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SunChild
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posted September 13, 2012 08:22 AM
 
All the bestest Moonwitch!! How are you?IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 14, 2012 11:49 AM
Do tell!------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted September 25, 2012 10:01 PM
No news here. Haven't started yet. :/ I had an ovarian cyst and that's put things on hold until October. **sigh**
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MoonWitch
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posted November 09, 2012 08:21 PM
I start injecting myself with hormones next Tuesday! We're looking at egg retrieval the week of NOvember 26th! WOOHOO!IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 17, 2012 09:43 AM
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"Fall down 100 times, get up 101...this is success." --ME IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted September 05, 2013 12:41 AM
41 now - all IVF's failed.  Hurts more than I can say. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 05, 2013 12:23 PM
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mockingbird
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posted September 08, 2013 06:13 AM
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Originally posted by MoonWitch:
41 now - all IVF's failed. Hurts more than I can say.
I'm sorry, MoonWitch ------------------
I love it when people use the word "sheeple".
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teasel
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posted September 08, 2013 06:17 AM
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Randall
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posted October 07, 2013 09:23 AM
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Randall
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posted October 08, 2013 10:46 AM
Don't give up.IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted October 08, 2013 07:50 PM
Oh! I saw this link on FB earlier: http://www.hayhouseradio.com/show_details.php?episode_type=0&show_id=138 "Wednesday, October 9, 2013
The Truth About Fertility
If you want to have a baby, it's not nearly as late as you've been led to believe. Tune in and be uplifted!" IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 09, 2013 11:32 AM
Stressing over it tends to block it.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted February 28, 2014 05:58 PM
Thanks for thinking of me. Maybe I'll become a foster parent someday. Still nothing going on in my womb!
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Randall
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posted March 01, 2014 02:43 PM
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Randall
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posted March 02, 2014 12:57 PM
I know foster parents. It's very rewarding. You get to make a difference to children who have had it really rough. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted March 04, 2014 04:21 PM
I gotta tell you this, because this is my experience.When you want something, really want something. You want something so bad, it tends to avoid you. It runs from you and it becomes impossible to get. This is heartbreaking, soul-scratching and very painful; Painful indeed. But when you don't care for something, when you don't want it; even fear it. When you really do not even want to think about it because even thinking of it, makes you feel so uneasy(as if its already going to happen etc.) This is what will happen.This is the creation that you will get. What you fear the most, you will attract. Because fear(barring love) is the most easily accessible and heavily charged feeling to have. It's impact is so strong and so easily accessible that it has both psychological as well as physical repercussions. When you are at the point of creating a feeling of pure "joyfulness"; liking to be with your partner, enjoying the ecstasy of your "togetherness" and shared love etc. The feeling of being so at "ease" that even having a baby doesn't equate to the happiness of being together. The longing of wanting to be with each other. That is when it'll happen. You have to not care about making a baby to make a baby.(this is the great dichotomy of creation) But when you fear not having a baby, you'll attract that experience and worse. Peace and Love!
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Sibyl
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posted March 04, 2014 05:42 PM
Someone I know were in your situation. They tried to have a child for years, but nothing worked. In the end, they decided to adopt. A couple of months after they received their child, she became pregnant. Because she already had a child she de-stressed and stopped thinking about trying. And that's when it happened. Anyway, I think being a foster parent can be really rewarding. And there are so many children out there that need one! IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
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posted March 05, 2014 12:39 PM
So sweet you all are! I got a little misty-eyed.I see the point - I conceived my son when I was on the pill and with someone I didn't like very much that I planned on leaving! I am more relaxed now than I've been over the past few years. We'll see. I realize it's just something that is out of my control. WOW that was hard to say as an ARIES!
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Ellynlvx
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posted March 05, 2014 01:21 PM
Astrology Lesson"Mars is the ruler of Aries."
 "Nothing rules Aries"
"Mars is the ruler of the first house"
 "That's better" ~Linda IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 05, 2014 03:19 PM
The Law of Unattraction is stronger than the Law of Attraction.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 06, 2014 02:12 PM
It will work out.IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 09, 2014 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I gotta tell you this, because this is my experience.When you want something, really want something. You want something so bad, it tends to avoid you. It runs from you and it becomes impossible to get. This is heartbreaking, soul-scratching and very painful; Painful indeed. But when you don't care for something, when you don't want it; even fear it. When you really do not even want to think about it because even thinking of it, makes you feel so uneasy(as if its already going to happen etc.) This is what will happen.This is the creation that you will get. What you fear the most, you will attract. Because fear(barring love) is the most easily accessible and heavily charged feeling to have. It's impact is so strong and so easily accessible that it has both psychological as well as physical repercussions. When you are at the point of creating a feeling of pure "joyfulness"; liking to be with your partner, enjoying the ecstasy of your "togetherness" and shared love etc. The feeling of being so at "ease" that even having a baby doesn't equate to the happiness of being together. The longing of wanting to be with each other. That is when it'll happen. You have to not care about making a baby to make a baby.(this is the great dichotomy of creation) But when you fear not having a baby, you'll attract that experience and worse. Peace and Love!
Love this. I'm 49 and always expected to have about 4 kids by now. I really wanted to have children but casually thought I'd leave it till the age of about 42. So I spent years trying to AVOID getting pregnant with any partner I happened to be with - with several near misses I think. In fact once I did get pregnant by accident but I didn't feel ready and wasn't in love with the man at the time, so terminated. Then suddenly when I hit 40, my periods became erratic, I went for blood tests and it turned out I was going through the menopause early. I panicked. I was with someone at the time. I desperately wanted a baby. I never tried IVF (couldn't afford it plus at that age was considered too old to have it on the national health). So the only assistance I had was maybe a little faith healing once. Well it worked, I got pregnant which was pretty miraculous, but I lost it 5 weeks into the pregnancy. I gave up trying after that. I've since reconciled myself to this although I believe I would have been a good mum as I'm fairly maternal, it wasn't in my fate. By contrast, my sister, who was never very fond of children, had two of her own. Ironic how life turns out eh? Sometimes I wonder whether children are life's way of teaching someone something, maybe I didn't need to learn that as I already had the maternal compassion thing, I don't know really. But there's no point dwelling on the past now. My mother poignantly said to me when I was going through the pain of knowing I'd never be a mum myself: "you can be your own child." So I have been ever since. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 10, 2014 02:30 PM
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rajji
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posted April 10, 2014 11:13 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I gotta tell you this, because this is my experience.When you want something, really want something. You want something so bad, it tends to avoid you. It runs from you and it becomes impossible to get. This is heartbreaking, soul-scratching and very painful; Painful indeed. But when you don't care for something, when you don't want it; even fear it. When you really do not even want to think about it because even thinking of it, makes you feel so uneasy(as if its already going to happen etc.) This is what will happen.This is the creation that you will get. What you fear the most, you will attract. Because fear(barring love) is the most easily accessible and heavily charged feeling to have. It's impact is so strong and so easily accessible that it has both psychological as well as physical repercussions. When you are at the point of creating a feeling of pure "joyfulness"; liking to be with your partner, enjoying the ecstasy of your "togetherness" and shared love etc. The feeling of being so at "ease" that even having a baby doesn't equate to the happiness of being together. The longing of wanting to be with each other. That is when it'll happen. You have to not care about making a baby to make a baby.(this is the great dichotomy of creation) But when you fear not having a baby, you'll attract that experience and worse. Peace and Love!
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