posted January 11, 2007 09:18 PM              

Heres mine:
Astrological Data used for Short Report - Personal Portraitfor Jani (female)
born on 29 Nov 1980 local time 2:35 pm
in Bangalore, INDIA U.T. 09:05
77e35, 12n59 sid. time 18:48:57

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Sagittarius 7°18'31 in house 8 direct
Moon Virgo 6°53'33 in house 5 direct
Mercury Scorpio 20°25'01 in house 8 direct
Venus Scorpio 6°33'15 in house 7 direct
Mars Capricorn 5°33'10 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Libra 5°47'24 in house 6 direct
Saturn Libra 7°36'41 in house 6 direct
Uranus Scorpio 26°33'36 in house 8 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 21°49'57 in house 9 direct
Pluto Libra 23°22'39 in house 7 direct
True Node Leo 13°26'03 in house 5 direct

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aries 14°45'11
2nd House Taurus 17°24'04
3rd House Gemini 15°19'52
Imum Coeli Cancer 11°15'16
5th House Leo 8°22'05
6th House Virgo 9°25'20
Descendant Libra 14°45'11
8th House Scorpio 17°24'04
9th House Sagittarius 15°19'52
Medium Coeli Capricorn 11°15'16
11th House Aquarius 8°22'05
12th House Pisces 9°25'20

Major aspectsSun Square Moon 0°25
Sun Sextile Jupiter 1°31
Sun Sextile Saturn 0°18
Sun Trine Ascendant 7°27
Moon Sextile Venus 0°20
Moon Trine Mars 1°20
Venus Sextile Mars 1°00
Mars Square Jupiter 0°14
Mars Square Saturn 2°04
Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 1°49
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°33
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

Him:

Astrological Data used for Short Report - Personal Portraitfor Him (male)
born on 30 June 1978 local time 7:10 pm
in Bangalore, INDIA U.T. 13:40
77e35, 12n59 sid. time 13:23:25

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Cancer 8°24'17 in house 6 direct
Moon Taurus 14°43'16 in house 4 direct
Mercury Cancer 25°51'28 in house 7 direct
Venus Leo 16°44'04 in house 8 direct
Mars Virgo 9°13'37 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Cancer 15°36'03 in house 7 direct
Saturn Leo 27°10'50 in house 8 direct
Uranus Scorpio 12°29'59 in house 10 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 16°21'26 end of house 11 retrograde
Pluto Libra 13°54'33 in house 9 direct
True Node Libra 0°53'25 in house 9 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Capricorn 14°06'31
2nd House Aquarius 15°51'04
3rd House Pisces 19°42'19
Imum Coeli Aries 22°32'49
5th House Taurus 21°49'15
6th House Gemini 18°09'20
Descendant Cancer 14°06'31
8th House Leo 15°51'04
9th House Virgo 19°42'19
Medium Coeli Libra 22°32'49
11th House Scorpio 21°49'15
12th House Sagittarius 18°09'20

Major aspectsSun Sextile Moon 6°19
Sun Sextile Mars 0°49
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 7°12
Sun Trine Uranus 4°06
Sun Square Pluto 5°30
Sun Opposition Ascendant 5°42
Moon Square Venus 2°01
Moon Trine Mars 5°30
Moon Sextile Jupiter 0°53
Moon Opposition Uranus 2°13
Moon Quincunx Neptune 1°38
Moon Quincunx Pluto 0°49
Moon Trine Ascendant 0°37
Venus Square Uranus 4°14
Venus Trine Neptune 0°23
Venus Sextile Pluto 2°50
Venus Quincunx Ascendant 2°38
Mars Sextile Uranus 3°16
Mars Trine Ascendant 4°53
Jupiter Trine Uranus 3°06
Jupiter Quincunx Neptune 0°45
Jupiter Square Pluto 1°42
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 1°30
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 1°37
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°27
Pluto Square Ascendant 0°12
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

posted January 11, 2007 11:53 PM            

You're not alone; I know someone with a similar problem. There are several things that can be done if you are both determined to do the needful to solve the problem.

