posted December 29, 2020 06:15 AM            

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Really good point. As he said they may ave been in eachothers lives for the sole purpose of healing but how she reacted to the relationship itself ( natal to composite ) as you said was too much. Again, sucks when you see that and have the intention of helping and they are overwhelmed and end up running.

I can relate to being the one who wants to help and is usually more evolved but ime most do run or reject that energy and don't trust me even though I have no ulterior motives ( perks of being plutonic am I right ha ). That in turn makes me fear even reaching out or pointing out their shadow side but I literally can't help it if I see that persons...well, everything.

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posted December 29, 2020 06:16 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Softissues, I saw that Stoika already answered to your tread. I don't think I can bring something new.

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posted December 29, 2020 06:26 AM            

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Ah that's a shame but I understand. Thanks for looking at them anyway!

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posted December 29, 2020 07:08 AM            

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Girl my ceres is in my 12th house, helping those who have major issues is what I do. I'd say most are welcoming and open up easily even though they normally wouldn't. However, usually, I get lost in the sauce and end up losing myself in the process which is sad. That's one of the reasons I relate to both of them. Honestly, feeling like you can help someone and then not being able to just hurts my heart but it's something I'm really getting used to. You can't help everyone and it's okay you know?

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Dang, I totally understand though. My Ceres is in my 7th house.

posted December 29, 2020 07:11 AM            

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Dang, I totally understand though. My Ceres is in my 7th house.

I think your placement comes the need to be okay with not guaranteeing others happiness even though you have the ability to heal those hidden wounds.

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Mhm 100% and especially with it in Capricorn, I would move mountains to help someone. It's a lot of responsibility and I take it so seriously. I'd say my Neptune, Moon aspects warm that Ceres up but it's really heavy. Especially with Sun trine Ceres literally the Mother Hen lol.

posted December 29, 2020 07:40 AM            

I could NEVER do an open relationship, it just doesn’t make sense to me nor is it fulfilling. I’d rather be with no one at all lol

posted December 29, 2020 07:59 AM            

Oh gosh I love draconic astrology man, it's sick. It's to do with your soul. Maybe my tight Mercury Oppose Pluto is coming through but it's the chart of who your soul is. Some say that the draconic ascendant is more accurate than your natal rising. The saying is that you resemble your draconic chart the most when you're born and then progress to your natal chart as you get used to your life. And I find myself relating my childhood more to my draconic chart ngl. The focus is on the signs (energy) rather than the positions.
http://meidalene.tumblr.com/post/182698178621/how-to-read-draconic-chart

posted December 29, 2020 08:14 AM            

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Yes, it is very difficult and I’m actually Saturn dominant ( yay me ) lol my Saturn is in my 1st house while it trines my Venus and squares my Juno soooo

I have not looked into my draconic chart, I suppose I should eh? What does it entail?

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posted December 29, 2020 08:22 AM            

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Didn't want to say something, but Venus in earth signs, with Taurus or Capricorn, Virgo is in the fall, is not a difficult position and in Capricorn, makes a person to look for long term relationships, and being the commitment type. I like Capricorns. They are serious in relationships. And your have your DC in Scorpio so you won't be with someone that is going to be so serious that you will have a cold relationship.

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posted December 29, 2020 08:25 AM            

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We love an ever evolving Queen! And yes check it out and let me know what you think!

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posted December 29, 2020 08:27 AM            

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Well I wish I was around more people like you. Personally the difficulty lies in my contradicting wants and needs. On one hand I crave stability and commitment and on the other I want independence and freedom. It also makes it difficult for me to express the feelings I have for people I love without creating confusion. I personally think it makes me a consistent, stable person but I also feel it makes it hard to get that back from others or even to accept it. Especially when my generation is full of commitment phobes.

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posted December 29, 2020 08:33 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Yes, they are. You don't have to worry. The guy that you will be with, is going to a mix of all the things that you like and are.

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posted December 29, 2020 02:03 PM            

Thank you as well Peachyboo. Last December, I had a very intense dream where she came up to me, we embraced, and she told me that she had been sick. I asked, what do you mean sick, like sick how? She was quiet for awhile, but had a heavy and sad feeling, and she finally said, "I lost the flowers from my hair", and I just wept after hearing that. At the time I interpreted it as maybe she might get physically sick, but now that I know more about this group etc, I think it might relate more to an energetic-spiritual thing.

Should have known better, because the night after that dream, I had another one that had something to do with her smoking a lot of pot and I talked to her bio family who were quite worried about her. Smoking lot's pot in a dream for me, connects symbolically to partaking in escapist, self-destructive or limiting activities.