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sue g
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posted April 07, 2005 05:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have any of you Scorpio ladies out there ever been in denial about love/the partner. Until now, I tended to "put up" with things, knowing I could do better, but making out to the world that everything was okay rather than risk losing the one I was with and having to make a new start . Now that I am on my third marriage, I realise how foolish I was at times. I dunno, maybe its a loyalty thing, not giving up easily etc etc, but I would NOT do it again. Even though my partner of 16 years challenges me, and me him, I know he is right for me and even said to my mum on the phone yesterday "he is the one" (never thought I would hear myself say that and surprised myself)? I had to push things right to the edge to find that out too(!) What do you think girls?? Love Sue xx

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pixelpixie
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posted April 07, 2005 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I am happy that you were moved to say ( To your mom especially, the greatest critic!)
"He is the one."
That is a great thing to shock yourself with.
Who cares what prompted you to figure it out, it is there.

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sue g
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posted April 08, 2005 06:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I KNEW you would understand Pixie and thanks xxx

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purple_scorp
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posted April 08, 2005 06:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Sue, forever is a long time,

Hands up the single scorp...um, that would be me. LOL.

Was there a defining moment that just clinched things for you? How did you arrive at this decision? Not saying it is wrong, just curious to know.

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sue g
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posted April 08, 2005 06:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Purple how are you (and thanks again for that amazin reading - it really helped me arrive to where I am now). Yeah youre right forever is a long time, and in answer to your question, mmmm, how indeed did I arrive at that point, well, to be honest I think it was when I realised that I could lose my partner and even tho I was never scared to walk away from others, this put the fear of God into me. Another thing which sounds really stupid, he walked passed me a few times and the smell of him was so hypnotic. Now after 16 years I surprised myself with the effect this had.......does that sound stupid. But far far more than the above, I felt the love between us like Id never felt with another, deep, sincere, challenging, but real. This is so hard to put into words Purple, I hope it doesn't sound foolish. I just think if I lost him I would be devestated. A friend of mine said to me last week "I bet you get loads of blokes come on to you when youre out" and she didnt believe me when I told her I didnt, coz I dont give out the signs anymore (dont get me wrong I love guys and would chat to them more than women), but theres a different feeling around me now, not so flippant as I used to be you know "oh well theres always others if this doesn't work out". After all I have been thro lately, I dont want to sound twee, but I think he IS the one, the soulmate, eventho if youd said that to me a few weeks ago I would have argued. He just feels real, sincere, supportive and he does SMELL gorgeous. I hope this answers your question, but ask away if theres anything I can help you with, love to you xxx

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astro junkie
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posted April 08, 2005 12:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... Re: The smell factor ...

I had brought that up in another thread recently, something about deal breakers ...

If the person doesn't smell good TO ME, the relationship will not work out no matter what.

Scorpio is probably the most powerful influence in my Chart. The 3 Scorpio Planets I have are all in my 6th House, and I think this makes that chemistry thing all the more important to me. I also have Venus Conjunct Pluto, which are both in Virgo!

As for the "denial" thing, it's just one of the ways a Scorpio woman does something "masculine".

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Azalaksh
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posted April 10, 2005 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi sue ~

I read the thread here and a thought occurred to me after also reading 26Taurus' thread on eclipses -- does any of the following give you the "Ah-Hah!" factor?

quote:

Eclipses are dramatic "wild cards" in our horoscopes. They shake us up so that we can move from one level of evolution and maturity to another, higher phase, fairly rapidly.

Events that follow an eclipse have more weight than events brought on by a normal new or full moon. In fact, an eclipse is like a turbo-new or full moon - it packs much more energy and punch. An eclipse may even bring on an event that seems "fated". Eclipses always bring unexpected changes of direction if you have a planet that will be touched. The eclipse does not have to fall in your sign to affect you. (Check your individual forecast to find out more.)

Eclipses shine the bright light of truth to the part of your life that is touched by the eclipse. Most of the time, eclipses act as brilliant illuminators, revealing a condition that you were unaware existed. They can also act as catalysts to a major life decision. Also under an eclipse, you may finally understand the true character of a person near you.

Imagine that a puzzle piece fell out of the sky into your hands. This new piece of information, when added to the overall picture of your puzzle, will change your understanding of it and bring you a flash of insight. You may say to yourself, "For the first time, I understand!" Now you have a full picture of the situation and can make a fuller, more realistic appraisal of what that it means to you, and what you must do next. You will gain maturity and seasoning.

With all eclipses, something ends and something else begins. During an eclipse period, you may feel like you are walking across a bridge to a brand new place, with no turning back from where you started. The door behind you latches, and locks. You can't go back because after the eclipse you will know more and understand things that were never clear to you before. In that sense, you really can’t go home again.


What sign is your hubby? I don't remember seeing you give it in any topics I've read...

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purple_scorp
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posted April 12, 2005 02:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Sue,

thanks for the additional information. It sounds like love to me.

