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Topic: Every sign denies the way they are?
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Pop Producer unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 11:58 AM
This post http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006663.html made me think that it's not only that Scorpios say that they are not jealous/ possesive/ etc. EVERY SIGN, when asked, denies some of their fundamental and obvious characteristic. I've heard lots of cancerians claiming they are not very close to their mothers and that they are not hyper sensitive and they never change moods... Lots of Virgo claim that they are not cleaning freaks or interested in details... How many aries do you know that they swear they are not agressive or impatient? What about Pisces saying they have their feet on the ground? Leos saying they're modest? Capricons saying they're funny and party oriented? Aquarians saying the're just regular guys that follow the rules? Etc... etc... IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 12:02 PM
BTW, I learned this the hard way. I dated a hyper sensitive cancer girl that wanted to protect me and called me 35 times a day. I finally got rid of her (in a non violent way ) but then I realized that I did some of these horrible things to other people... I was like her! Well, not completely, but I had to face that some of the (typically Cancer) things that drove me mad were part of my personality too... IP: Logged |
villy unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 12:02 PM
I guess, its natural ... person knows more about himself and has (is it true) greater understanding of his nature and thats what comes out ... as compared to you understanding someone else's nature ...IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 12:10 PM
“Capricorns saying they're funny and party oriented?” Actually Cappys are usually like that - how else do they climb the social ladder? But yeah, I have seen it. I’m one of those Pisceans that claims “I’m not emotional…actually I’m very detached” ok I may seem like that due to my Moon - which is why I say it in the first place… but trust my emotions are deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep - confuses the hell out of my Moon & Mercury IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 12:23 PM
Most times I read to somebody Linda's description of his/ her sign they say "I know some friends of my sign that are that way, but I'm not the typical (sign). After all I am not (main charasteristic) at all..."And gues what? they are wrong! They ARE that way. (BTW my moon in Gemini makes me relate emotionally to people reading them books ) IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 12:27 PM
HI PopMaybe some of us at some time in our lives are only too aware of our failings.......but choose to stay in denial.. I have yet to meet a fellow SCorpio who isnt jealous in love....its just that some have more of a handle on it.....I for one have great passion in love and therefore have felt jealousy around those I care for, I always did, even with my mum and dad, thinking they loved my sis more than me!!! The only exceptions I am aware of are the ones that live with a partner they dont really "connect" with, where the passion has gone out of the relationship, so to speak !! As for the other signs, maybe some are just not typical of their signs.....they have more influence from the other planets etc etc. I have know shy and retiring Leos, I know one at the moment she has a Virgo moon......no desire to be notced at ALL. I think its part not admitting and then in part not being typical of the sign. Cant speakfor others but I embrace all the traits of a typical Scorpio......mmm....say no more.....just that I am glad I was introduced to therapy and healing....but not as glad as my husband was!!! LOL !!! XXX
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whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted September 25, 2005 12:30 PM
Most people that I know who would even consider astrology actually identify with their signs. What I always found hilarious is the people who just insist that astrology is all bullcrap and then say something so amusingly characteristic, even stereotypic of their Sun sign that you almost think they're kidding.. I work with a Taurus that refuses to accept astrology even for a second and one day as we were sharing a smoke he tells me "you know.. all I REALLY care about is food, sex, drinking and smoking.. that's all I really need..." IP: Logged |
whiterabbit Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted September 25, 2005 12:32 PM
but yeah.. I'm an Aquarius who claims I'm very emotional IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 12:34 PM
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Cant speakfor others but I embrace all the traits of a typical Scorpio......mmm....say no more.....just that I am glad I was introduced to therapy and healing....but not as glad as my husband was!!! LOL !!!
Yes therapy is very good... And BTW when you deny the way you are, you lose power! People can really control you without you noticing. I've seen many leos, for instance, accepting a bad deal or failing for someone who just tell them they are the best and praises their ego... Since they are not aware of their hunger for being praised they fall easily. IP: Logged |
geminirising26 unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 01:23 PM
Hi Pop. Your post was funny. This made me crack up: “Capricorns saying they're funny and party oriented?” Hahhaa, that is so me! I am a Cap, but I am like so-anti my sun sign sometimes. I am like: "No I am not reserved, quiet or serious!" but people catch it anyway, and I then I spend an enormous amount of time trying not to be defined and saying "I can be the life of the party too!" (which I am sure there are tons of Caps who really are) Good thing for my Gem rising...otherwise, I don't know....I'd probably too serious!(By the way I think Caps get a bad rap...) But your post made me think of something. I think there is a reason some aren't into Astrology and other such things because you have to LOOK into yourself, and at a point, stand back and be objective about yourself. Some people are just too involved in themselves to do that....this is also what I think about people who say they are the complete antithesis of their sign (when others see it)... Also it could be a "please don't define me!' kind of thing...which I sometimes feel also. IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 01:33 PM
Hi Pop, I read you opening post. Made me think. I guess everyone goes from self denial to self awareness. Thats what living a life is about I say. I also guess lucky are those who understand themselves, when that happens they realize their god like nature that was within them all along and they learn to use their god powers in a better way than before. Sometimes I wonder if we must introduce astrology/sun signs in our education system IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 02:08 PM
Good idea IAmThat about introducing astro into the school system.Every teacher our son has had I always ask for their birthday on the pretext that he would like to send them a card/gift. Yesterday we were at a party at school and his new teacher was there......I stopped her and said "would you mind telling me when your birthday is" and explained the reason why. When she said 29th October, I nearly fell over.....same day as mine......she looked surprised too and I said "we must talk" and laughed... Hopefully it may have planted a seed........but the thing that worries me is, our son now has two Scorpio women in his life to contend with......oh well he is one himself, so he may understand LOL !!! Love
