posted June 14, 2014 02:36 PM            

I actually wanted to ask if you and your mate have Moon/Mars,Venus/Mars aspects?

I've read somewhere that they help greatly in the chances of the couple having a baby. (particularly the Mars/Moon aspect)

posted July 10, 2014 11:21 AM            

I'm not terribly good at astrology but when I do a composite chart for us...

Moon opposition Mars. Mars doesn't seem to have any aspects with Venus.

posted July 10, 2014 12:45 PM            

His Mars opposes your Moon?Or your Moon opposes his Mars?

You must relax. That is essential.

My sister knows of a couple that were in the middle of signing adoption papers for a baby boy when the wife fell pregnant. They'd been trying for years apparently.

Every case is unique and I am not saying "one glove fits all" at all. But you need to find a way of relaxing into this.

This particular lady had given up on having her own child,but she did want children and decided that,perhaps, she was supposed to be the "mother" of other people's children.

I don't know how she redirected her attention. But when she did fall pregnant, she seemed more confused than happy.Lol

She had told herself that being the mother to her adoptive son was enough.Life did a tailspin and she is now the mother of two.

Perhaps if you consider other avenues and open up the options a lot more, it'll relax you into it? Consider adoption,volunteer at a pediatric facility,visit an orphanage,learn about the foster parent system etc.

This is kinda like the parent who has 3 children but directs all her attention to the 1st born. It puts the 1st born under enormous pressure.

But when she decides to divide her attention equally between all her children. The 1st born feels the tension "ease". This is the "ease" that one feels when traffic starts to move after waiting for close to an hour.

posted July 22, 2014 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonWitch:
What is RH disease? I'm type A negative but I was under the impression a shot during pregnancy around the 20th week will prevent problems.

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Go in and get the shot at the very first sign of any blood, even if a tiny bit or only spotting....it's just a precaution but well worth it!
If you don't have any spotting they will wait until your 20 weeks, with me they gave it a couple times during my pregnancy.....only if your RH neg and daddy is RH positive.

posted July 26, 2014 01:12 PM            

Second pregnancy was much smoother but I still had that shot twice during the pregnancy, as a precaution and then once after the birth. At the time of birth they said it could have been up to 4 shots, but no blood crossed over.

So, it can make a difference and really it was a CNP that called it both at the miscarriage and the 5 week mark. Not the doctor.