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Topic: The Love Stellium - myth or reality?
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 11:36 AM
^^ The experience does affect feelings, that's what I'm saying. E.g. with my ex-boyfriend I constantly felt judged and criticised. In Synastry we don't really have nasty Saturn aspect (in fact, we have Saturn trine Venus which is supposed to glue us??) but in composite we have 3 Saturn squares which described how I felt in reality. At the end of the relationship, I also felt disillusioned and this was also reflected in the Neptune squares in our Composite. Again in Synastry we don't have nasty Neptune aspects. So I feel that the Composite shows a bigger picture which can affect how two people feel about the relationship and eventually about each other, like for my ex, I felt that he was like a critical father (Saturn) and that he painted a big lie (Neptune) of himself to me. You may disagree but that's my personal experience. Btw, I'm not disregarding Synastry. I'm just highlighting the importance of Composite... and of course this thread is about the love stellium. lol. that it can cause certain feelings to surface. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 11:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Btw, Lunal, you're good with Synastry... can you help my friend take a look at her synastry with her boyfriend? She keeps saying they've a lot of differences and he doesn't love her. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008415.html IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 11:51 AM
Of course yes I agree with you about that. That’s what I mean about a byproduct of the relationship dynamics affecting your feelings, like the Saturn and Neptune squares you experienced yes absolutely. That’s why composite shows the long-term potential, because these things play out in time. Both are importnant, synasty and composite 👍 I’ve been always said that. But synasty is more important at first, because that’s what initially draws people together and will tell you if there is attraction in the first place. A good composite is meaningless without the synastry. How the relationship (composite) plays out with either reinforce these feelings in the synasty or deteriorate what’s already there, like in your case. That’s why it shows the long-term. Thanks for further clarifying, I agree with you 100 percent and get what you’re saying. You just worded it better than me haha IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 11:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Btw, Lunal, you're good with Synastry... can you help my friend take a look at her synastry with her boyfriend? She keeps saying they've a lot of differences and he doesn't love her. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008415.html
I already commented on this yesterday I think haha I said they wouldn’t last. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 12:06 PM
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 12:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: Of course yes I agree with you about that. That’s what I mean about a byproduct of the relationship dynamics affecting your feelings, like the Saturn and Neptune squares you experienced yes absolutely. That’s why composite shows the long-term potential, because these things play out in time. Both are importnant, synasty and composite 👍 I’ve been always said that. But synasty is more important at first, because that’s what initially draws people together and will tell you if there is attraction in the first place. A good composite is meaningless without the synastry. How the relationship (composite) plays out with either reinforce these feelings in the synasty or deteriorate what’s already there, like in your case. That’s why it shows the long-term. Thanks for further clarifying, I agree with you 100 percent and get what you’re saying. You just worded it better than me haha
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 12:43 PM
I think I different person posted that synasty? I swear I commented on it yesterday or the day before IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 12:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: I think I different person posted that synasty? I swear I commented on it yesterday or the day before
Sorry, I just saw it. It was in someone else's thread.  IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1130 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 29, 2018 01:28 PM
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 01:40 PM
I only see one chart so far? But this synastry you posted is great! Both of these people are going to be very attracted to each other equally. No unrequited love here 👍 Awesome synastry! This is what I like to see!!! Compatible as well, love the double sun/Venus conjunction, moon signs trine. Conjunct ASC DSC axis. Venus mars out of sign conjunction. All the personal planets are in compatible elements, there is good harmony plus a ton of attraction here they match each other’s type perfectly! Mutual too which is important, The pattern completion with the mystic rectangle is awesome too. These people must be married? Lol or dating at least, unless the composite is trash. But this is like almost ideal synastry, a solid 9/10. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 1293 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted November 29, 2018 03:54 PM
I had this with my very first true love. We loved each other more than anything in the world. We wanted to get married. But eventually we broke it off (not for lack of love). To this day I still love him deeply, and feel I always will. Pluto happened to be conjunct Mercury.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 30, 2018 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lalafortunaea: I had this with my very first true love. We loved each other more than anything in the world. We wanted to get married. But eventually we broke it off (not for lack of love). To this day I still love him deeply, and feel I always will. Pluto happened to be conjunct Mercury.
Sad to hear this... what aspect(s) caused the split? IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1130 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 30, 2018 12:18 AM
Thanks LunaIscariot for your insights. Tinypic is still down, so cannot post other charts, yet. Can anyone recommend any other site with which to post astro.com charts? quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: I only see one chart so far? But this synastry you posted is great! Both of these people are going to be very attracted to each other equally. No unrequited love here 👍 Awesome synastry! This is what I like to see!!! Compatible as well, love the double sun/Venus conjunction, moon signs trine. Conjunct ASC DSC axis. Venus mars out of sign conjunction. All the personal planets are in compatible elements, there is good harmony plus a ton of attraction here they match each other’s type perfectly! Mutual too which is important, The pattern completion with the mystic rectangle is awesome too. These people must be married? Lol or dating at least, unless the composite is trash. But this is like almost ideal synastry, a solid 9/10.
