posted July 17, 2006 06:59 AM              

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he had found out that i was talking- ONLY TALKING- to this cancer guy friend of mine, and the scorp came up to him the next day and told him to "stay the hell away from his girlfriend" and the cancer didn't even say anything, and the scorp PUNCHED him in the face and said "remember that the next time you talk to her you little b*tch"!! Yeah the cancer still won't talk to me, lol)

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posted July 17, 2006 09:17 AM              

One of my best friends is one as well.

I also dated one for a few months.
Most people thought that he and I made a strange pair... good thing neither of us really cared what anyone else thought.

I enjoy them. I do need a break sometimes as they sure do like to talk.

They're funny, charming, usually the first to extend their friendship, etc.

They do a few things here and there that I don't understand... makes me scratch my head and think "huh?" They also look at me at times with the same puzzlement.

I do have a few uranus aspects... that may be why? Or the air moon and asc?

sun conjunct uranus
mercury conjunct uranus
venus conjunct uranus
uranus trine midheaven
saturn sextile uranus
jupiter square uranus

posted July 17, 2006 10:16 AM              

i think there is no such thing as 'scared of scorpios or any other sign'. what i feel is that there r levels of comfort u feel when ur with a certain sign. some ppl feel more comfortable with scorps, some get jumpy n cynical around them n some jus play it cool n make THEM jumpy(read aquas here), and some make them(scorps) comfortable by being around them(read virgo, atleast most of the time).

posted July 17, 2006 09:50 PM              

I didn't think of him as anything more than that weird creepy guy who would brood in the corner and shoot daggers at me.

I tried to talk to him a couple times just to figure out what his problem was, thinking maybe if I went out of my way to be "nice" he would cool it with the hateful face.

He would only glower at me in silence.

His friend comes over and starts talking to me. The Scorpio had told him "Stay away from that girl, she's weird." So he wanted to find out what was so weird.

The friend and I really hit it off. Soon we were hanging out, talking and laughing.

A few days into it, the Scorpio witnesses us together. And FLIPS THE ***** OUT. Jumps up, starts banging the table, knocking over glasses, right there in public.

He GRABS me, and (I swear to god I'm not making this up) and asks:

"WHY HIM???? WHY NOT ME??? WHAT IS IT HE HAS THAT I DON'T HAVE????"

Turns out...all those daggers and hateful stares were Scorpio's way of telling me he liked me.

No wonder he told his cute friend to "stay away from that girl."

I was like, are you crazy? Do you think I found your glares romantic? You never said you had feelings for me.

Then he launches into the paranoid accuzation:

"OH, YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE DOING! YOU'VE BEEN TOYING WITH ME ALL THIS TIME!"

My friendly chit-chat was taken the wrong way. He thought it was all part of my "cruel game."

No matter what I said he wouldn't believe otherwise.

He hung around for a while after that, and then one day he just vanished.

posted July 18, 2006 06:16 AM              

jealous too

That last Scorpio story sounded like a scorpio rising I knew,

posted July 18, 2006 08:08 AM              

I love those....

But then I would cos I am a very passionate
woman

posted July 18, 2006 09:34 AM              

When I broke up with him because he was a ***** ........he would come to my house like at 3am knocking in my door. If I didn't open then he'd knock on my mom or sister's bedroom window and start asking where I was.

If I wasn't home they'd hear him throwing beer bottles outside in the street cursing.

It got up to the point where I was scared to walk in the street alone.

But we talk now sometimes as friends.

He realized he lost me and it was his fault.

Nothing he can do to ever get me back.

He really did scare me one day when he realized it was really over.

He put his hands around my neck and tried practically killing me in a jealous rage.

But that's all over now.

I heard he's still a ***** though.

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Gemini/Cancer Cusp, Cancer ascendant, Taurus moon *29, Taurus venus, Libra mars
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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

posted July 18, 2006 11:10 PM              

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sue g: "brooding stares"....very appealing, alluring, sexy.... I love those....

