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Topic: OKay. here we go....
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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 5301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 23, 2005 02:33 AM
 
I don't believe I actually handed him a key and said.. Hey, I post here!
My screen name here is one I adopted when I first started my internet connection again, a few years ago.
I suppose he googled me.I appreciate your candidness... and I am indeed a very private person.. as in, if someone went through my things, I feel repulsion, revulsion and anger... but if it is something I will share with you, it isn't a big deal. Things I share on here are in the realm of confidence, yet sharing I feel is appropriate. I am an honest person. Sometimes I need to work through things, and it helps to get the perspective of people who are mostly like minded, in a broader sense. Give me some more cred please. I didn't hand anyone any keys. This is a part of my discovery, and my trustful heart. When to trust it and when not to.
I will assume you aren't talking down to me when you say the things you say, and leave it at that. I appreciate the support, but not the judgement, as usual.
I didn't walk down a dark alley, drunk and in a short skirt... and even if I did, is it really anyone's fault?
I didn't ask that he merge my choices of what I share with a broader world, into my private life, and I am angered that he did.
He is wrong.
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 11943
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted October 23, 2005 04:22 AM
That's a tough one to decipher. This is in response to him once again?IP: Logged |
TINK
Knowflake Posts: 3831
From: New England
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted October 23, 2005 05:49 AM
I remember this man posting a while back. Not particularly pleasant.pixie, as far as I can see you are blameless. Some people just don't know how to play fair. Some people have no honor. IP: Logged |
Loggerhead
Knowflake Posts: 356
From: Alabama
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 23, 2005 10:35 AM
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I will assume you aren't talking down to me when you say the things you say.
You are right I am not. I just sometimes express surprise/incredulousness/impatience without always analyzing how it will come across without smilies, facial expressions, etc. Add to that my ineptness at appearing soothing when needed, and I might come across as something I don't intend to. I also honestly didn't think of Google. Now things begin to make more sense. There is no doubt that what he did/is doing is despicable, and my heart goes out to you no matter how this came about. I think his behavior IS downright evil, which I said, I believe, twice, and I mean that. There is no excuse for it. I still maintain though, since this is an astrology forum, that for a Scorpio you are somewhat unusual in regards to your openness. Is that the Leo Asc., or is it Moon in Cap., or what? (Those are the only things I know about your chart.) I also still maintain that if someone knows your screen name and that you post at a certain forum, they will log on and read your posts, and if they become your enemy somewhere down the line they might use it against you. That IS human nature, or the nature of some people, anyway, and I can't help it if my analysis doesn't appeal. Eventhough that is exactly what happened. Yes it is very wrong, very disappointing, very disgusting. And without Google it might never have happened, because you didn't tell him that you post here. However, you should have used a different screen name, and I am surprised that you didn't, AS A SCORPIO. That is all I am saying. Frankly, it's getting tiresome to constantly defend what I am saying. It seems people here purposefully take offense and misconstrue what I say, which in turn prompts me to explain it, because I really did not mean to be offensive, but my explanations then in turn make things worse still. No doubt this is going to happen here again.... So therefore, here it is in a nutshell: I would have expected a Scorpio to be more self-protective, which in this case means not using a screen name that you used somewhere else before which someone who knows you might remember. That is all. That is my opinion of Scorpios, that they have a certain secretiveness and protect themselves emotionally, which I consider wise. That doesn't change the fact that no matter what and how it came about, that dude is behaving absolutely despicably, and there is no excuse for his behavior. That is all I meant, and all I am going to say on this subject. IP: Logged |
teaselbaby
Knowflake Posts: 1337
From: Northeast Ohio
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 23, 2005 12:40 PM
From what I remember, pixie posted a link to the website of her ex. When you have a website, you can usually check the statistics of the site, showing any search terms used to get there, as well as any pages linking to the site. Had I been here when she'd actually done it, I would have warned her that could happen, but when I found the thread, he had already been here, taken offense (when she was actually paying him a compliment), and upset pix. I know you mean well, Loggerhead  but I have a Scorpio ascendant, and I post my name, birthday, general location, etc. I do edit out anything that I think could be twisted if certain extended family members found the place (because I am suspicious that way). I was so shy when I first posted here (still can be), but the more you feel comfortable, the easier it can be to hit that post button when you need to vent, or share happy news.  I suppose the ascendant can't hold back the rest of me for long, though (Aries/Gem).  IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 7314
From: Schweinfurt to Grafenwoehr all within 6 months LOL
Registered: May 2002
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posted October 23, 2005 02:22 PM
HI Pixie, I am so sorry for what you have been going through. My heart is with you... as are my prayers... All I can say is KARMA (his).... it will come back.. reinforce your protection / shield... against..well you know Love to you, Pidaua
Oh yeah.. and dude.. if you are reading this.. add this statement to your log "You bite the big one! Only a severely insecure loser to go through these kinds of threads to try and find ammunition against someone. You'll actually get laughed out of any court case / room for introducing this... so the joke will end up on you LOL..." IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 5301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 23, 2005 05:44 PM
Thank you.
Tink Loggerhead.. I enjoy your posts, and I know you say things in a curt way, which I appreciate, it gets past the rhetoric.. I just felt like you were somewhat accusatory, and wanted to further explain. Which we both did, no problem. I hold nothing against you, nor do I think I should.. I get it, no worries. Perhaps I am atypical... but really, more like what teaselbaby said....
I have been here for two plus years, and so I don't hold guard. I didn't think of the possibility that someone would be duplicitous.
Now I do. Lesson learned.
I realized, after I posted that link that he had access, and no, I didn't know before that.. thanks for opening my eyes to that. I think he knew before that though, based upon what he has said.
For someone so addicted to the internet ( at least certain places within it), I don't know much. Pid. thanks! I know, I realize that anything he 'has' doesn't amount to much other than something he can mysteriously hold over my head and taunt me with.. *like a five year old*ahem*
Frankly, I have enough confidence in my strengths and abilities at home that I am not worried.. just pi$$ed, I feel violated. Anyway, enough about all this, I guess i just wanted to clarify all ways.
Lesson learned.
*sigh* Thanks everyone for all the kind thoughts.
I know I am not without blame, but really, there should be nothing to blame. IP: Logged | |
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