posted December 30, 2010 03:12 PM            

You will have to do the guess work most of the time.

Randall should know about the second date thing better than I would, since he is a cappy.

My particular cappy was never a serial dater, and will tell you that he's had a serious girlfriend since he was old enough to date. (then complains bitterly that he's never had 'the single life' but that's another story).

I think Cancer and Cap is a great match.

Cap's are into their homes, as in wherever they are living.
A good portion of them don't go far from where they even grew up, especially if they still have family there. Read (MOM) cough cough.

Anyway, you being a Cancer would provide the homey, domestic stuff that makes them feel secure.
They have to feel secure in a relationship or they are just miserable.
AND appreciated, they must be appreciated.

I can tell you all of this because after it was all said and done, this is the stuff that my husband said I did wrong.
Didn't make him feel appreciated or secure.

However, I do remember years of gushing at the mouth, writing love poems and such, with barely a reply back.
I did mention that.
And he said, well, a version of the 'can't show emotion but that doesn't mean I didn't like it' thing.

SOOOO, if a Cap wants you, you'll probably know it. They may move slow but they usually have a plan in mind. And if they want you prepare to be got! Nothing deters them once they decide.
Trust me there, I am a Sag, and I RAN, RAN, RAN, and he just waited, waited, waited, until I exhausted myself and needed a secure place to fall.
Which they are good at. The always being there for you thing.

posted December 30, 2010 08:13 PM            

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posted December 30, 2010 09:33 PM            

Venus in Sag, AG, WHERE ARE YOU?? lol. I have this placement and so does my sometimes SO (not the cap, the cap has venus/cap, which is another problem) anyway, with a firey venus I would say that in theory he should come to you. (note, IN THEORY, LOL)
Don't believe everything you read because it's going to tell you that Venus Sag is a player aspect, and that isn't necessarily true, ALTHOUGH, it does make one harder to pin down.
I have to scroll to remember what else you wrote. Hang on...

OK, Libra Moon, I have this as well.
Are you sure he is single? Like postively positive? Having this placement makes one loathe being alone and also.. how do I explain this... Libra Moon people seem to have alot going on in terms of relationships. As in they aren't all the way finished, there is some lingering business, they still have feelings for someone, etc. etc.

I would check into that as thoroughly as you can before you get too involved emotionally.

Sigh, Mars in Scorpio. I wish I would of listened to someones opinion on this placement before. I think it definetly makes for a sexy guy, but watch out for the head games.

Anyway, I don't think that you being emotional would turn off a capricorn, per se, I think they may secretly envy those that can relate to their emotions.
However, they do have great BS meters and would probably be suspicious of anyone being overly emotional too soon. But since you really feel the way you feel, no worries there.

You don't know the asc?
That would help to see how he is going to act.

But just looking at the others, I think you may HAVE to do the majority of the pursuing. He may be a tad insecure and/or have difficulty making decisions and with that maybe alot of things get past him because he waits too long, thereby only reinforcing any insecurities that he MAY have.

Keeping in mind that I am just formulating an opinion on what you write here, and haven't actually met the guy.

posted December 30, 2010 11:46 PM            

Moon Aries
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio

posted December 31, 2010 12:22 AM            

Caps like their ladies to look good. Having impressive connections helps. My cappy would brag about being 'related' to my relatives because they own one of the most successful sports bars in town. He seemed to enjoy telling people that that was his 'family'.

As to what starzy said, my cap was completely opposite. He was never interested in any spicy or exotic type foods which drives me nuts. He always wanted cooking just like Moms. (he has cancer asc and moon, that is why i asked you for the other placements, makes a big difference).

Dressing nice and acting feminine is a plus. I've noticed the girls prior to and after me were super feminine and he would often state his distain for girls at clubs being really loud, aggressive and/or sloppy drunk.

I would also suggest making him feel important and needed by asking his advice on different matters. You know, like 'hey do you know a good place to get my (whatever) fixed'? and so on. They do like feeling useful.

Suffice to say, I was a hot mess coming out of a bitter divorce when I met this cap, and I think i brought out his savior/knight in shining armour thing, because he was all about saving me from myself and from the men that he insisted were out to hurt and use me.

OH, and if this helps at all, we were friends first. For quite awhile. I would call him about all my other disasterous relationships and he would give me advice. He told me later that his plan all along was to get me to date him. He says the first time he saw me in a parking lot he told his best friend (who I asked, and he verified) that, "See that girl, that is the girl I am going to marry one day."
That is what I mean about if they set out to get you, they will.

We then went from friends to friends with benefits, and long story short, were married five years later.

posted January 01, 2011 08:21 PM            

Cap men do that as well.
When the one I spoke about above was pursuing me, he would weasel it out of my friends or acquaintences where I would be going to at any given time and show up there.

posted January 04, 2011 01:44 AM            

My cap does EVERYTHING slow, except eat!
But he does take forever to decide where to eat and what to order, in fact, he used to make me order for him, because he couldn't make up his mind.
He'll STILL ask me, at a certain restaurant, "What is it that I like from here again."
I swear I don't know what he'll do when I am all the way gone.
I'll have to leave detailed notes for the next wife.

The Scorpio Mars has me a bit troubled.
Alot of girls have some not so nice stories about men with this placement. Cause Scorpio enjoys 'testing' you to see exactly how interested you really are. It can be exausting.
So, play it cool for a bit, and see what happens.
Is texting your only way of communication?

Do you guys use FB or myspace or any of that kind of stuff, you know so you can just check and see if he's really working alot or what is actually going on.