posted December 25, 2020 09:39 PM            

I haven't asked this yet, but the karmic aspect of our rs...is it karmic for both of us just the same? Is it possible to tell from looking at the aspects..?

posted December 25, 2020 11:04 PM            

I'm glad my advice was a bit helpful, my main concern though, honestly, is that you may get hurted again! But I feel you also have a fear of regret here, in cutting him off... I understand it's a double edged sword!

I would just add... in any case, dont let him "manipulate" the situation, as he giving for granted you're there for him. He has Pluto/Mars square north node in 8th house, and Jupiter/ASC opposite Saturn/Neptune, and opp your Neptune, this means he has a strong willpower but also an erratic side which may look deceptive, not necessarily intentionally, but in a fickle/self-serving way, as he may tend to arrange things as it suits him or according to his desires/dreams, no matter how realistic they are.

As for the karmic aspect, North Node in the sixth house usually points to "working things through" or a relationship where effort is needed, since it's square to Sun/IC/Mercury (4th house), to me this would point to the fact that a common ground is there, and it works out only if such common ground is used/acknowledged.

I talked about compromise because of the Saturn/Uranus quincunx Jupiter, which is usually an aspect that can be worked out with dedication and effort again... this suggests that there's an unstable element of unbalance (but with Saturn in Capricorn it may point to timing, so maybe something takes time to be worked out, or in the worst case scenario, a "bad timing" situation) that needs to be fixed, otherwise things won't work out.

As for transiting South Node, yes it will be there in march (conjunct to IC/Sun and square Nodes), even though that would suggest a time for a signficant step with no way back, this may be a taking off the ground or a definitive parting ways. But if the relationship is still going in early february, I think it's transiting chiron direct that is going to "unblock" something before tr South North makes it definitive.

Well, this doesnt mean that it may not end tomorrow if you choose so. It's just the potential development according to transits whether the relationship is still alive....

Edit: sorry, I forgot! the karmic aspect with Sun involved in the square to the Nodes, is about the relationship itself, it looks fated, it may carry an higher purpose, or it is a past life unsolved bond (comp. south node in 12th house) you're trying to work out in this life (north node in 6th house), if one believes in such things.

posted December 28, 2020 05:17 PM            

Sorry to interrupt. do I qualify as anyone?

Walls can be useful - sometimes.
In your case he's given too much opportunity to not give back; vulnerabilities do need faced if a cpl is to decide they have what will bring a connection that is meaningful.

I feel it could be that scared straight energy he may need. He'll need to see what/who he is missing. This is not manipulative, it is a chance to show him his feelings. It takes a bit of releasing to let him understand a void. Similar to how we take for granted theLight of the Moon , once she goes dark - many feel lost.

He has them - or he doesn't. If he doesn't, you shouldn't needto put yourself through this.

If he does - he needs a strong nudging.

posted December 28, 2020 06:12 PM            

I didnt mean as an imposing question, relied to your relationship, but just in general, is it 100% decided he will move?

posted December 28, 2020 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Saggy,💓

Sorry to interrupt. do I qualify as anyone?

Walls can be useful - sometimes.
In your case he's given too much opportunity to not give back; vulnerabilities do need faced if a cpl is to decide they have what will bring a connection that is meaningful.

I feel it could be that scared straight energy he may need. He'll need to see what/who he is missing. This is not manipulative, it is a chance to show him his feelings. It takes a bit of releasing to let him understand a void. Similar to how we take for granted theLight of the Moon , once she goes dark - many feel lost.

He has them - or he doesn't. If he doesn't, you shouldn't needto put yourself through this.

If he does - he needs a strong nudging.

Unless of course, to you this is just too exhausted- depleted and you are done.

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Hahha, no! You qualify as Moonie, and your name should have been in the subject line as well!❣

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