posted July 11, 2008 05:02 AM         

one for you and your love of effeminate men.

posted July 11, 2008 05:06 AM         

lol - vampire thing.

yes would have to agree about the leather. what is that about!!??

i think women in leather pants look sexy too.

don't agree about the long leather coat though. i think a nice crisp white shirt over leather pants looks hot any day.

posted July 11, 2008 09:57 AM         

here's something for you and "rafe" from the mars/sex thread in astro forum - talking about capi suns (hey, i just typed sins instead of suns - lol!)

"Capricorn and Sex
Behind that cool Capricorn exterior lies a white-hot interior waiting to be discovered by a worthy lover. Splendor beneath the sheets is likely to be a straight-ahead affair for the Sea Goat, since this practical Earth sign doesn't need anything flashy or fancy to get aroused. The arousal here is from being happily in love, since love and sex do go hand in hand for Capricorn. The Sea Goat is a persistent, passionate and loyal lover, so whoever is on the receiving end is in for a guaranteed good time. While Capricorns abhor being dependent on their lover, they would certainly like to be nurtured by them and exposed to new levels of delight. There is no doubting that the frisky Sea Goat can explode with an understanding, strong and libidinous partner."

some things even the imagination shouldn't see - ie. ralph fiennes involved in ANY sexual activity.

posted July 11, 2008 10:03 AM         

this is another bit from the sex/mars thread in astro forum:

"Oh, and one of the best um.. sweetcake licking experiences I can remember is when the guy said beforehand.." This is going to be the best you've ever had...""

posted July 11, 2008 12:28 PM         

I almost fell off my chair laughing.
Sorry to have been away all day, but my parents wanted to see me again. They swear they have forgotten how I look.

Strange thing, somehow Jude has fallen out of my mind - but I agree, I guess he can be a real ******* , but strangely that isn`t really appealing to me; I want my men rough on the outside, soft(er) on the inside not the other way round.

But right now, crazy, crazy, crazy, I only want Stuart.

I WANT STUART!

posted July 11, 2008 02:16 PM         

FINALLLY, someone who gets this.
And why am I not surprise that it would be you?

BTW I just realized that you share some personal sign placements with Paul - Sun in Aries, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Taurus (he has a Pisces-Mars, Taurus-Moon and Pisces ASC though).

But that is not important now - need to focus, need to focus.

However, yes, I admit as Lestat Stuart is very metrosexual, which I absolutely LOVE In that movie, but if you see him in interviews I don`t feel like he is. He actually comes across as a rather,mmph, normal man, not saying that metrosexuals are no real men - oh I better shut up now.

But as I said I don`t know why I am SO infatuated with him now and then. I checked, last time around I was obsessed with him in 2007, and before that when I saw Queen of the Damned. SEems, like he kinda always steals back into my mind. lol

It`s so hard to understand with our mediocre synastry. Maybe I should apply my own DRaconic theory to this synastry, see what is there?
Well, I know that the ruler of his SN (Moon) is opposite my 12th house ruler, and the ruler of my SN (Mercury) is conjunct his 12th house ruler - IF that Virgo-ascendant is right for him. But it fits him definitely amazingly well.
And if it is right, his Moon conjuncts my IC, while his Sun (and Lilith) conjuncts my IC.
And his Venus-Mars-conjunction falls into my 12th house - actually Mars is still in the 11th house but conjunct the cusp, and his Venus conjuncts my Valentine (in my 12th house), while his Valentine falls into my 7th house, only 3° from my 8th house cusp, and opposes my Venus.

I`m gonna do this analysis now. I won`t feel calm anyway, until I have done it.
Watching him as Lestat or even as Guy in "Head in the clouds" or in anything else is almost painful; I mean it`s absolutely enjoyable, but it leaves me somehow, I don`t know, craving. Like in that story I wrote. Whenever I see him that feeling comes very strongly to the surface. It`s actually the reason I had to turn away again and again, because at a certain point it becomes unbearable and slightly dangerous. Not because I would slip into illusions, I don`t, but I`m not very good in bearing this ache.
Did you ever experience something like this?

You also wrote a vampire story? (I actually wrote some other stories, too, not only vampires).
Do you want to show me your story and I show you mine?
Well, I would LOVE to read what you have written, even if it`s unfinished. (Isn`t everything in life like an unfinished song? Oh I am being melodramatic again. lol).

