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Lioness
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posted July 15, 2013 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How to tell if your stuck in a soulmate relationship,
The best way to know is:

IF ALL YOU CAN DO, IS SCREAM AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS, JUST TO KEEP YOUR INSANITY

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr


Nuff said!!!!!!

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Randall
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posted July 16, 2013 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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tgem
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posted July 16, 2013 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm really beginning not to like soulmate relationships very much...too much pain!

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Lioness
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posted July 16, 2013 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tgem:
I'm really beginning not to like soulmate relationships very much...too much pain!


Exactly...

SM connections suck eggs...

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T
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posted July 17, 2013 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I"ve heard that's how you know it's NOT a soulmate relationship actually. When your emotions are very strong, up and down, wild and out of control or unbalanced or you get major butterflies/anxiety, obsessive and it's a rollercoaster, you can bet it's NOT a soulmate relationship - or not one that's meant to last anyway. It's more likely a karmic connection to learn something from and eventually move on from. Those kinds of feelings can even be an early indicator that you should run far away and not bother with the person.

I"ve learned that true soul connections - the ones that are truly powerful and meant to last, gift a feeling of complete comfort and ease and freedom....a deep respect and love for one another a comfortable feeling like none other, where you can truly and wholly be yourself.

I feel lucky to have found that with someone.

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Lioness
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posted July 17, 2013 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't thnk sm connections are meant to last, at least most if them.
There are to teach us some type of lesson, so I guess your karmic connection is what I mean by Sm.

For me, a SM is a soul contract so to speak with some sort if purpose.
I agree doesn't mean happily ever after.

That's he you can tell a SM connection, cuz it will be one of the hardest relationships to deal with..

But then again, no relationship is easy... Lol

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bethbabe
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posted July 17, 2013 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bethbabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny post!

But I am very new to astrology...so what indicates a soul mate relationship???

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Lioness
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posted July 18, 2013 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bethbabe:
Funny post!

But I am very new to astrology...so what indicates a soul mate relationship???


I refer you to the first post

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libraschoice77
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posted July 19, 2013 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:
I"ve heard that's how you know it's NOT a soulmate relationship actually. When your emotions are very strong, up and down, wild and out of control or unbalanced or you get major butterflies/anxiety, obsessive and it's a rollercoaster, you can bet it's NOT a soulmate relationship - or not one that's meant to last anyway. It's more likely a karmic connection to learn something from and eventually move on from. Those kinds of feelings can even be an early indicator that you should run far away and not bother with the person.

I"ve learned that true soul connections - the ones that are truly powerful and meant to last, gift a feeling of complete comfort and ease and freedom....a deep respect and love for one another a comfortable feeling like none other, where you can truly and wholly be yourself.

I feel lucky to have found that with someone.


Most of the guys I have dated before have made me feel anxious or butterflies, guess none of them were my soulmate. Have yet to encounter someone I am completely at ease with, married now but still get anxious sometimes.

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Ceridwen
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posted July 20, 2013 07:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think there are different kind of soulmate relationships.

However if it is a soulmate relationship at all, it is meant to last, at least in spiritual terms, not necessarily as a romantic relationship though.
But true soulmates are part of your being and becoming, and cannot be simply eradicated.
That doesn`t mean however we are meant to be married to them and living happily ever after.

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Doux RÍve
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posted July 20, 2013 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ This.


I think you instinctively feel it when someone's your soul mate.
That person is just very special to you no matter what, even if they're out of your life.
It's like they're a part of you, or they carry a part of you.

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eyes_like_pisces
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posted July 22, 2013 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
I don't thnk sm connections are meant to last, at least most if them.
There are to teach us some type of lesson, so I guess your karmic connection is what I mean by Sm.

For me, a SM is a soul contract so to speak with some sort if purpose.
I agree doesn't mean happily ever after.

That's he you can tell a SM connection, cuz it will be one of the hardest relationships to deal with..

But then again, no relationship is easy... Lol


I think I agree with this. But what frustrates me about this theory..is when you meet a sm, do you ever learn what the contract was or the lesson your suppose to learn? Has anyone figured that out.

I think I met a sm of mine about 7yrs ago. And I still don't know. We had sun conj astroid Destiny exact DW and north node conj karma DW. Which I guess also means our nodes were opposite.

I'm also wondering if its possible to feel the sm connection only one way? I'm not sure if he got the same reaction I did, I do recall him asking about it though. I did feel it immediately though...probably the strongest and strangest thing I ever felt.

Either way. Very painful and hard to let go! I just want to Eternal Sunshine him from my memory. I've moved on completely and want nothing to do with him but he still crosses my mind everday...ugh!

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eyes_like_pisces
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posted July 22, 2013 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:
I"ve heard that's how you know it's NOT a soulmate relationship actually. When your emotions are very strong, up and down, wild and out of control or unbalanced or you get major butterflies/anxiety, obsessive and it's a rollercoaster, you can bet it's NOT a soulmate relationship - or not one that's meant to last anyway. It's more likely a karmic connection to learn something from and eventually move on from. Those kinds of feelings can even be an early indicator that you should run far away and not bother with the person.

I"ve learned that true soul connections - the ones that are truly powerful and meant to last, gift a feeling of complete comfort and ease and freedom....a deep respect and love for one another a comfortable feeling like none other, where you can truly and wholly be yourself.

I feel lucky to have found that with someone.


I kind of agree with this too. I think the problem is, is that there are too many varied definitions of things like soul mates.

I tend to lean towards sm often people unpleasant past life connections.

Where the good relationships your describing in my opinion might be something else. Maybe a twin flame or ones of those. I'm lucky to have this with someone else. Its very comforting, and has a feeling of "rightness" and belonging. I don't get a huge sense of a past life connection though. I get more a sense of fate, plan and simple.

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AquariusBoi18
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posted July 24, 2013 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquariusBoi18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gonna have to agree with Ceridwen and Doux Reve.

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