posted January 15, 2007 08:35 PM              

Yes your right!!!

Your my rising twin lol

posted January 15, 2007 09:39 PM              

You guys have been consdierate listiening and advsining me ..

posted January 15, 2007 10:21 PM              

jani your hubby sounds really emotional to me. i think tht the saturn in 8H is the culprit. there is some emotional issue which is holding him back- lack of confidence, insecurity of some type.

i think u cant solve this problem on your own. however, by showering a lot of love on him, u can make him willing to see a counselor/doctor. if this problem gets solved, i am sure he wud make a wonderful hubby, warm and caring. all the girls wud be envious of u hv u noticed how much in demand cancer males r over here? ever so often, the forum gets flooded by posts abt cancer males. ask me n katie, we absolutely adore them

keep your spirits high...btw, thr was also a comment by someone tht cancer's adore saggi's, esp because of their confidence, optimism and exuberance. so i can see why he likes u

all the best

ILWL

posted January 15, 2007 10:40 PM              

yeah, dont let him off the hook so easily. it seems tht he is quite a workaholic...probably the mars in virgo influence.

posted January 16, 2007 01:13 AM              

And my Sun is in Taurus... square my moon in leo

posted January 16, 2007 10:04 AM              

sometimes methinks they made a mistake abt me....i aint no mountain goat....i am the giddy goat

btw looking at u it seems i'll hafta revise my opinion about taureans somehow i hv never met too many taureans in my life, looks like they might be interesting ppl after all

posted January 16, 2007 01:29 PM            

Me, I've got a whole slew of planets in Capricorn - me Sun, Moon, Mercury & Mars, so it makes me extra Cappy. I like my Piscean Venus & Sag. AC for toning it all down, but I think I have only one air planet - my Pluto in Libra - so I tend to be extra earthy.

IamLove - you sound like you have a lot of the water/air influence too. I forget, what is your Sun sign? It's Virgo, isn't it? You come across very Cancerian too though; perhaps it's thinking about your Cancer guy that does that - you know how they say you turn into what you think about a whole lot, LOL!

And yes, Jani, do update us... It's now been 2 weeks since you talked; does he show any signs of changing or wanting to work on the issue (other than saying he does)?

posted January 16, 2007 07:03 PM              

the topic is buried in teh sense we never talk abt the issue once it has been discuused in big proportions ..as it has been twice before when this came up...
He has been very busy in office in upgrade project working every weekend alos with teammates..the hustle will die in this week guess..
Then i will watch and let u know

iamlove, i did read the synastry report ..thansk for that and ur time
Many good asspecets are there ,thou i felt hard troublesoem points outrun the good ones...

posted January 16, 2007 07:04 PM              

the topic is buried in teh sense we never talk abt the issue once it has been discuused in big proportions ..as it has been twice before when this came up...
He has been very busy in office in upgrade project working every weekend alos with teammates..the hustle will die in this week guess..
Then i will watch and let u know

posted January 16, 2007 08:50 PM              

may be someone more experienced can come along and answer this question for u

posted January 16, 2007 11:58 PM            

I'm glad you had a happy day today! Mine's on the 18th actually! And, I think your Pluto sq AC might have something to do with your Scorpio-ness, though I don't know where I got that from. I've got Neptune square my AC and Venus in Pisces, and these can make me seem quite Piscean at times, despite all that Cappy energy.

Jani,

Even if one were busy with work, it isn't wise to neglect your personal life in favor of it. It happens, sure, but should not, in the early stages of a marriage before even you two have had a chance to connect. I'm all for being loving & understanding, but if he seems to always find an excuse, that raises red flags. See if he seems motivated to work on it before you bring it up again, and that should tell you...