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astro junkie unregistered	posted May 22, 2004 05:25 AM Oh please! You know how innocent I am... IP: Logged
ariestiger unregistered	posted May 22, 2004 01:15 PM GeminiAries - I think, if you both want a future for this relationship, you both need to focus on rebuilding TRUST in one another...and I think maybe you need to bring the subject up and establish that you BOTH want to give it a go. But, remember - you will need to restart as if from scratch, and not let past events get in the way. Difficult. Try just being nice with him. Happy and relaxed, and show that you are living a full life and are able to talk about it and are enjoying it. Then, when he has to leave, just smile and say, "Okay. Bye". If you mkae a point of being this way enough with him, and in the rest of your life too, after a while it will start to become second nature. Trust me. I know (although we all have our ups and downs). See what happens. If you eventually don't wind up having a relationship with him, remember, all is not lost! IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 22, 2004 02:11 PM Ariestiger~ You know your own truth.. what matters to you, what feels true and legitimate. Do what you need to do. You seem to have it mapped out, and it is not unreasonable to seek something you need from someone else if you aren't getting it where you should. After all, that's what we do when playing the dating game.... maybe marriage is supposed to be the last relationship you'll be in, but only if you both WANT TO BE THERE!!!! If you know now that you are incompatible, by all means, once you've figured it out, go to it. I mean really, be happy! Good luck! IP: Logged
PlayfulPonderingFishMoon unregistered	posted May 22, 2004 04:31 PM ariestiger, I am the first one to advise you to end your marriage if you feel that you have lost the love and compatibility with your husband by now. Both you AND your husband deserve to be in relationships which reflect true spiritual growth for each one of you, and if you can no longer achieve that growth with each other, then there really is no further reason to keep the marriage in place anymore. HOWEVER, I still advise you to please consider the fact that you DID make a marriage vow that you would indeed adhere to the acknowledgement of a certain structure and definition of things where your relationship with him is concerned once you became wed to him as well. I am assuming that when you wed that you and your husband did promise to be honest and faithful to one another so long as your marriage to one another was still officially in place? So, if you do decide to make a move in this other man's direction because of your dissatisfaction with your husband, I would hope that you would inform your husband of your change in focus BEFORE you made that move towards your new interest. Regardless of your own personal feelings about your husband and your marriage with him by this point, until you officially break things off with him in that way, he is most likely still under the impression that there is still somehow a future with you. And so I personally think that letting him know about your change in feelings before you pursue any new things with this other man is obviously just the most decent thing for you to do. Ok, I hope that all of that came out right, so to speak, and that you got what I was trying to say without you being upset by any of my words. Openness and honesty are two of the most important things in this world to me, so sue me for it, I guess, lol. Playful ------------------ "Somewhere once I had read a description of eternity. 'If there were a mile high mountain of granite, and once every ten thousand years, a bird flew past and brushed it with a feather, by the time that mountain was worn away, only a fraction of a second would have passed in the context of eternity.'" IP: Logged
ariestiger unregistered	posted May 22, 2004 05:48 PM Playful, I understand completely what you are saying. Our marriage ceremony was held in a registry office; I can't remember much about our marriage vows(!), but the one thing that DID stand out about the words we chose, so far as I can remember, (they did not follow the traditional script) was the promise to "always be one another's friend"...which I think maybe both of us may have lapsed on... I did love my husband once, and for quite a while after our marriage...he seemed everything I wanted at the time, but people change, sometimes out of all proportion. He hasn't changed much, so far as I can see, it's ME, and I never thought I would be saying what I am saying now. I guess that now I just have different expectations all round regarding what I want from a relationship; I'm not actually convinced that marriage is a natural state for me. I put the question to DH recently about how he might react if I met someone else, and he said, well, he couldn't stop me, if that's what I wanted. "Wouldn't you be the least mite jealous?" I asked him. He shrugged his shoulders and just said he couldn't stop me. - Perhaps I ought to be thankful for his attitude; if we were to break up, the process would at least be as emotionally painless as possible! I think the relationship has come to the end of its natural life, and it is unfair, really, to and for both of us, not to go our separate ways. But, of course, the time needs to be right... Pixelpixie - Thank you for your good wishes - which are reciprocated! IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted May 25, 2004 11:30 AM deleting old posts IP: Logged
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pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 25, 2004 11:42 AM Natasha! I love your posts!!!! IP: Logged
ariestiger unregistered	posted May 26, 2004 03:21 PM if a Scorpio is dating he is sick or needs money? Natasha - do you mean by that that they usually meet you, know they want you and THAT'S IT...? I can appreciate the difficulty of the Aqua/Scorpio square. My husband started work at the same place as me when we were newly married, only in a different department, and he and my Scorpio boss DEFINETELY kept each other at arm's length. They were both INCREDIBLY jealous of one another...but then DH has a Scorpio Ascendant... IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted May 26, 2004 04:26 PM deleting old posts IP: Logged
ariestiger unregistered	posted May 26, 2004 05:03 PM Natasha, I have a question. How good are Scorpios with long-distance relationships? Can that equal commitment to them? IP: Logged