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3743 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted November 30, 2018 12:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Thanks LunaIscariot for your insights. Tinypic is still down, so cannot post other charts, yet. Can anyone recommend any other site with which to post astro.com charts?
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1130 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 30, 2018 01:34 AM
Hikaru29, I only saw thumbnail options on that site. I got imgur.com to work for the second synastry overlay and composite. quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: flickr.com
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted November 30, 2018 04:35 AM
First chart you posted is the better one hands down. They have the sag energy the other person is attracted to (Jupiter conjunct ASC and ASC ruler Uranus in sag), sag 5th house with Jupiter sitting in the 5th in sag as well, which the second is lacking first and foremost. And the composite is better by a landslide as well 👍 The second has Saturn involved in the lovestellium which isn’t good and all those squares aren’t as good and the lovely trines/kite in the first.
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1130 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 30, 2018 10:26 AM
Thanks LunaIscariot, that matches my intuitive sense. Much appreciated. quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: First chart you posted is the better one hands down. They have the sag energy the other person is attracted to (Jupiter conjunct ASC and ASC ruler Uranus in sag), sag 5th house with Jupiter sitting in the 5th in sag as well, which the second is lacking first and foremost. And the composite is better by a landslide as well 👍 The second has Saturn involved in the lovestellium which isn’t good and all those squares aren’t as good and the lovely trines/kite in the first.
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1130 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted December 01, 2018 01:05 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 166089 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 05, 2018 04:45 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6073 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 06, 2022 08:26 AM
Does Sun and Mercury need to be conjunct for it to be a love stellium? I have Sun conjunct Moon, Sun conjunct Venus and Moon conjunct Mercury.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 166089 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 18, 2022 10:47 PM
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Banana Boat Newflake Posts: 22 From: Cork, Ireland Registered: Mar 2022
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posted March 31, 2022 11:04 PM
Is Sun/Mercury semi sextile Venus considered a love stelium of sorts?IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 3973 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted March 31, 2022 11:26 PM
I’m happy this is bumped! I wanted to clarify and update some things as my previous posts are like 4 years old now lol I still use placideus, but I also use equal house system now mainly in interpersonal Synastry since you can’t use placideus in certain parts of the world. It’s a broken system lol as soon as you get far up north, houses start getting crazy like 3 houses sometimes more in one sign. It just doesn’t make sense and isn’t accurate, but when we switch to equal house for those people or clients ive had in the past, it all makes sense. So just to be safe now, since I don’t know where people are born when they post charts, I just say to use equal house, that way I avoid those issues and I know it will be accurate. Both systems are accurate though, you just read them a bit differently but you can still get the same accurate answers either way both are valid! I still always like to look at both, just depending on where you are in the world, placideus stops being accurate. Most of the time though, there’s not much difference between the two, again just depends on your birthplace. So now I kinda understand why jewel prefers equal in her practice too , makes things easier lol Interceptions are still valid and I stand by them still too! I’m pretty sure that’s the only facet I don’t agree with jewel on. I’ve seen them way too often to be incredibly accurate to not give them merit. Other than that, jewel is great and I’ve always liked her videos. Great resources for learning practical astrology. I didn’t understand until I started getting charts from strange places and had to figure it out myself why equal is preferred by lots of practicing astrologers. But you read them differently. It takes time to adjust and figure it out, going from placideus to equal. If you try read them the same, you’ll get lost. It was a lot of trial and error for me, but I figured it out. If you live somewhere where you are more northern or you have intercepted signs, try equal house instead. It’s a lot more accurate in terms of composite house placements especially! IP: Logged |
Cancermoon83 Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Mar 2022
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posted April 01, 2022 03:47 AM
I've had the love stellium with several people in my life,some of them were love interests,but it wasn't always significant.With 2 of the people I had it with we don't even talk anymore,and it was nicely aspected in the composite.It was harmonious when these people were in my life,but nothing spectacular and far from soulmate material.Just good communication and a general liking of the other. The most significant relationships for me had a Moon-Sun aspect in the composite,either opposition,sextile or trine.IP: Logged |
abrightfutureahead Knowflake Posts: 471 From: kent uk Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 01, 2022 04:47 AM
Glad this thread has been revived! I’m interested to learn how the love stellium in a composite shows a harmonious relationship, and how outer planets squaring/opposing can cause issues. With my boyfriend I see we also have Chiron opposite Uranus. How has this played out for you all? Looking back at all my serious relationships, I’ve notice the love stelium present, and although I thought it was common, it seems going back through charts i haven’t had all 3 conjunct in relationships that didn’t establish. Interesting 🧐 How is this love stellium looking with my partner.? Liking the mystic rectangle going on. [img]https://i.ibb.co/NNtcYx8/6-FA92-A05-5-DE2-423-E-A9-F7-D9-DEB79-CA9-A0.jpg[/img] IP: Logged |