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hvnlystarz
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posted August 09, 2006 03:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think something to keep in mind when encountering signs that rub one the wrong way is that it very often is a reflection of your own self that you do not allow into your consciousness. so if say an aquarius drives you batty- look at your issues with emotion or connection with others or one of the other many things aquarius can represent. or if the intensity of scorpios drives you batty- look at your own issues with your intensity- do you allow it free expression? do you repress it?

everything in the chart call comes back to you. as you integrate more of your unconscious aspects into yourself and you become whole- you find that you don't have so many strong reactions, likes, dislikes, etc...

you can look at your chart to see where your issues are. look to what sign and house saturn is in. or if you have any intercepted signs- the houses and planets that are in them could show clues as well. major aspects in your natal chart- oppositions, conjunctions, squares- can all point to issues in the self that often are projected on to others. instead of owning these qualities we project them onto others. often times it is only through relationships that we even get the opportunity to see what our issues are- they are so repressed!

if anyone is interested in a FASCINATING book on this topic read 'through the looking glass: a search for the self in the mirror of relationships' by richard idemon (volume 5 of the seminars in psychological astrology). it's not light reading- but if you are into it's hard to put the book down!

in my own life i have found i often have issues with leos (sun, moon, rising, strong sun placement or conjunctions with sun). when i analyzed this by looking at my chart i find that i have saturn in leo. i also have venus in leo in a wide conjunction to saturn (15 degrees) in an intercepted house. leo is not on any house cusp- but is intercepted in my 6th house. this can lend to the energy of leo being repressed in myself or not fully actualized. the fact that i have a lot of pisces/neptune- the opposite of the sun in so many respects (sun is about shining, individuality and defining of self; neptune is about sacrifice, dissolving of boundaries and transcending the self) also contributes to this.

i think because i am more aware of this issue in myself i have become ready and able to begin to integrate. and the universe seemed to pick up on this by throwing a bunch of leo people in my life as of late- leo rising boyfriend, leo sun friends and a leo moon little sister. i am slowly but surely learning to integrate my leo now and i am finding that leos aren't bugging me as much anymore! :P

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Scorpionic Web
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posted August 09, 2006 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Psychological astrology? That sounds redundant for 90% of astrological applications.

Also, I see nothing "reflective" about Square vibrations. Only confusion.

I have a Leo Asc, but I can't relate to Leos at all. Most Leo males I know seem to have "social schizophrenia". Its like they get overloaded and freak out. Chain smoking and irrelevant comments. Acting much more timid than the self-assured Leo rhetoric.

However, I find Leo women definitely typify the sign, Linda's "peacock fanning its tail" analogy is perfect.

Conversation with Aqua males is impossible. I explain something and they respond with "Yeah, exactly, like this..." and then proceed to miss my point entirely. It often feels incredibly antagonistic.

Aqua females conjunct my Desc, and I've heard this is good for dating, though oddly, the Desc also represents habitual failures, and considering the "fixedness" of it all, I don't see how it could be a good thing. Regardless, Aqua females have always been too loopy for me, and like my experience with Aqua males, conversation falls flat.

No reflection.

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posted August 09, 2006 07:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being a Scorpio with Moon in Aquarius, perhaps that helps me.

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hvnlystarz
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posted August 10, 2006 10:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
psychological astrology is a type of astrology...

Types of Astrology

Besides the most popular, natal, there are a few other types of astrology that are based on similar methods. Those are:

Astro-meteorology is predicting the weather, as well as some natural disasters such as floods, earthquakes or volcanic eruptions.

Agricultural astrology is the oldest branch. It was used to predict the best time to start the field work.

Medical astrology predicts potential health problems, and sets therapy for them.

Esoteric astrology is astrology of the soul. It uses natal charts to find out things about the spiritual conscience and spiritual development of a person.

Horary astrology finds an answer to any question according to the place and time the question was asked at (it is interesting how a question can't be asked twice, because then the answer is invalid!).

Electional astrology is a sub-class of horary astrology and it determines what time is best fitting to start some project, marriage, war and similar.

Mundane astrology makes horoscopes on the count when some country was "born", so it could predict national happenings and see their outcomes.

Astro-economics implements astrological principals to find answers to questions interesting to the financial world.

Synastry is a special branch of astrology that is comparing natal charts to find relations amongst people.

Psychological astrology uses its symbolic language to evaluate personality elements.

not all people using astrology use it in psychological fashion. liz greene of the centre for psychological astrology is one of the leading advocates for this type of astrology. she blends astrology with humanistic and transpersonal psychology. she has a lot of reports on astro.com

seeing square vibrations, or anything else, in a reflective light allows one to disassociate from the energy and see it from an outside perspective. instead of seeing 'those out there' as different, one sees the differences inside of oneself that cause the friction. it's easier to change yourself than it is to change other people. being that there will never be a lack of leos in the world- i have found that dealing with my own inner leo energy would effect change quicker for me at least

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Scorpio3x
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posted August 10, 2006 05:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This whole thread makes me laugh. Scorpios fear no one. least of all airy Aquas. They are at best annoying. That's been my experience.