GeminiAries unregistered	posted May 31, 2004 04:31 PM Natasha You need to write a book on Scorpio men. Wow! you are so right about them. I trully believe that they don't date. You are so right. That confidence they have is the sexiest thing. IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted May 31, 2004 05:02 PM deleting old posts IP: Logged
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pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 11:11 AM "Here are the words of one Scorp: I am a Scorpio (October 28th) and in my "humble" opinion there aren't any other noteworthy astrological signs." COOL! I've been quoted. I found this site while Googling my website name... Good find! - Chelle IP: Logged
pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 11:50 AM I am a Oct 28th Scorpio married to a Nov 16th Scorpio and it's been the best relationship of our lives. We've been together now for nearly 8 years and still have the best red hot sex you could ever imagine everyday. We understand each other so well that we've actually been able to overcome the jealousy we used to battle with in our relationship together. If you find yourself in a relationship with another Scorpio, you'd better commit yourself completely or it will never work - we can sniff these things out, so there's no hiding it. For a lot of people it's just too heavy, but for others like me, there's absolutely no other sign that will do. I'm not sure which part I love more, being totally consumed by my scorpion, or totally consuming him. ;)~ - Chelle IP: Logged
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009	posted January 21, 2007 12:25 PM Blast from the past!! I'm an October 28th Scorpio too. Just wanted to say Hi IP: Logged
pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 04:15 PM Hi Pixel Nice to meet another October 28th Scorpio. Are you a multi-billionaire yet like Bill Gates (also Oct 28)? I keep waiting for that to happen over here! Just my two sense on Scorpio men... I've had two in my life as lovers, one I couldn't stand to be around him for very long and the other I couldn't stand to be apart from so I married him. As partners the two couldn't be more different from each other than night from day, with the exception of their love of sex and money. So much for astrological generalities... They do however, seem to need to find women who respect them though... not as in doormat respect, but trust. They need to be the "boss" of their home, but they want a woman who challenges them as well. You need to have your own life and independence but you have to also make a LOT of time to baby them. They're strange creatures, but they give as much as they get. Why do I suddenly feel like I am writing about the care of an animal??? LOL...hmmmm...maybe I am! - Chelle IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 05:02 PM I like Nov. Scorpios better. The men though. ------------------ I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
Natural111 unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 05:16 PM No'one ever answered this question from Lioneye! Back in 2003 I was dealing with the same SCORP those other ladies were dealing with. All of us in different parts of the world. Nobody's ever given me SUCH A HEADACHE AND HEARTACHE as the Scorp I was dealing with. But it was a sort of surreal HEADACHE AND HEARTACHE because I didn't know what the HECK we really were! The question is below.... Can someone answer IT, in 2007? quote: I have but one question....Why don't Scorpios call someone if they care about them? I got the same run around from a Scorp I was seeing way back when. It's the fact that he would go weeks without calling me that p**sed me off to no end, and I just moved on. Then, he starting showing up at my work and skulking around corners at me, but not actually coming up to talk to me.(?!) I had had it with his cat and mouse games by that point, and just ignored him. He stopped showing up eventually. And I never called him again, nor him me. I felt just like you, Gem/Aries. If we both have feelings for each other, and would like to be together, why play games? WHY???? I just don't get it. I guess that's the difference between fire signs and water signs. At least between Scorpios and fire signs. Why be so damn obscure about it all? It's like a test. "If you really want to be with me, you'll wait forever, and never lose faith in my feelings for you, even if I NEVER give an inch. In other words, you'll find a way to delude yourself into staying faithful to "US", without any outward encouragement from ME" Well, I'm sorry, but I need feedback. And I need it now. Inquiring minds want to know if there's an answer to this. IP: Logged
neptune5 unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 05:16 PM i have a general question, how do scorpio risings tend to date? IP: Logged
pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 06:05 PM With condoms! - Chelle IP: Logged
pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 06:16 PM "Why don't Scorpios call someone if they care about them?" Because Scorpios look at all persons they are interested in as possible marriage partners...that isn't to say they WILL marry them, but they have commitment in mind always (unless they are already married). It also takes a lot to keep a Scorpio's interest. They want someone strong and thought provoking like them. They also like a little bit of a chase... my Scorpio man pursued me for months before I relented and that made him all the more intent on getting me. It wasn't a game, I just wasn't decided at first. - Chelle IP: Logged
sthenri unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 06:19 PM deleting old posts IP: Logged
pukachelle unregistered	posted January 21, 2007 06:26 PM "Most Scorpios call me from the tow yard asking me to wire money so they can get their car back. After a weekend of partying and losing all their money in a casino. If I don't answer I get text messages, sexy ones. yes they can be very faithful." Those are toxic personalities and thrive in all signs. Don't answer or text back... bad news. "In retrospect I would only be good friends with a water sign if I was available. Availability is important to scorpios especially." Me and mine are available to each other always... that's important. Friends though...they have their place and it isn't in everyday life. - Chelle IP: Logged

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