posted July 28, 2015 12:41 PM            

I had 4 major "rejections" in my life.

15: Sagittarius male who "ugly-shamed" me in high school after I had told him I liked him. I had such a huge crush on him. He was my first crush. It took me two years to get over him.

18: Sagittarius male who was a major player. He told me he liked me but kept dating other girls and then disappeared.

21: A Gemini male who rejected me after he found out I wasn't "white".

23-24: A Pisces male (most definitely my biggest heartbreak of all time. I'm still hurting almost two years later. He was a jerk). I could go on and on about him, so I'm going to refrain from telling this story. It was pretty bad. The deepest scar.

Geez, I noticed that every single sign who truly scared me was a mutable sign. They all looked the same, by the way. Damn.

I also never noticed how I got a heartbreak every 3 years. Bizarre.

How about you guys?

posted July 28, 2015 01:02 PM            

A Libra guy was my biggest heartbreak. We had an amazing relationship, loved hanging out with one another and never fought. He was the first guy who genuinely loved me and I, him. Then unexpectedly he ended things. He never gave me a reason and just disappeared out of my life. That was 1 1/2 years ago and I never heard from again. This Venus RX is digging up this hurt for me pretty bad.

posted July 28, 2015 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I'm not sure if anyone has already posted a similar thread, but as Venus is now Retrograde, I've been reminiscing my past heartbreaks.

I had 4 major "rejections" in my life.

[b]15: Sagittarius male who "ugly-shamed" me in high school after I had told him I liked him. I had such a huge crush on him. He was my first crush. It took me two years to get over him.

18: Sagittarius male who was a major player. He told me he liked me but kept dating other girls and then disappeared.

21: A Gemini male who rejected me after he found out I wasn't "white".

23-24: A Pisces male (most definitely my biggest heartbreak of all time. I'm still hurting almost two years later. He was a jerk). I could go on and on about him, so I'm going to refrain from telling this story. It was pretty bad. The deepest scar.

Geez, I noticed that every single sign who truly scared me was a mutable sign. They all looked the same, by the way. Damn.

I also never noticed how I got a heartbreak every 3 years. Bizarre.

How about you guys?

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Wow those are some painful breakups. Hopefully youve fully recovered from that

posted July 28, 2015 01:41 PM              

Not a fan of Aries moon guys either. Or Sag moon. OK, all fire and all mutable moons but Pisces are a no-go for me.

posted July 28, 2015 02:40 PM            

To this day, I have no idea how this happened, but after the Cancer left me I stopped experiencing emotion for like a week (maybe a little longer). I knew it was temporary, but I had to rely on my memory to interact with people until my emotions came back.

I'm not sure why my emotions shut off like that. I mean, yea, heartbreak is tough. Still, how many instances involve a total emotional shutdown? When I think about it, I think it was the fact he violated my trust severely that caused my emotions to shut down. I did trust him more than anyone else for the longest time.

Since the Cancer's "betrayal" I haven't been able to trust anyone else like I was able to trust him.

Even after the Cancer begged to get me back, I never fell for him again. I eventually dumped the Cancer after I realized my feelings weren't coming back. But yea, I tried so hard to love him again and there was just nothing there after I got over the heartbreak.

My relationship with that Cancer, however, was superficial. I don't think there was much there. At the time though, I thought I was in love. Looking back, he was a bit dull and boring and I feel like I used him without realizing it.

Edit: As for our synastry...
His Venus trines my Venus.
His Jupiter sextiles my Jupiter.
His Mars squares my Midheaven.
His Chiron conjuncts my Midheaven.
His Venus conjuncts my Midheaven.
My Venus trines his Chiron

posted July 28, 2015 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
My biggest heartbreak so far has been a Cancer (degree unknown but for some reason I still remember his birthday).

To this day, I have no idea how this happened, but after the Cancer left me I stopped experiencing emotion for like a week (maybe a little longer). I knew it was temporary, but I had to rely on my memory to interact with people until my emotions came back.

I'm not sure why my emotions shut off like that. I mean, yea, heartbreak is tough. Still, how many instances involve a total emotional shutdown? When I think about it, I think it was the fact he violated my trust severely that caused my emotions to shut down. I did trust him more than anyone else for the longest time.

Since the Cancer's "betrayal" I haven't been able to trust anyone else like I was able to trust him.

Even after the Cancer begged to get me back, I never fell for him again. I eventually dumped the Cancer after I realized my feelings weren't coming back. But yea, I tried so hard to love him again and there was just nothing there after I got over the heartbreak.

My relationship with that Cancer, however, was superficial. I don't think there was much there. At the time though, I thought I was in love. Looking back, he was a bit dull and boring and I feel like I used him without realizing it.