Sue xxxx IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4416 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2005 02:39 PM
I agree with whiterabbit's sentiments about people trying to deny astrology while simultaneously embodying their sun sign.--------- I find often that I wish I matched my sun sign more. I'm possibly the most indecisive Capricorn I know. Otherwise, I don't deny anything about my Capricornian nature, I just feel enhanced by my other placements. IP: Logged |
Kat unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 03:31 PM
Yeah but I have water water everywhere and people do not describe me as emotional or sensitve. I think I am but maybe I'm really not. I have no kids, no attachments and I'm sure not going to mother you. People say I'm head over heart. Who's right!?IP: Logged |
iAmThat unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 04:11 PM
Hi Sue, Your son is one lucky kid to be surrounded by such pampering Scorp ladies hehehe..... I also sometimes wonder if we humas are born in a particular sign to learn a lesson? And if our star sign would help us achieve what we were supposed to learn as a lesson. For example, a person used to be too attached in a previous life and hence will be born in air sign to learn to detatch Just a theory. Or how about a person was lacking passion and hence is born in a water sign to get passionate ...hehehehe Hope my outlandish comment won't hurt anyone
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Kat unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 04:13 PM
Hi I am that - good to see you hereIP: Logged |
iAmThat unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 09:58 PM
Hi Kat, I am just having some fun here...lolIP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 10:49 PM
Pop - it's true. But people who are "in the know" about astrology, well once you know better, you do better. Astrology points out our obvious areas that we need to work on, and once we know them, we SEE them. Once we see them, we consciously deny them - both in action, and in word. Astrology helps us to refine ourselves. Don't you think? I am very much a Leo. I have sun, Mercury, Venus & Mars in Leo. There are some things I don't want to change, and there are some things that I have to watch for. If I've been "in the know" for long enough, I've been watching for those things for quite a while. Therefor, they are no longer a problem for me. As a Leo, I will always need to feel loved. I will always need to be impressive, and rise above the crowd. I will always be generous, freindly and enthusiastic. But, I now know better so I WILL NOT be a credit grabber (give credit where credit is due - this is easy when you're naturally generous). I will not be a braggart (just do my best and if I'm successful, that speaks for itself - easy if you always aim to be impressive)and so on. I think we all respond that way to Astrology. The thing is, the more you learn about your own chart, the more you are able to neutralize the negative and lean on the positive. I believe Astrology should be taught in school. It's that important. More important than sex-ed maybe. Very interesting observation, by the way.
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Loggerhead unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 10:54 PM
Sue, you are cute!WhiteRabbit, LOL! Even better when a Leo tells you with a straight face: "Leos don't believe in this crap!" IP: Logged |
Lauren unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 11:26 PM
lol I've made a LOT of posts on this subject this past year..and I still completely disagree with sticking the whole world in TWELVE boxes.. People ARE people. They each have their own individual SOUL and like I've said time and time again Astrology does not TELL U who you are.. it helps you understand yourself YES, it helps you understand others YES.. but it doesn't tell you who you ARE deep down inside.A person is more than a set of traits. Sometimes I feel like this site is turning into a cult..and I don't like the vibes I get. It makes me think that IF astrology did become a science and was recognized a LOT more people would end up taking it too far in this exact same way..and that would lead to a lot negative things like - discrimination on sign..telling people HOW they *should be* acting because they have a certain sign etc etc.. I'm not liking this one bit All the following people are/were Aries: Cardinal Ratzinger Mariah Carey ------------------ There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or immaturity cannot turn it sour. There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people. - Steven Forest
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posted September 25, 2005 11:27 PM
Marlon Brando[img]http://rds.yahoo.com/S=96062883/K=marlon+Brando/v=2/SID=w/l=IVI/SIG=130i1tcnc/EXP=1127789894/*-http%3A//www.odarainternet.com.br/supers/cinema/imagens/gal-marlon-brandon.jpg[/ img] Elizabeth Montgomery If any of these people said that they ARE their own person and different from the others..could anyone really argue with them? I am aware of the fact that sometimes you'll find people of the same sign, who are very similar. An example of that would be Russel Crowe and Marlon Brando. However, other times.. you'll find people who are VERY VERY different. So the fact that some people of the same sign can be quite similar isn't enough to pass a theory that says all people of a certain sun sign throughout the world and throughout history are exactly the same. I mean honestly don't you people know people of the same sign who are different? Don't you know people who have the exact same charts or similar charts who are different? Don't you know twins who don't get along and are interested in very different things and are just overall different people? Have you never been in a situation where you got along with one twin and couldn't find common ground at all with the other? OR Have you never been in a situation where two people had similar charts (twins or not) and you were good friends with one..while the other gave you bad vibes? Because personally I have been in a few of these situations.. I find the concept of this thread very unrealistic and LIMITING to the vast variety of human thought and feeling. I don't like anything that limits and puts a great number of people in a certain category allowing them no leeway. It is unfair, in my opinion, and a lot of problems throughout history came from similar narrow ways of thinking ------------------ There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or immaturity cannot turn it sour. There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people. - Steven Forest IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2005 11:33 PM
I usually agree with you a lot, Lauren ( Aries Chica) But the cult comment? Naw.......... As long as there are people all over to ping and pong and yin and yang, and opinions diverse.. like this thread right here, for instance.... I wouldn't worry too much about that. Really.IP: Logged |
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posted September 25, 2005 11:36 PM
Sorry about the cult comment. I wasn't bitting at anyone. That's just the feeling I get with certain thread topics that are made. It actually happens rarely..but it bothers me when it does because I wholeheartedly disagree with it. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2005 11:38 PM
Soooooooooo......... do ya' want some kool-aid? IP: Logged |
Lauren unregistered
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posted September 25, 2005 11:40 PM
heehee IP: Logged |