posted February 19, 2020 10:42 AM            

My boyfriend's ex-bestfriend had his Mars exactly conjunct my Venus. Was 0% attracted to him. Yeah I thought he was good-looking but that's about it. I thought he was weak for a man. He had no balls to do anything or go after what he wants. Venus conjunct Mars in Virgo. The planets being in the 3rd house might have cancelled that effect.

I had a friend whose Venus conjunct my Mars in Libra. I was very attracted to him. But only for short term because I saw things in him I probably would not like in a relationship. We're still good friends to this day and I still think he's attractive. Just never going to date him. Venus and Mars were in the 5th this time.

posted March 05, 2020 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Venus-Mars is more romantic and/or sexual in nature than Venus-Sun. Venus-Sun is more good/positive vibes and seeing beauty and "perfection" in each other. It's a "higher vibration" type connection, and more all around attraction/getting along.

Both imo, are quite nice, but if you're looking for straight up sexual chemistry, unless you're not very in touch with your Mars nature (as some women aren't, and a very occasional male isn't), the Venus-Mars is more what one is looking for.

Also Moon-Mars, and sometimes in a more primal and raw sense than Venus-Mars. Venus adds an element of 4th-heart center into the mix, of wanting to give and seeing the deeper beauty in the other.

Well Moon is like a lower, more physically focused octave of Venus. Mars is 1st center, and Moon is 2nd center. Both centers deal with sexual energy, though in different ways and flavors. So when you combine them both, there is often a lot of sexual energy in a more base, lust-rutting sense.

This is like the sexual attraction of a male smelling a female in heat, and a female in heat smelling a virile, healthy, genetically strong mate in turn. The animal body level of both of you take over, and before you know it, tab A feels like it needs to be inserted into tab B.

Oppositions often being even more powerful in indication as to the urgency and attraction as compared to conjunctions. Because oppositions are like two opposite magnetic polarities coming into proximity of each other.

I have a friend who has Pisces Moon in my 8th House closely opposed the Mars of my Mars Jupiter conjunction in Virgo. My Sun is also in her 8th House. Anytime we are together, there is a small part of me that wants to rip off her clothes and just take her. That's not normal or typical feeling or response for me. It's just pure, raw, LUST. I have to consciously redirect my focus around her. (I think her Venus is also square my Mars which certainly doesn't help either).

It's different than what I described earlier with the other person. It's mostly all 1st and 2nd center. The other person I described earlier, the reaction and feeling is like ALL centers/levels desire to merge, like center 1 through 7, and that's why it's so powerful and overwhelming for me. It's very psychic, spiritual, mental, and emotional, at the same time as being also raw sexual/lust.

I'm guessing in the latter person's case (the Moon-Mars opposition connection) what it really comes from, is partially from the particular combo of the genetics of our bodies, plus she's more attractive than average, plus I think our other Soul selves probably had a lifetime or two of some romping in the hay. Some of the other Soul selves that are part of my larger Spirit self, were straight up male sluhts.

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I had a male's leo venus conjunct my leo mars once. It was irresistible attraction. But there were other aspects, too.
By the way, my leo mars is almost exactly conjunct a celebrity'c leo venus and I regard this man the sexiest in the whole world <3

Now, I would like to ask you the following question:
woman's moon (ruling her 8th house) is conjunct a man's mars and jupiter (in virgo);
his mars is square her venus and ascendant.
They also have double whammy mars-lilith conjunctions.
Who feels passion, attraction, etc. more? What do you think?