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Topic: What keeps a Capricorn man interested?
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Randall
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posted January 04, 2011 01:25 PM
  
Haha! GW, you DO know your Cappies! Yes, we eat fast. But still with class. lol With Saturn behind us, we are very patient in most matters, and so we move slowly (and cautiously in some cases). We can forget that others are not so inclined.  ------------------
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libraschoice77
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posted January 04, 2011 10:55 PM
Yea I am going nuts thinking about him, its been awhile since I have been smitten with someone so much...IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted January 05, 2011 03:29 AM
Yes, R, I try not to talk about things that I don't know alot about, but this is one subject, I DO know alot about.Live with a cap for 20 yrs, and you do learn some stuff.
Caps may eat fast, but they are NEVER sloppy or gross. Don't get me started on bathroom habits, oh wait, somebody asked in the background, ok, I'll go there.
How in 20 years do you NEVER hear a man, ummm, pass gas, and/or hear his uh, bathroom activities??? Marry a Cap, that's how.
Seriously, I've had the stomach flu with this man and never heard a peep! While me and the rest of the kids probably kept the neighbors awake, that's a cappy for ya!  I may have scared Libra off.  Sorry, sag's tell it all!!!  IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted January 05, 2011 06:57 AM
Libra, hope it works out  Haven't been exposed to this sign much either(well the males) an I can say their aloofness can drive a sag insane LOL They are cautious yes and patient and wait for it.. understanding  Dramatic yes, but new to me considering what I have been exposed to in the past. This sag is definately learning from Mr. Cap without protesting haha IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
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posted January 05, 2011 05:05 PM
Libra, (some non-astro advice) you are right to leave the ball in his court now, let him chase YOU and never let him know your true feelings too soon. If he has an interest, he'll come around IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 05, 2011 05:27 PM
Once you land him, you will have to keep him. That's the easy part. Loyalty pays huge dividends (Cappy pun intended). But have the courage to speak up when you feel he is wrong. And when he's right, stand defiantly by his side. ------------------
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Randall
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posted January 06, 2011 11:34 AM
Sags don't pull verbal punches.  ------------------
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Randall
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posted January 09, 2011 10:29 AM
Has he asked you back out?------------------
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libraschoice77
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posted January 09, 2011 11:35 PM
No he hasn't  It's as though I am chasing him, and not really getting anywhere.
I get the feeling he's seeing someone else and just not saying anything about it. Damn and I really wanted him to, problem is I don't think it would work anyway. I am an all or nothing kind of girl with relationships, my chart having a Scorpio like zest to it. There is no half way about it, if I feel someone's heart isn't really into me I walk away. I thirst for another wild child with an intensity and passion for life...IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted January 09, 2011 11:51 PM
Here's an idea of our charts...seems we our quite different as far as the way we approach love
My chart
His chart
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charmainec
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posted January 10, 2011 06:53 AM
Maybe he's busy? IF he isn't interested then he should at least be man enough to let you know instead of having you wonder.IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted January 10, 2011 03:06 PM
gypsee, you're a smart lady! i'm seeing a cappy moon (taurus sun) and this all describes him quite well. he's a bit of an enigma to me. even though we are very close, he does not talk about his feelings and acts somewhat aloof a good portion of the time. his moon expresses strongly, maybe cuz it's late degree? anyway, i'm sort of trying to figure him out, to get through that stoic super-together emotional shell. it seems like it's a default thing with him, especially when he feels vulnerable. it's kind of aggravating, to be honest. but my mom is a cap moon (though an extreme version- like all the crap you hear about them times a thousand) so i sorta know some of what it's about and am trying to remember to just be patient. IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted January 10, 2011 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Maybe he's busy? IF he isn't interested then he should at least be man enough to let you know instead of having you wonder.
Do you know his birthime for sure? If he really is a pisces ascendant then good luck with getting a clear No out of him. This is nothing against pisces asendants, I love pisces influenced people and have a lot of friends with either pisces sun or ascendant. But in a romantic context I think it's very difficult to deal with a pisces ascendant. I've had my own experience with a pisces ascendant man and yes saying no wasnt his strength. I think they just dont want to hurt anyone, so instead they remain nice/polite and txt back and won't ever openly reject you. So of course it's very difficult to give up hope They are instead always just out of reach, making excuses, so sorry, extremely busy, so sorry just got back from a conference and so on and so forth. Would be interesting to see how a pisces ascendant man acts when he is interested...
