posted September 03, 2003 10:21 AM              

Don't take this the wrong way, as I am an Aries myself. I suspect you are more attracted to the idea of a future romance, and him being a different person than who he is being now.

You really haven't said much about either of your personalities, and more than possibly haven't thought about whether the two of you could even sustain a healthy relationship.

It takes a rare Aries to know the differences between the idea and the reality of a situation. And it's even harder for many of us Arians to be objective about ourselves.

Gem Aries, you really have to acknowledge him for the whole package. Scorpio, or not! I suspect you only like particular parts of himself, and the other parts you'd probably work on eradicating. Which is a big mistake!

You being an Aries Sun, makes you more than capable of being solitary. Yes, I really said that. Unlike Aries' Cardinal Sisters and Brothers (Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn), Aries is not addicted to the traditional roles of courtship, marriage, family, hearth and home. Unlike the other three signs, who will knock themselves over with doing things much, much earlier than most---like getting married, staying in bad relationships for years, having kids for the sake of salvaging a broken home, etc. Aries Suns just do not invest heavily in pain and misery for ourselves, and especially not for others.

Look again, sweet thing---you are in love with love, and in love with yourself. Which isn't a good or bad thing, it just is. I really sense you don't love this man for who he is, just for what he has done for you in the past---give you the attention you are craving for.

Love

posted September 03, 2003 01:26 PM              

1scorp- I won't call him, Thanks again... He hasn't called and so I will move on.

Thanks again to all the inspired email.

My Faith in God will guide my through this...

The Funny thing is that my Psychic told me that he would come after me as soon as I moved on......

His a Playboy and I'm sure he found and has many crazzy fans after and with him............

God Bless You All

posted September 03, 2003 01:29 PM              

1scorp- I won't call him, Thanks again... He hasn't called and so I will move on.

Thanks again to all the inspired email.

My Faith in God will guide my through this...

The Funny thing is that my Psychic told me that he would come after me as soon as I moved on......

His a Playboy and I'm sure he found and has many crazzy fans after and with him............

God Bless You All

posted September 04, 2003 09:05 PM              

Seems like there is more than one of us having trouble with a Scorpio man! (Good luck GeminiAries

Just an update with my Scorpio man... I saw him at his work yesterday (He works at a cafe, so it is quite easy to pop in and grab a coffee as an excuse to see him . He was exceptionally cold and distant - and when i tried to talk to him he just clammed up and looked like he was sulking! I tried to call him over to finish ordering my meal (at this point he had actually walked off during our conversation!!), and his response was 'WH-AAATTT!!'. I said, "well fine then!", and walked off. He tried to make things up, saying, 'Oh! I'm sorry' sounding all appologetic, but quite frankly i can't work this bloke out! It was almost like he was trying to start a fight with me!!

I checked my synestry with him - its absolutely fantastic - all trines and good stuff, specially with Venus and our ascendants. HOWEVER! Being a stubbourn Bull I've put my foot down! No more putting up with being treated like **** by a bloke - NO matter HOW special he is!!

LOL
Nebel

posted September 05, 2003 02:16 AM              

My God I thought that I was the only one dealing with a Scorpio. It's sad to say that I'm glad that I now know that I'm not the only one going through this. The only different with my scorpio man is that he only acts cold and rude on the phone in person he says the most loving things to me. ............

And....... I don't sleep with him..

I wish that he would treasure me as I treasure my times with him. I used to call & talk to him 2 times day just to hear his voice.

Now I don't call at all......... Well not since August 29. LOL LOL LOL

Feels like forever......

If he doesnt call, I hope that he has a great life.... Now it's his turn to come after me......

Atleast you have an excuse to see your guy at the coffee shop.

Please keep writing about your guy.....

I think that are scorps are TWINS seperated at birth- very moody and unpredictable.

Have Faith

posted September 05, 2003 03:58 PM              

So what your saying is to bit your tongue and to kiss their Ass.

Why is that Scorpio are known as delicate people and others must tiptoe around them?

My God, what you just said is to give them their way in hopes that they won't have a fit.

posted September 05, 2003 04:39 PM              

Basically Scorps are complex -- and they can be buggers -- very unfair, yet expecting the best from the objects of their attention/obsession. I think it comes from their intensity and deep loyalty -- if they have their sights set on you, or have really chosen you, then in their minds the bond is "forever", which means that to them how they treat you is just surface behaviour that shouldn't matter. Or, if they're only acting on the level of possession, that your feelings are beside the point. It's up to the non-Scorp to discern which way they're being treated, because the loyalty thing is one thing, and can be negotiated, but the possession thing is another -- there can be no negotiation there, because that kind of Scorp does not respect you. The first kind of Scorp can learn that their treatment of others can have an effect they don't intend.

Well, don't we all. Aren't we all just a little like this behaviour we're describing?

Boy I sure have opinions today. Better go take them out for some air!

posted September 05, 2003 10:36 PM              

I noticed that the best way to deal with a Scorpio is TO DO YOUR OWN THINGS. Be loyal to them but keep on your opinion and they will respect you. Become submisive- and they will take you for granted, and who wouldnt by the way, its so human to build your own little power impery on another`s weaknesses and dependecy.

But my question would be - how to get rid of a Scorpio? Its been said that the most difficult thing is to get rid of a Scorpio man or a Cancer woman. lol
It seems as thou - one could never get rid of a Scorpio..........

posted September 05, 2003 11:41 PM              

Did you ask how to get rid of a Scorpio? I think that God Has a good sense of humor. Here I am hurting that this fool hurt me, and here you are trying to get rid of one.

I dated a Virgo for 2 yrs.I had him in my back pocket. The sweetest,sensitive man I knew.

My brother a Scorp is Gold. I fear him , but his Gold.

LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL

Being too NEEDY,SHOWING THAT YOU CARE, GIVING THEM YOUR HEART- is the best way to get ride of them................

That's how I got RID/LOST my Scorpio.

posted September 06, 2003 12:44 AM              

DIE DIE DIE!!!

There. Feel better, Gem/Aries? He's dead now.

posted September 09, 2003 01:47 AM              

I don't think this Taurus (Now i can't speak for all of us here) is prone to 'Chit-Chat', in fact i find chit chat quite irritating and much prefer to have a conversation. And impatient is not another word i would use to describe myself. The fact i called into my scorpios work a few times (Four times in a Month - is that too often?!) is not very supect - purely when his cafe is the ONLY cafe within 20km of where i live - do you want me to give up coffee for a bloke?!

Thanxs LL for the advice - perhaps i took the 'stalking' comment a bit to heavily

LOL
Nebel

posted September 09, 2003 02:05 AM              

READING LINDA'S SUN-SIGN BOOK HELPS ALOT.

MY SCORP IS NOW DATING A NEW GIRL...... I FEEL LIKE HE IS. BUT WHO KNOWS. I WISH HIM THE BEST.....

IF HE CALLS ME, IF HE EVER CALLS ME? SHOULD I BE RUDE OR PLAY AS IF I DONT CARE? I HATE PRETENDING. I NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HIM AND MYSELF ON HOW HE HURT ME.

IF HE WANTS TO BE FRIENDS? SEE ME? MAKE IT EASY ON HIM OR BE A REAL ***** .