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LMAO!!! Crazy Scorpios! What are we going to do with you?

posted July 20, 2006 09:36 PM              

I know my Scorpio gf always believes I have some hidden agenda or am harbouring some deep dark secrets, when Ive really got nothing on the agenda at all I havent seen the paranoia or nervous twitches. I think at one point she thought I was evil, when I got into a fight with my Gemini sister, and she said I dont want to be your friend anymore. We still are friends though, but it took a while for her to trust me and not see me as evil or whatever she saw me as Still to this day I feel she believes I have something up my sleeve.

Most scorpios I know too actively avoid me...and yes they leave when I enter the room.

My cousins are like this, even my Scorpio sister!! Hehe today I sat right next to my sister squished on the couch and I could feel this vibe from her...that she was totally uncomfortable and had to leave...didnt want her to get up so I just got up before she did.

posted August 07, 2006 08:21 PM            

As a Scorpio, the first thought that comes to mind when I picture a girl seemingly (whether imaginary or not) getting very close to a gay guy is THREE-WAY.

Most Scorps are way too possessive to allow a threesome.

Even a female/female/male threeway, with the Scorp being the sole guy, can end up deeply disturbing him if his feelings are actually involved for one of those females.

To the Scorp, this Aqua can offer you a sexual experience that is out of the question for any Scorp that actually has feelings for the girl. (If a Scorp doesn't care, you won't get an ounce of the intense desire, nor an ounce of jealousy.)

Remember, with 90% of Scorpio males, obsessive-lusting-desire is the closest he will come to love. And there is no obsession without jealousy, for the great majority of us Scorps.

To me, I believe it is simply the prospect of the raunchy possibilities that a girl can have with a couple of gay guys.

Sex is unbelieveably deep and important to a Scorpio when they are "in lust" with someone, and he sees this Aqua as offering you a wild experience that he could never be able to handle. (unless, like I said, it is a case where he has no feelings for you, if that were so, he'd probably tell you to do whatever you want, but obviously with the jealousy, he does care.)

posted August 09, 2006 01:08 PM            

The only person a Scorpio would be afraid of would be another Scorpio.

posted August 09, 2006 03:27 PM              

It is at times fearless......

Pluto + Uranus - like chalk and cheese.....intriguing but not always enduring.....

Crossed wires.....cross words.....

Scorpio doesnt FEAR Aquarius....she just doesnt always understand him......

posted August 09, 2006 03:58 PM              

everything in the chart call comes back to you. as you integrate more of your unconscious aspects into yourself and you become whole- you find that you don't have so many strong reactions, likes, dislikes, etc...

you can look at your chart to see where your issues are. look to what sign and house saturn is in. or if you have any intercepted signs- the houses and planets that are in them could show clues as well. major aspects in your natal chart- oppositions, conjunctions, squares- can all point to issues in the self that often are projected on to others. instead of owning these qualities we project them onto others. often times it is only through relationships that we even get the opportunity to see what our issues are- they are so repressed!

if anyone is interested in a FASCINATING book on this topic read 'through the looking glass: a search for the self in the mirror of relationships' by richard idemon (volume 5 of the seminars in psychological astrology). it's not light reading- but if you are into it's hard to put the book down!

in my own life i have found i often have issues with leos (sun, moon, rising, strong sun placement or conjunctions with sun). when i analyzed this by looking at my chart i find that i have saturn in leo. i also have venus in leo in a wide conjunction to saturn (15 degrees) in an intercepted house. leo is not on any house cusp- but is intercepted in my 6th house. this can lend to the energy of leo being repressed in myself or not fully actualized. the fact that i have a lot of pisces/neptune- the opposite of the sun in so many respects (sun is about shining, individuality and defining of self; neptune is about sacrifice, dissolving of boundaries and transcending the self) also contributes to this.