I'm a capricorn female and I have to say I'm very very careful to show any interest. But if I understand you correctly you have already had a date? So to me that would have been the real hurdle. If I then dont react further, that would be a sign (in my case) that I'm not really feeling it. But again, I'm a woman. The above mentioned pisces ac(who wasnt interested but never clearly rejected me) had a brother who happened to be capricorn and who turned out to be very interested in me. Contrary to his pisces ac brother he made it very clear that he was intersted. This guy was very capricornian with sun, mercury and venus in cappy, mars in saggi (just like me). IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted January 10, 2011 03:48 PM
Annuf, I am pisces rising and I disagree.It's more than just the rising sign that comes into play.I am direct in romantic matters and if I am not interested in someone I will tell them directly too.W, yeah aloofness can drive you nuts.It can be a defense mechanism  IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted January 10, 2011 05:13 PM
Chairmainec,Are you female or male and may I just ask what other strong influences you have in your chart? And how you would act when you are interested (are you direct)?) I really would be interested. IP: Logged |
charmainec
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posted January 10, 2011 05:19 PM
Female. Sag sun and venus in cappy.IP: Logged |
Steam
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posted January 11, 2011 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by charmainec:
Annuf, I am pisces rising and I disagree.It's more than just the rising sign that comes into play.I am direct in romantic matters and if I am not interested in someone I will tell them directly too.W, yeah aloofness can drive you nuts.It can be a defense mechanism
I agree. Another Pisces rising, Aries sun. Even though my chart is ruled by Venus & Neptune, I will not lead someone on. Of course, it may take me time to really know but once I do, I will be honest. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted January 11, 2011 12:24 AM
Woah Cakes, you are seeing a Cappy Moon?
Don't believe all that bad stuff you read!!
My Gosh, that moon sign gets dragged through the mud in every article I read.
My son is a Cap moon, and he's so lovable and loving.
He plays his cards close to his chest though true to most cappies.
Libra- I had a feeling he was seeing someone else, it was just a feeling, but I hope for your sake that I am wrong.
But, if he is, and he's talking to you, then that may be a pretty good indication that he isn't happy.
Cos, in most cases, cappies won't cheat on their partners.
So, at least you know he has integrity.
IF, and we are still at the IF stage, that is the case.
Can't you ask his friends or someone he works with maybe, whether or not he's seeing someone?? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 11, 2011 02:22 AM
Very wise words, GW.------------------
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woah cakes
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posted January 11, 2011 01:30 PM
yeah, gyps, i am! he's sooooo darling and kind and protective but i sense it is just so difficult for him to talk about his feelings. though he seems to love when i talk about mine, in relation to us/him. perhaps beCAUSE he cannot. yeah, i don't know many cap moons but my mom IS like all the bad stuff you read, and worse. this guy certainly isn't like her in the least, except as far as not showing his feelings readily. i think at heart they are similar to cancer moons, but inverse. i have draco cancer rising and venus, which puts his moon in my draco 7th. and his draco sun conjuncts my natal sun, so these are places we can relate. i think i will just trust my intuition about his emotions. i suppose that it takes them forever to feel comfortable/safe enough to be vulnerable enough to reveal, or maybe they never do? trusting my intuition thus far as worked and he has been responsive. and try not to feel frustrated since it's his nature! IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted January 11, 2011 06:00 PM
I think your right GW, I might try to ask one of his friends whats going on(I hope one of them tells me). At least I will find out, and can stop wondering whats going on. He talks to me, but I mean its like he's afraid or cautious with me. Ohhh and he seems to say 'thank you' alot after he texts me, which I find really odd...IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted January 11, 2011 06:11 PM
Yes, that's his time of birth, I went ahead and asked him what it was. The one thing that struck me about his natal chart is that Mars in Scorpio in 8th house. Wouldn't that make him quite the loverboy??IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted January 11, 2011 07:14 PM
MY OH MY.i just had a thought or two. should i let him 'father' me? i just picked up one of my astrology books and one of their cap moon descriptors is 'fatherly', just as cancer is 'motherly'. perhaps this is how they show affection and care; by guiding and supporting, but sorta stoically. makes sense. i'm not one to behave submissively (sag rising, aqua sun/mars/merc), but my taurus moon does trine his and is in the 4th and being 'fathered' is actually somewhat appealing to me. he is really respectful. so long as i can mother him back. sharing nurturing is a big part of a happy relationship, in my eyes. maybe this is the secret to understanding strongly capricorn influenced. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted January 11, 2011 07:30 PM
Wow! This is a lot to tackle. I've got half an hour. quote:
I think Cancer and Cap is a great match.