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I experienced the exact same "emotional block" after the Pisces disappeared on me. I couldn't feel anything whether it was sadness, anger, happiness or boredom. I was a robot. It took me about a month to recover and to start feeling angry, sad ...

Right after he disappeared on me, I wasn't able to feel anything. I think it was an "emotional shock" of some sort because I didn't expect it. It was so deep that even my menstrual cycle got messed up. When I was finally able to feel emotions again, my cycle got back on track. Emotions can really affect your physical well-being. I had no clue about this until then.

My apologies for oversharing, but your reaction to your breakup sparked some memories I had buried.

posted July 28, 2015 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:

[b]15: Sagittarius male who "ugly-shamed" me in high school after I had told him I liked him. I had such a huge crush on him. He was my first crush. It took me two years to get over him.

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Same. Except I was 9 and I didn't tell him I liked him. My friends did. And it took me about 6 years to get over him. Lol it was probably more like puppy love though.

Second was when was last year and I was 17. Met an Aries. I liked him but then he cheated on his girlfriend with me and then I found out he also was seeing another girl behind my back.

posted July 28, 2015 03:16 PM            

I was 9.
I told him I love him. He laughed into my face.
He was a Libra.

(I swore I would never tell anyone again I love them. And I didn`t. Isn`t that sad? )

Second heartbreak
I was 14
He was getting together with an aquaitance of mine (she later told me she only wanted him, because she knew I liked him, and she wanted to get back at me for something. She dumped him pretty quickly. I am not sure he ever really knew I liked him though.).
He was a Libra.

Then with 15
total insane Don Quichote-Dulcinea crush on an elder guy, who was gay (which I did not know at that time).
It`s interesting this was maybe the most pain I have ever experienced in all my life and the only time it drove me to feel almost suicidal. My 18th birthday was a real joy thus.
He was an Aries (and it as totally not his fault. I am good in making my hell myself)

Somewhen in between the gay-Aries-emotional-trauma I managed to squeeze in two more heartbreaks. lol

One was with a guy, who had been apparently interested in me, but since I was not ready to go as far as he apparently wanted, he rather started making out with my best friend, of course in my presence.
A Scorpio, interestingly.
and also interestingly it was not so much a heartbreak, but an embarassment.

Another one played the piano at our schoolmusical, when I was in the chorus.
Boy did I romanticize this guy!
He liked me, but I donīt think he was really interesting in anything but his music for real. And it really really hurt. of course I never told him I like him.
He was an Aries.

And in between all the Libra and Aries-heartbreak, I managed to completely zone out and ignore the Sagittarius-boys swarming around me and trying to move heaven and earth to get my attention.
Well in two cases I DID notice, because they had a bit of a stalker-attitude and I only got rid of them in the one case when my Gemini friend told him he would beat him up if he did not leave me be (I did not agree with that, but that`s how he was, the Gemini, oh he was a bit of a hearbreak as well; we had a bit of a flirt going on once, and he told me, that he thought I was the most attractive when I was resisting, and became boring when not. Now that I think about it this might have had more an effect on me and my behavioural pattern than I had been thinking so far)

And the other STalker-Sag,well three things helped getting rid of him:
1) he found a new one to stalk (did not keep him from stalk me as well, but he had to divide his time and attention)
2) telling him I had become a lesbian
3) move.

Seriously. it really only stopped when school ended and I moved on to university. lol

Now that I think of it, most of these Sags had a bit of a chip on their shoulders, and I recall that I saw one of them (not a stalker, but the push-pull-Sag with whom I had very interesting chemistry during the schooltime, not entirely healthy either I suppose. lol) anyway he hadnīt gotten even normal when I saw him again after 10 years for a reunion. he couldnīt even quite look at me back then, and was more than a little unfriendly.

Whereas the other SAg, I only many years later realized I liked quite a bit, pulled me into a hug the moment he saw me (and simultaneiously telling me he was actually not a hugging-person. lol I guess I was the exception ).

Now that I think of it, a lot of Sags in my life, but neither broke my heart (cause I never even really understood that they might be wanting to spend so much time to me for another reason, and not completely platonic. lol)

posted July 28, 2015 03:26 PM              

so cruel,, lol

posted July 28, 2015 03:29 PM              

2) telling him I had become a lesbian

so cruel,, lol

posted July 28, 2015 04:19 PM            

A Libra was the most heartbreaking.

But that is only words. The truth is it's all very cloudy and difficult to remember from an emotional standpoint. I remember things and emotions but I can't remember how intensely I felt them. Therefore, it's speculation on my part.

posted July 28, 2015 10:32 PM            

Capricorn, Capricorn, Capricorn.

Capricorn ranks in 3 of the top 5 breakups. 5 of the top 7 if I count all three times with my ex-wife. The third time nearly killed me.