But before you get into any of that, ask yourself WHY you're still married to him. Do you have strong reasons? Most girls would've ended it a long time ago. If you are convinced he's the one & the only one for you, then it's worth putting in the work to fix the problem. I assume you've already tried everything you can to tackle it yourselves, & talked to any professionals (doctors, counselors) who might be able to help. There is much that can be done, as long as both individuals are willing to first accept that there is a problem, and to then work toward resolving the issue, if it happens to be with them. It takes a lot of honesty & courage, but it can be done.

posted January 12, 2007 01:01 AM              

have mailed you ...

posted January 12, 2007 01:07 AM              

quote:

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Thanks for ur post ppl..
Heres mine:
Astrological Data used for Short Report - Personal Portraitfor Jani (female)
born on 29 Nov 1980 local time 2:35 pm
in Bangalore, INDIA U.T. 09:05
77e35, 12n59 sid. time 18:48:57

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Sagittarius 7°18'31 in house 8 direct
Moon Virgo 6°53'33 in house 5 direct
Mercury Scorpio 20°25'01 in house 8 direct
Venus Scorpio 6°33'15 in house 7 direct
Mars Capricorn 5°33'10 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Libra 5°47'24 in house 6 direct
Saturn Libra 7°36'41 in house 6 direct
Uranus Scorpio 26°33'36 in house 8 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 21°49'57 in house 9 direct
Pluto Libra 23°22'39 in house 7 direct
True Node Leo 13°26'03 in house 5 direct

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aries 14°45'11
2nd House Taurus 17°24'04
3rd House Gemini 15°19'52
Imum Coeli Cancer 11°15'16
5th House Leo 8°22'05
6th House Virgo 9°25'20
Descendant Libra 14°45'11
8th House Scorpio 17°24'04
9th House Sagittarius 15°19'52
Medium Coeli Capricorn 11°15'16
11th House Aquarius 8°22'05
12th House Pisces 9°25'20

Major aspectsSun Square Moon 0°25
Sun Sextile Jupiter 1°31
Sun Sextile Saturn 0°18
Sun Trine Ascendant 7°27
Moon Sextile Venus 0°20
Moon Trine Mars 1°20
Venus Sextile Mars 1°00
Mars Square Jupiter 0°14
Mars Square Saturn 2°04
Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 1°49
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°33
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

Him:

Astrological Data used for Short Report - Personal Portraitfor Him (male)
born on 30 June 1978 local time 7:10 pm
in Bangalore, INDIA U.T. 13:40
77e35, 12n59 sid. time 13:23:25

Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Cancer 8°24'17 in house 6 direct
Moon Taurus 14°43'16 in house 4 direct
Mercury Cancer 25°51'28 in house 7 direct
Venus Leo 16°44'04 in house 8 direct
Mars Virgo 9°13'37 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Cancer 15°36'03 in house 7 direct
Saturn Leo 27°10'50 in house 8 direct
Uranus Scorpio 12°29'59 in house 10 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 16°21'26 end of house 11 retrograde
Pluto Libra 13°54'33 in house 9 direct
True Node Libra 0°53'25 in house 9 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Capricorn 14°06'31
2nd House Aquarius 15°51'04
3rd House Pisces 19°42'19
Imum Coeli Aries 22°32'49
5th House Taurus 21°49'15
6th House Gemini 18°09'20
Descendant Cancer 14°06'31
8th House Leo 15°51'04
9th House Virgo 19°42'19
Medium Coeli Libra 22°32'49
11th House Scorpio 21°49'15
12th House Sagittarius 18°09'20

Major aspectsSun Sextile Moon 6°19
Sun Sextile Mars 0°49
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 7°12
Sun Trine Uranus 4°06
Sun Square Pluto 5°30
Sun Opposition Ascendant 5°42
Moon Square Venus 2°01
Moon Trine Mars 5°30
Moon Sextile Jupiter 0°53
Moon Opposition Uranus 2°13
Moon Quincunx Neptune 1°38
Moon Quincunx Pluto 0°49
Moon Trine Ascendant 0°37
Venus Square Uranus 4°14
Venus Trine Neptune 0°23
Venus Sextile Pluto 2°50
Venus Quincunx Ascendant 2°38
Mars Sextile Uranus 3°16
Mars Trine Ascendant 4°53
Jupiter Trine Uranus 3°06
Jupiter Quincunx Neptune 0°45
Jupiter Square Pluto 1°42
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 1°30
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 1°37
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°27
Pluto Square Ascendant 0°12
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle).