Hmm, am puzzled now about that reading I did for you. Something does not add up.

purple_scorp

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sue g
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posted April 12, 2005 09:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, thanks for your replies - I couldnt get thro to LL for days and I dont know if I wasnt meant to or what. but its good to be back.
Az, thanks so much for that stuff, very interesting to read - makes total sense too. My man is a Virgo, sag rising, aqua moon, I know it sounds challenging and an astrologer friend once said to me about him "dont go there" - and thats why I am still with him - intrigue and of course the smell (ha ha).
AJ, loved what you said about "smell", no matter what....I relate to that with my husband, I know it sounds shallow, but it gets me hooked, very sensual, makes my toes curl.
Hi Purple Scorp, ooohhh do tell what you mean by not adding up, I am intrigued, Am gonna go back into look at that reading (even tho Ive read it loads of times) and see what I can get from it, but would love to hear your opinion.........please love to all xxx

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purple_scorp
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posted April 12, 2005 10:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey sue,

um....er...I thought the reading was about a love interest......

purple_scorp

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sue g
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posted April 13, 2005 09:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HI Purple, sorry for confusion (neptune popping up again), The reading was about Mr Libra, the young fella who I have let go off and this post and the guy with the smell and stuff who is the one is my husband - so your reading was dead on (of course). I had to get a big kick from the universe before I realised what was going on. You guys certainly helped there and I am now counting my blessings - hope you are well sending love and light to you xxxx

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purple_scorp
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posted April 14, 2005 08:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey sue,

firstly, yes I am well and thank you for the light....I can always do with some extra

secondly, don't we both have neptune in scorp??? So that should make us on a similar wave length??? Maybe we're both confusing! It's only because I'm trying to be cryptic and didn't want to write what I was thinking but I guess it does make it confusing.

thirdly, well....I know the reading i did was about your scorp (um, er...I mean libra guy - lol). I just thought it was weird how you are all of a sudden spouting about how much you love your hubby (given some of the stuff from the reading).

You don't have to reply to this because it's not really a question. Just thought I needed to expand on what I was thinking.

with love
purple_scorp

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fayte.m
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posted April 14, 2005 08:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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pixelpixie
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posted April 15, 2005 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOOOOHHHOOOOOOO!!!
You go, girl!

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sue g
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posted April 15, 2005 06:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Purple, I totally understand the confusion on your part - it does sound very misleading - well the thing is, It took me this long to realise what REAL love is and when the jerky libra guy betrayed me big time, it just jolted me into looking at what was genuine love for me. Inever stopped loving my partner, but always thought I would never stay with one longer than a few years - and now my feet are planed on the ground and I can see past the "veil" - oh dear old Neptune would you ever feck off at times (ha ha). Does that answer your question - my therapist used to say I was a love junkie, so I suppose it makes sense that I will at times get misled? love Sue xxx

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sue g
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posted April 15, 2005 06:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Fayte three marriages hey, we do have a lot in common. thanks for sharing your stories with me and I am so glad you are happy now GOOD FOR YOU. I found it interesting that you walked away from your two marriages, cos so did I - you cant keep a good Scorpio woman down hey? xx

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fayte.m
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posted April 15, 2005 08:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sue g
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posted April 15, 2005 11:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Fayte, kindred spirits I feel? I more often than not feel very supported by Scorpio people, my music teacher who I have huge respect for is one, my adorable son is and then you guys always seem to be there at the right times - aahhh bless xx

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fayte.m
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posted April 15, 2005 01:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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purple_scorp
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posted April 15, 2005 07:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey fellow gutsy, Scorp gals....

I left my hubby too after 20 years of being together, and like your hubby fayte, he just did not see it coming. In fact, strangely enough - when I announced I wanted a separation, he told me he was the happiest he'd been in our relationship. Go figure! And, before you ask - he is a Sag (who loved to go a wandering).

I don't know that I'd get married again. I don't put much faith in that little piece of paper! So, I can't see mysElf in marriage two, let alone marriage three! *this scorp shudders at that thought.

Anyhow, what I'm interested to know is where your spiritual journey fits into your story. I started on my journey about three years prior to deciding to rid the dead wood in my life. I literally woke up one day and realised that he wasn't doing anything for me that I couldn't do for mysElf. So out he went along with other useless crap that he'd gathered (a hoarder I am not!)

So, it sounds as though both of you (sue and fayte) had your spiritual awakening somewhere between hubby two and three????

purple_scorp

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fayte.m
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posted April 15, 2005 07:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sue g
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posted April 16, 2005 05:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Purple Lady, yeah youre right I definately started to wake up after the second disaster. Meeting my present partner did something huge to me, he said stuff like "why are you working in an office when you could do healing, counselling etc etc and this person actually PUT me onto my path- he gave me confidence and freedom to be myself. He gives me so much freedom, no guilt trips, challenges of course, but no weird possessive stuff and the fact that I have been with him for 16 years and never been unfaithful still amazes me. I am beginning to realise the meaning of true love (always fixated on the romantic stuff in the past which never lasted). Dont get me wrong I dont find it easy, but there is something different here, a realness. I could go on but wont, I would rather wait till people ask questions - love to you xxx

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posted April 16, 2005 09:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Azalaksh
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posted April 16, 2005 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sue, purple, fayte ~
None of the stories you share are EVER a bore, don't even think that! You've all been on unique and difficult journeys and I know I have learned much from the pieces of your lives that you have shared here.
There is very little time in my life right now to sit around and chat about my life's journeys and experiences with a friend -- I see my good friends (the few that I have) much less frequently than I would wish since we are all so busy with duty and responsibility, so chatting with you incredible ladies certainly satisfies some of my hunger to interact with others of like mind, and share experiences that enable us to move forward on our spiritual paths. Perhaps this Libra was sent to you Scorpio ladies to deliver the message "don't be shy and inhibited, you have valuable information to share!!! Don't ever think that you will be a bore!"
I learned a LOT from sue's topic about Libra-Fella http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001441.html and I felt privileged to have shared in some deeply personal discussions about a provocative man sue knows.
We (humans) are all profoundly interconnected, but most of us don't realize the depths of our connection, and are reluctant to share unless asked.
fayte, I would like to hear your story of Hell, High Water and Survival.
purple, I would be very interested in how you spent 20 years with a man and then made the decision to split. Do you have any intuition about what caused you to "wake up one day and realize"??

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sue g
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posted April 16, 2005 03:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Az, couldnt have put it better myself and Fayte how could a Scorpio woman be BORING? Bring it on girl xx

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