posted October 01, 2019 07:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Hi ladies!

First of all, it makes me so sad to read all of these heartbreaking stories, but at the same time its helping me because I see how there is more women out there who love hard and hurt even harder... you are all heroes and true love & happiness will come to each and every one of you!!❤

The title of this topic caught my eye because currently there is a man who is pursuing me, I checked and we have VENUS SQ PLUTO (I'm Pluto).

I thought nothing of him at first especially bcuz I had something else going on, but it's pretty unstable (Stoika you know what im talking about) but I can see him slowly working his "magic" on me and I'm completely taken back by it!

Not to mention reading your experiences with this aspect makes me even more cautious.

I don't have his time of birth though. Would love to hear your guys' opinion on our synastry maybe but with unknown birth time or maybe I should just put 12pm.

Hugs ❤

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I suggest you to RUN from it. Well if the relationship works for you, it would be so binding. But if it didnt, it would be so hard to let go, especially for the pluto person.

posted October 01, 2019 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:

I suggest you to RUN from it. Well if the relationship works for you, it would be so binding. But if it didnt, it would be so hard to let go, especially for the pluto person.

Yes at first it was him who chased me like crazy. Seems like venus get enchanted by pluto magnet and etc. But then Us, as pluto person would get trapped.Get tied.It didnt feel good unless you have tons of good soft aspects. Too draining and tiring. but Too hard to let go. Trapped.

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I do want to RUN now. And that's probably whats going to happen.

Here is our synastry and composite with asteroids with 12pm as his birth time because I don't know it.

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posted October 08, 2019 02:53 AM            

I was looking at your previous posts about your synastry. You mentioned you had a lot of Pluto aspects with your boyfriend. That's probably making it harder for you. The love was so passionate and intense that it's probably painful to think about all the love you guys shared while together. From my understanding breakups are not easy. And Plutonians ones especially. I know it's hard but I think the best thing for a breakup is self care. Take care of yourself, treat yourself. It will get better in time.

Ironically I currently like a guy that I have similar synastry as you did with your boyfriend.
Lots of Pluto and Saturn. We have Moon square Pluto dw and Pluto trine Venus. It's somewhat similar to yours and his synastry. I haven't pursued anything with this guy but now Im a little worried lol

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posted October 08, 2019 03:04 AM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:

Luna, How lovely and kind you are for writing me this. Thank you so much!!! You must be such a loving and caring person indeed.
Thanks so much for your words and advice! <333 I read them few times to help and strengthen me.
Yes, I'm trying so hard to put my energy into my work, hobbies and other things. I removed all the things related to him. Many things. I hope it works this time.

But the problem is, avoiding him at work is pretty impossible now. I can't change job and can't move to another branch for contract reason. The worst thing is, We dated backstreet without people knowing it to keep our professionalism at work.
He's my inner circle at work, We meet everyday, we work in the same team, we go for lunch almost everyday with my group at work.
So, nobody knows we were dating. It actually makes things more complicated. We should work without people knowing that he's my ex :/

I'm trying to deal with the problem of me letting go my feeling with the condition of "we stay as close friends" (I should thanks to my virgo moon to look cold or heartless, even though inside i'm dying :S),
You know, it's quite impossible for "venus square pluto" for staying friend since our feeling is too intense.
and also there's this girl at work who is also our inner circle, our closest friends adores him sooo much that she is so clingy with him and try so hard to get his attention. I hate it.
IT TRIGGERS MY PLUTO every single day at work. My brain could explode, erghh.
Me myself like "Oke, I'm letting him go, But I hate to see him care for someone else. I hate to see him with someone else"
Wish me luck!! I hope I could deal with it daily. I think I'm gonna have heart attacked or stroke because of this. :/

Once again thanks luna <33

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posted October 08, 2019 03:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
I do want to RUN now. And that's probably whats going to happen.

Here is our synastry and composite with asteroids with 12pm as his birth time because I don't know it.

Whats so interesting that he came completely out of nowhere!

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posted October 12, 2019 12:27 AM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:

Morningfire... let me hug youu!!! 💕💕💕

You have it double whammy venus square pluto. I thought it was binding aspect to have with someone. Do you have many good aspects on your synastry??

Do you also work with him? Doesnt it hurt to not talk to each other like that?? Avoiding each other does definitely hurt. He has not found someone else, right?

I wish all the best for youu!!! ❤❤

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Thank you!!!! <333

We had a lot of really amazing aspects and just dynamic synastry in general ugh... moon conjunct moon, mars conjunct mars, moon square mars DW, my sun and mercury in his 8th, my venus in his 7th conjuncting his descendant, his sun in my 8th, his venus and merc in my 7th house (conjuncting my 8th house cusp), my saturn in his 7th conjuncting his south node, his moon conjuncting my south node, the list goes on and on...

I see him 5 days a week, it's rough. It was so easy for him to brush me aside while we were together. I can't claim to have dignity and then proceed to talk to him. It just doesn't work that way. Funnily enough, the one thing he didn't want was for us to act like strangers. Well, I got sick of trying to give him what he wants. It's about what I want now and for me, he's iced out. He's a stranger to me now. Of course I still have feelings for him but there's no other way for this to play out. I don't think he's found someone else.. I certainly hope not.