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posted January 12, 2007 01:25 AM              

Your mars is in his 1st house(the natural rular of the first house is mars)

So being that your mars in capricorn(sign ruled by saturn which brings delays and restrictions) conjuncts his 1st house of action and assertiveness.... that could be the reason why you all are experiencing this delay with sex.....

I hope I didn't sound too confusing...

posted January 12, 2007 01:31 AM              

Your mars is in his 1st house(the natural rular of the first house is mars)

So being that your mars in capricorn(sign ruled by saturn which brings delays and restrictions) conjuncts his 1st house of action and assertiveness.... that could be the reason why you all are experiencing this delay with sex.....

I hope I didn't sound too confusing...

posted January 12, 2007 03:02 AM              

He is also a virgin.Though i hardly know anything abt astrology when compared to the forum ppl here , i sort of get ur point.
How i udnerstood is -
It makes it double difficult for us as my (mars) restricting sexdrives by capri/saturn is magnified by his as well

May i ask another question please -

posted January 12, 2007 03:17 AM              

DO you think its ok /normal/accepatble/humane
to leave when he claims
1.)he does have drive,
2.)it jsut that it took a backseat with carreer matters/travel,and
3.)he thought we had a whole lifetime togetehr and not to forget
4.) dint have a detail idea abt lovemaking????
5.)Its never late to give it a go and wrong to conclude taht he will have less drive rest of his life
6.)Swears he wud address it

posted January 12, 2007 03:48 AM              

You both must see a sexologist and a marriage counsellor. There is nothing to be ashamed of, millions and millions of couples have such problems and overcome them with professional help.
I can help in case of b) through email (tsaied@rediffmail.com) if he is willing to discuss. There are very safe herbal medicines in the market and extra protein/beef diets and specific fruit juices plus B-Complex vitamins to solve the problem. (Apple, Beets, any red coloured fruit and vegetables)
Bright Red colour therapy will also work.

Specific meditations also exist to unblock the sexual chakras. A Reiki practitioner will help out in this case. Many exist in Bangalore.

posted January 12, 2007 10:24 PM              

Iq Hunk, i have seen ur posts here and they have a class and informative.Forgetting teh biological causes for a moment , astrologically looking at our charts i have posted is there any indication of a seperation and the like ?

posted January 12, 2007 11:11 PM            

Looking at your synastry chart, I see that there are good & well as tough aspects; it's probably no different from most others' synastry charts. No relationship is entirely bad or good, for that matter; it tends to be a balance. What matters is how the individuals handle it - do they make efforts to connect with the other person? When issues arise, how willing are they to work on it for the sake of the relationship, even if the 'fault' happens to be on their part? All these are key to the survival of a relationship. Good synastry won't necessarily save a relationship solely based on that, just like bad synastry doesn't mean it's doomed. It all depends on the two individuals, and the efforts they put into the relationship.

Similarly, astrology cannot predict for you whether you will spend the rest of your life a certain way, or with a certain person, or in a certain career, etc. Life is what you make of it. Astrology gives you cues that can help you see what qualities you're born with (natal chart), and the plusses/minuses of a relationship (synastry, composite charts, Davisons, etc.). These cues are more than most others out there have, so it can help you decide how you're going to deal with any problems in your life.

That said, I don't know that your synastry chart shows serious problems. True, his Mars in Virgo might indicate a reserved nature, but his Mars sextiles your Venus & conjuncts your Moon, indicating that he is attracted to you & loves you. His Moon on your Chiron means that connecting emotionally leads to healing, and can feel wonderful, if you have that emotional rapport. Your Mars in Capricorn appreciates how he expresses himself (due to his Ascendant in Capricorn). See, I'm having problems coming up with anything in your synastry that really spells trouble... or anything that might indicate this problem, really. True, his Sun opposes your Mars & your Sun squares his Mars, so you have personality clashes where you might feel like you're working against rather than with each other. But again, this doesn't give you the whole picture; it just means you get along sometimes, and other times, you don't.