It's weird. That's the sign I've dated the most, but it doesn't work out, and usually I've been the one broken up with. My impression is that they're too sensitive. They perceive slights when none are intended. Plus Cardinal signs always have an agenda, and Cancer won't really deal with a person outside of the confines of their agenda. I'm Mutable enough that I can become the supportive side of the relationship, but really both Cardinal signs need a teammate, and I don't think these are easily matched. His placements in the same sign as my chart: Cap Sun
Mars in Scorpio
Venus in Sag
Neptune in Sag
Pluto in Libra
Uranus in Libra quote:
with a firey venus I would say that in theory he should come to you. (note, IN THEORY, LOL)
If he's really, really interested, and doesn't have any reason to hesitate, yes. You found Pisces Rising, which may seem indecisive, but I wouldn't imagine it's more indecisive than my Gemini Rising. quote:
Sigh, Mars in Scorpio. I wish I would of listened to someones opinion on this placement before. I think it definetly makes for a sexy guy, but watch out for the head games.
No head games here...unless someone tries them with me, in which case it's on. quote:
I think they may secretly envy those that can relate to their emotions.
Indeed, though I'd make a caveat for myself that I think I prefer a masculine Sun in a woman because they're less offendable (or maybe they just understand my Sag Mercury better). quote:
Maybe dutch treat, but paying AND being the one that asks him out might seem a little desperate and may also set the tone for a future of him expecting more of the same.
I agree. I wouldn't ask him out if he's showing hesitation, though. Not until you really think he's interested. If he's putting you on hold because he's not sure you're interested, just show interest, but if he's putting you on hold for some other reason, it won't necessarily go away just because you ask him out. quote:
Dressing nice and acting feminine is a plus. I've noticed the girls prior to and after me were super feminine and he would often state his distain for girls at clubs being really loud, aggressive and/or sloppy drunk.
That's a tough subject for me after being with a Sag. She made me feel bad about what I thought might look good on her, because she thought it was too girly. It wasn't intentional, nor did I think the stuff looked good because it was girly. I just thought it might be flattering. My Sag did suspect that I wanted a more feminine woman. I don't think I do. Further, I kind of think that some tomboyish women don't understand that they aren't betraying themselves by dressing feminine. Heidi Klum's a masculine Sun. So is Angelina Jolie. They understand that it's not too far out of character to dress feminine on occasion. Doesn't have to be all the time or anything. No one's challenging their manhood. They can still be the man while acknowledging their actual gender from time to time. quote:
I would also suggest making him feel important and needed by asking his advice on different matters. You know, like 'hey do you know a good place to get my (whatever) fixed'? and so on. They do like feeling useful.
True, but asking a squaring sign could be a set-up for an argument. She's closer to a trine with this guy, so it's probably ok, but in general Libra is going to think she knows best, and Capricorn is going to think he knows best, and the two opinions could be quite far from one another. Alright, that's my time. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted January 11, 2011 07:41 PM
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No one's challenging their manhood. They can still be the man while acknowledging their actual gender from time to time.
that's a toughie for me. i am very tomboyish myself (well androgyny is more my thing). this guy is super masculine in most ways but has not objected to my leg or armpit hair or general 'manliness'. apparently i am perceived as very feminine in appearance but i've always felt like a gay man trapped in a woman's body and don't wear girly clothes. ever. hmmmm. i will try to wrap my head around this, as i sort of feel like i'd like to compliment his supermasculinity a bit more, and maybe this isn't SUCH an awful concept. IP: Logged |
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