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posted December 23, 2010 12:28 AM            

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Have you had this aspect with someone?

How did it play out -- fireworks or fizzle? How was the bow-chica-bow-wow? How was the relationship outside the bedroom?

I've noticed that I'm incredibly attracted to people whose Mars conjuncts my Venus, but not whose Venus conjuncts my Mars. Possibly because my Mars is opposition Saturn and Uranus, so their Venus would be activating my struggle between those planets. My Venus is better aspected (conjunct Jupiter, sextile Mars, trine Saturn) so it's more comfortable with someone's planets touching it.

This is such a "classic" attraction aspect, but I think its effects depend on a person's natal. Share your experiences!

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posted December 23, 2010 12:30 AM            

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I've had but I was the Mars.
Blah.

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posted December 23, 2010 11:12 PM            

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Interesting. What house does Mars rule in your chart? What aspects does your Mars form?

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posted December 23, 2010 11:14 PM            

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Rules my 7th.
But we had the Venus Mars conjunction squaring my Venus and Mercury in Gemini and I wasn't having it. My Mental energy wasn't being properly expressed. Plus I wasn't physically attracted to him at all.

Oh and my Saturn was square his Mercury.

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posted December 24, 2010 06:52 AM            

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I was Aqua-Mars conjunct his Aqua-Venus (orb 1*).

NO sexual attraction although between the sheets he did everything to make me FEEL..
(well yes, ofcourse that worked but a machine could do the same).
In spite of this our level of touching (outside the bedroom), like hugging/cuddling/kissing was very high and IF I'm driven to express myself like that, there's LOVE (so yes, that's what it was).

Although.. not easy at all..

My Aqua-Mars/NN is square my Scorp-Moon, imagine...

My Venus is very well aspected but in some strange or mysterious way I never attract aspects to her.. it's ALWAYS my Mars/Moon square that's heavily aspected in synastry.
Maybe I *need* it... to feel alive?

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posted December 24, 2010 10:42 AM            

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEm40-cQgKs
That song says it all.
I have Venus conjunct Mars in Aries in the my 7th house with my TwinFlame....it for sure is like Fire.
The chemistry is so thick you could slice it. When people are around us they say that we give them wings.
And the sex is the best I have ever had ...it gets better and better everytime seems like. Its starting take on a very Spiritual overtone though more tantric it feels like and ...more emotional...but we do have a Mars/Neptune in Scorpio Trining a Venus/Mercury in Pisces as well....oh so sweet...lol

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posted December 24, 2010 11:37 AM            

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i sure hope you don't mean a brother or sister twin lol

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posted December 24, 2010 12:10 PM            

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Whats wrong with that? If know one told me they were my twin I would never know. lol

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posted December 24, 2010 01:23 PM            

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My ex husbands Mars conjunct my Venus..
Its funny because or rolls were reversed..

He would come home from work and cook dinner, and have dinner ready when I got home he he he he... He loved to cook for the family..

He was always cleaning (virgo,virgo and more virgo)

In the beginning the intimacy past was AWESOME, but it did fade over time..

One of my biggest complaints was "I'm tired of being the dude"
lol

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posted December 24, 2010 05:08 PM            

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met a guy last year who's venus is conjunct my mars in scorpio. i was irresistibly attracted to him. so much sexual tension and i would just melt in his presence... he was resisted his attraction to me. there were other factors like his Sun conjunct my Pluto. also had moon trine moon.

lots of tension but he was secretive and liked to withhold the truth. too young for me also. he was seeing someone. I found out. he never told me about her.

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posted December 24, 2010 05:17 PM            

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Have it with my roommate. We're phsyically affectionate (his Mars in Aries conjunct my Venus in Pisces).

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posted January 22, 2011 04:41 PM            

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I just experienced this aspect in synastry for the first time, all I can say is - Damn (My Mars in Aries conjuct his Venus)! I'm the Mars person and all I had to do was initiate and the Venus person was all mine!

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posted January 22, 2011 04:56 PM            

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deeply affectionate and nurturing _in private_.

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posted January 22, 2011 05:09 PM            

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It's really really good. REALLY good. We also have moon conjunct moon trine venus and my venus and mars are conjunct. He is sort of ugly and at the same time the best looking man I've ever seen.

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posted January 22, 2011 06:24 PM            

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Lol vertiver, yea.. I really think it's best if the woman is Mars and the man Venus!

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posted January 22, 2011 06:35 PM            

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posted January 22, 2011 08:19 PM            

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You know.. I think in a way you must be ready for it. I'm pretty sure that I couldn't handle this aspect 10 to 15 years ago, couldn't deal with the power in relation to men by being Mars then.
Okay, maybe you must give up this instinctive animal attraction (that's at least not what I experienced by being Mars) but..guess what.. you get *Venus* in return! And what's worth more than..

stay woman by being Mars!

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posted January 22, 2011 08:54 PM            

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This one does nothing for me.

I'm all about,
Moon conj Moon
Moon conj Venus
Mercury conj Venus

If I get 'in essence' what the above aspects stand for, then I will be beyond turned on. It'll be impossible to turn me off.

It's priorities really.

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posted January 22, 2011 11:14 PM            

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I have a Venus (me) conjuct my Fiance's Mars
We are very affectionate,love to hug and kiss,just holding hands feels kinda dirty if that makes any sense lol .We both feel these tiny little sparks,its thrilling.

We are also both passionate in our little petty arguments..we tend to misunderstand eachother sometimes..we dont have perfect synastry,but we try our hardest to get over our difference and usually come out winners.

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posted January 23, 2011 02:41 AM            

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I'm always into someone when they're Mars in exact aspect to my Venus. It's not necessarily deep or moving or anything but pretty plainly "who I'm INTO you." I've noticed I have great chemistry with people whose Venus aspects my Mars closely- but I'm usually not the one to initiate these relationships (which seems strange given that its Mars, but mine is in my 7th so I think I tend to disassociate from it), I never see a reason to turn them down though! And the sex is great, I feel like everything I do just gets "received" in the way I hope it would!

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posted January 23, 2011 04:40 PM            

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Nevermind, MARS conjunct Mars is where its at! Even though I'm a female I'm much more in tune with my Mars sexuality.

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posted January 23, 2011 04:58 PM            

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Here are some older Venus/Mars threads:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203262.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/003783.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/205860.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/019620.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017557.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/205683.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007538-2.html

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posted January 23, 2011 05:08 PM            

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I've had so many Venus/Mars aspects.

I prefer my Venus opposite his Mars.
In natal I have Venus opposite Pluto, so this also puts his Mars on my Pluto.

I think it's my 'all time' favourite aspect in synastry with a man.

When they have Mars conjunct my Venus (but opposite my Pluto) things are a lot feistier and difficult to deal with.
I talked about my first love in the first thread I linked above (I was Vapor-Lash).. This was very dysfunctional in the end.

My boss has his Sun/Mars conjunction on my Venus.. and all I feel like doing is punching him.

This was a thread I made about him ( & yes.. I've gone through several nick-names lol):
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/204647.html

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posted January 23, 2011 06:00 PM            

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Betty, have you ever experienced a Mars-Mars conjunction in synastry?

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posted January 23, 2011 06:38 PM            

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Hi Vertiver - I haven't experienced Mars conjunct Mars, but I'm very curious about this aspect. It sounds passionate

My Mars is conj. Nept in natal (in Cap) and so far - my fave Mars placement is Scorpio --- which is opposite my Venus as I was saying above.

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