So, really, as with any problem, the best way to deal with this is to try to identify the cause of the problem. Is this a physical or emotional issue? If it's emotional, you have to work at communicating better with each other. A counselor can help if you need it. If the problem is of a physical nature, you need the intervention of a physician; several problems can be solved if only the person is willing to seek treatment. And that means accepting that there IS a problem, that the problem might lie with one or both of you, and being willing/open to seek outside help if needed, to get past the hurdles. All you need is the desire to fix this problem, and the willingness to do whatever it takes.

posted January 12, 2007 11:28 PM            

When you ask yourself WHY you're staying in this marriage, remember that you have to convince JUST yourself that you have reason to stay; this is YOUR life, and YOU are the one who has to live with the choices you make. If you think about society or a host of other factors, and put yourself last, you're sacrificing your happiness for others, and this never works.. take it from me.

When you say he has all these reasons & excuses, doesn't it make you wonder why he has come up with all of that, when, it would be a lot easier to prove he doesn't have a problem? He owes it to you to tell you if he has a problem; you deserve to know that.

Listen, if you want to talk more about this, you can email me - ask Randall to send you my email address (or I can post it up on my profile for you briefly; let me know). I'd like to help you if I can...

posted January 13, 2007 03:52 AM              

Here it is.....

Aspects in your synastry....
Sun Square Mars 1.40
Moon Sextile Sun 0.09
Moon Trine Moon 3.50
Moon Conjunction Mars 0.44
Venus Trine Sun 1.30 156
Mars Opposition Sun 2.33
Mars Trine Mars 3.27
Jupiter Square Sun 2.24
Saturn Square Sun 0.35
Uranus Trine Mercury 1.04
Uranus Square Saturn 0.35
Pluto Square Mercury 2.06

308 Sextile Sun - Moon

Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect for a union: they are made to go well together, to understand, appreciate, love and complement each other.

212 Conjunction Moon - Mars

Positive aspect: Great physical passion and, as with every passion of this type, there are storms in the air.

-193 Square Sun - Mars

Negative aspect: Here is a couple which will have frequent disputes. Finding it impossible to speak calmly, they will always be aggressive towards each other. Conflict is caused because they both want to dominate the other. They cannot live on the basis of mutual understanding. The man is the type who lays down the law, gives orders, makes decisions and the woman is independent type, who cannot stand being limited, taking orders - the more so from her partner.

-180 Square Sun - Saturn

Negative aspect: They are certainly not made to live together. Saturn is too harsh, rigid and likes tranquility too much for the Sun. Neither will feel happy in this relationship.

156 Trine Sun - Venus

Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company.

-137 Square Sun - Jupiter

Negative aspect: While they get on well when they first meet, sharing the same ideas and tastes, with the years their ideas change and they do not develop in the same way. They will no longer understand each other and could split up because they no longer love each other, have nothing more in common.

125 Trine Moon - Moon

Positive aspect: They know exactly how to interpret the other person, to see how they feel, to understand them.

-109 Opposition Sun - Mars

Negative aspect: Here is a couple which will have frequent disputes. Finding it impossible to speak calmly, they will always be aggressive towards each other. Conflict is caused because they both want to dominate the other. They cannot live on the basis of mutual understanding. The man is the type who lays down the law, gives orders, makes decisions and the woman is independent type, who cannot stand being limited, taking orders - the more so from her partner.

-96 Square Saturn - Uranus

Negative aspect: Complete mutual lack of comprehension. This relationship is to be avoided, or else countless conflicts will arise.

-80 Square Mercury - Pluto

Negative aspect: This union is not to be recommended, it can be destructive and dangerous.

76 Trine Mercury - Uranus

Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.

55 Trine Mars - Mars

Positive aspect: A life together in which each will desire the other and satisfy each other's sexual needs. As neither is frustrated, the couple will develop in a pleasant atmosphere. They will do great things together.

posted January 13, 2007 08:53 PM              

has anybody been through, or happen to know such cases please tell post and help me in my case............