understanding correctly, if a person had their 5th house ruler conjunct their partner's Venus, for example, this could be significant?

Would similar apply if their Venus was conjunct their partner's Mercury if their DSC was in Virgo or Gemini?

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posted March 04, 2019 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I saw her this morning, and she sat even closer to me than she normally does. She also made it a point to tell me that I look good as soon as she saw me. Then she brought up the topic of sex in a round about way. Yet, she still gives me mixed signals. Ugh! Why does she torture me like this? I wish I had never run into her this semester. The coquettish little minx...

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posted March 13, 2019 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:

I betcha this turns into something after March is completed, but you cannot get too intense with her too fast, as she is a little skittish. She needs a friend first, which it seems you two have so that's good!



You mentioned that it might turn into something after March is over. Why that specific time? Are you seeing certain transits that make you think that?

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posted March 13, 2019 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
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I betcha this turns into something after March is completed, but you cannot get too intense with her too fast, as she is a little skittish. She needs a friend first, which it seems you two have so that's good!



You mentioned that it might turn into something after March is over. Why that specific time? Are you seeing certain transits that make you think that?[/B][/QUOTE]

No, I did not look at any transits. Through reading the energy of the synastry with the aspects and my intuition. And yes, I meant your natal chart is nice and solid (obviously we all hae challenges but even so)...

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posted March 13, 2019 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
No, I did not look at any transits. Through reading the energy of the synastry with the aspects and my intuition. And yes, I meant your natal chart is nice and solid (obviously we all hae challenges but even so)...

What about my chart is nice?

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posted March 16, 2019 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump.

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posted March 22, 2019 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted March 23, 2019 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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