BTW my Mars in Sagittarius in 12th house conjunct Neptune and my DSC in Gemini could be a reason that I have a slight tendency to like metrosexual men. Or what do you think?
Also, Moon in Aquarius as ruler of 8th house, Aquarius likes to dissolve polarities in a way, and since it rules the 8th house, the house of sexuality among others, maybe that is another reason.
My Saturn in Cancer in 8th house is somewhat contradictory here I guess. Saturn likes bondaries and probably also polarities, because they are so nicely conventional.

posted July 11, 2008 09:09 PM         

you're here! oh, yes, love that aqua man above. gorgeous. didn't like him as macgyver (what was with that hair????) - but love him as o'neill. i don't say this often - but he's just dead sexy. just look at that picture. i'll join you - swoon swoon.

izo

"cute bad boy, with a twist" - for me, that's paul bettany.

posted July 11, 2008 11:20 PM         

problem with him is that he is sooooo good to look at that when he opens his mouth and speaks it kills ALL illusion and fantasy. for some people it should be illegal to speak. he's one of them. kirk hammett from metallica is second on my list.

posted July 11, 2008 11:25 PM         

if aries mars likes football players - what does taurus mars like?

posted July 11, 2008 11:45 PM         

i am a HUGE rolling stones fan. i think i can safely say that there has never been anything elegant about ronnie wood. he has his problems - very sad for him. love a lot of his art work that i've seen.

btw - i have always had a fascination - thing - something - about brian jones - even though he died before i was born. turns out his south node is conjunct my north node - vice versa, obviously. which is interesting. always felt a really strong connection with him. paul kossoff too - but i've never looked at a chart - should do that.

posted July 12, 2008 12:18 AM         

yes, but i do have a "thing" for my irons - i'm not sure what it is - sexual, romantic, somthing other - but just something. he's very very interesting but what puts me off him is that he oh so KNOWS it.

posted July 12, 2008 12:27 AM         

I know that i read in an interview with Rachel Weisz while she was promoting The Constant Gardener, that the two of them went to The Kit Kat Club. She said he's a fantastic dancer, and likes Jazz and Swing music. I don't know what he listens to regularly, but he knows how to sweep ladies off their feet- literally.

In a woman, he hasn't bluntly said what he wants. I know he hates children, and doesn't want them in the least. He doesn't like immaturity or someone who is attention seeking. He wouldn't want someone who would tell his secrets, or seek publicity. I know in many interviews he said how much he disliked Jennifer Lopez because she was such an attention ***** , and how she needed the media like a crutch. He said that's a total turn off. He wants complete privacy.

Plus with his Venus in Scorpio, and looking at his past love choices, we can see what kind of woman he likes. He was married to Alex Kingston for a small time, and then left her for Francesca Annis, who is 18 years older than him. He began an affair with her while he was married, and after the death of his mother. THEN he cheated on Francesca with this dark, seductive Romanian singer. So he and Francesca split, then got back together, then split because he cheated again...

It's not looking very good for him in the faithful department. Mind you, he and Francesca were together for 7 or 9 years.

posted July 12, 2008 12:32 AM         

But in Damage, there's this scene where he comes over to her apartment after they all dined together, and he's on his knees in front of her and he says "All through dinner i just wanted to touch you". GOD! The way he says it... he's completely enslaved by her and his lust for her. He says it like a confession, like an urgent whisper... Wow... the intensity speaks to me!

posted July 12, 2008 12:35 AM         

HA HA!

You think you're so funny...

hadnfisdhsdkfeibfcl....

But i did quite enjoy the effeminate picture of him you posted. ^_^ Meta likey.

I read your post about the trail of hair from a man's navel heading south, and i must confess i also find that quite attractive. Must be the Mars in Taurus acting up again!

posted July 12, 2008 12:40 AM         

rafe not liking children is offputting to me. i can understand if someone doesn't want to have them, but not liking them is something else entirely. also i don't like a history of cheating - that puts me off big time. i don't feel i could ever trust that person no matter their declarations or displays of love - you'd always be wondering when you're not around - what are they up to. i completely understand rafe's dislike of j-lo and all the reasons - she has NO appeal to me - zero - just like liz hurley.