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Topic: Virginity
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GeminiLover75
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posted January 18, 2007 04:47 AM
 
Well he did warn me near the beginning of our relationship that he is not an overtly sexual person... I didn't think it would be quite like this though. :-/ Actually I think he's developed some issues about it over the past months but we are in fact, by a weird turn of fate, going to start going to counselling ourselves next week!IP: Logged |
jani_jean
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posted January 18, 2007 10:28 PM
hello ppl,yday he attempted again on his own..i was actually letdown and sad that even after iexpalined so elaborately to him the first week ,abt womens stimulation etc being slower than men , did u ever botehr to ask me if i am satisfied etc , there is simply no change in teh style .. the fact remains that it dint go in at all IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted January 19, 2007 01:03 AM
I'm sorry to know that, jani_jean....i really dont know wht to say. it must be very disappointing for you 
may be u shud make him watch some videos. thts all i can think of right now. i guess its a lousy feeling, but since he really doesnt seem to experienced at all, may be u need to speak up more. gently guide him, so to say.
oh well, i guess wht all i said is not much help, coz wht do i know....  but atleast it will give this thread a bump! 
ILWL
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IamLove
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posted January 19, 2007 07:31 AM
Don't worry Jani!The main thing is he's making an attempt..... At least we know he dosen't have any disfunction going on down there.... it's just maybe he's excited thats alll.... A lot of women complain about sex.... your not the only one trust me.... and be glad that he's gentle(or at least not putting it in all the way).... because when a man brakes a womens hymen.... thats a very painful experience..... (so until then) so be grateful.... one day his penis will go all the way inside you and then you will know what I mean! 
Also did you follow that advice we gave you(about telling him kind things and boosting his self esteem).... if you did please tell us how it worked out
Katie
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IamLove
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posted January 19, 2007 07:45 AM
Also when he makes his attempt.... don't just lay down and let him do all the work....
Wiggle your hips too.... let him know your into him... kiss his neck... rub his back... etc
If telling him is not getting you anywhere.... teach him... by your actions..... just guide him... His moon is in a very physical sign of taurus.... he reponds by touch..... and he also expresses emotions physically....... if you want him to start kissing you .... you kiss him first.... and say something like "baby please kiss me here", as you point to or signal the area you want him to kiss. And as ILWL mentioned..... videos.... are a great enhancement as well You know be creative!  I sure hope I wasn't tooo graphic for saying those things.... But I have my mars in Scorpio for goodness sake.... talking about sex does not bother me a bit! I'm sure if you are more agressive and take a little more controll you'll get results!! Katie IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted January 19, 2007 12:01 PM
i'd like to add tht sex is not something that comes naturally to all people. it requires 'practice' to get it right. dont get disheartened. i think tht jani u shud not wait for him to ask you how to please you. shed your inhibitions. it looks to me like u r the more aggressive partner in this relationship. i think u shud take the lead in this regard.also, don't just expect him to do all the work. watch some video's together (tht has two advantages, u both know wht to do, and u r both aroused already, so u r almost there! ). come back and tell us abt the progress!
ILWL *edit* Jani, i think we shud take this thread to the Free for All forum. May be u cud start a new thread thr....i think tht might increase the responses that u get. IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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posted January 22, 2007 06:59 PM
hey wht happened? can we hv an update IP: Logged |
jani_jean
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posted January 23, 2007 12:29 AM
Nothing mentionable status quomeanhwile i got infor that my planets now are agsnt me and congujal relation is bad
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IamLove
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posted January 23, 2007 02:12 AM
Everything will be ok. Trust me ok Jani?
Everything will be ok!IP: Logged |
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