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posted August 10, 2006 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappyme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpios fearing Aquarius? not true in my case, infact I know a Scorpio who just entered my school and got to know two Aquarians (they all were of same gender). These particular two Aquarians were very deceptive and manipulative and the Scorpio exposed their truth to the whole class. And the two aquarians got scared of the Scorpio as it hated the Scorpio's guts. On the other hand, I know a very popular Scorpio girl who was just juvenile and wrote this note in a chit saying "I Rock and you suck" and she threw it around in the class, unfortunately it fell into an Aqua's (both were of the same gender) hand and the aqua replied with something like "We really admire you and your egoistic nature, so as a fan of yours lemme me give you a peice of advice. Go take a hike. Signed, your humble fan and well-wisher." And then at lunch the Scorpio talked about it as if she couldn't believe the Aquas gut and kind of admired her message but yeah they don't get along that well, whenever those two meet there's an awkward silence.
See in the first story, the Aquas are scared of the Scorpio, in the second story the Scorpio is intimidated by the Aquarians, that doesn't show any pattern of sun-sign fear to me.I think that shows that Fear is person-based, not sun sign-based.

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posted June 07, 2013 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
berrysweet i dont know you but i like you cause the way you write makes me laugh ))

anyways yea!!!!!!!! i have venus scorpio and the guy i like has venus aqua...im alllllllways thinkin theres something more to him that i dont know, that his trying to be all mysterious or is playing me, but ive come to the same realization myself. this dude is just really nice!

i think its hard for a venus scorp like myself to accept this at first cause i so often pretend to act interested just to dig deep into who somebody is or am nice when i dont feel like being nice. yaknow just complex, everything isnt always what it seems, play the good girl but really i can be pretty damn wild lol. aquarius its like what you see is what you get which makes me wander a lot!!! but then once i realize it doesnt go beyond that, that there really is no mystery, it saddens me and bores me :'( poooooo. its like they dont give me a chance to dig into them and thats what i likeeeee

i also feel like my sexuality might just friggin overpower him and he'll judge. or secretly like being dominated hehe we shall seeeeee

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posted June 07, 2013 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
berrysweet i dont know you but i like you cause the way you write makes me laugh ))

anyways yea!!!!!!!! i have venus scorpio and the guy i like has venus aqua...im alllllllways thinkin theres something more to him that i dont know, that his trying to be all mysterious or is playing me, but ive come to the same realization myself. this dude is just really nice!

i think its hard for a venus scorp like myself to accept this at first cause i so often pretend to act interested just to dig deep into who somebody is or am nice when i dont feel like being nice. yaknow just complex, everything isnt always what it seems, play the good girl but really i can be pretty damn wild lol. aquarius its like what you see is what you get which makes me wander a lot!!! but then once i realize it doesnt go beyond that, that there really is no mystery, it saddens me and bores me :'( poooooo. its like they dont give me a chance to dig into them and thats what i likeeeee

i also feel like my sexuality might just friggin overpower him and he'll judge. or secretly like being dominated hehe we shall seeeeee

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posted June 07, 2013 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
berrysweet i dont know you but i like you cause the way you write makes me laugh ))

anyways yea!!!!!!!! i have venus scorpio and the guy i like has venus aqua...im alllllllways thinkin theres something more to him that i dont know, that his trying to be all mysterious or is playing me, but ive come to the same realization myself. this dude is just really nice!

i think its hard for a venus scorp like myself to accept this at first cause i so often pretend to act interested just to dig deep into who somebody is or am nice when i dont feel like being nice. yaknow just complex, everything isnt always what it seems, play the good girl but really i can be pretty damn wild lol. aquarius its like what you see is what you get which makes me wander a lot!!! but then once i realize it doesnt go beyond that, that there really is no mystery, it saddens me and bores me :'( poooooo. its like they dont give me a chance to dig into them and thats what i likeeeee

i also feel like my sexuality might just friggin overpower him and he'll judge. or secretly like being dominated hehe we shall seeeeee

theyre also pretty passionless so i feel like it holds me back from digging into them. i just want to be close and cuddly and laugh with them but like someone said they dont understand why people want to know all about them and they dont like it. how damn lame. where is the romance in that. i think theyre the paranoid ones. theyre too afraid of someone knowing their real self so they are often found in friend groups revolving aroud a certain subject like music instead of actually being friends based off emotional closeness

my aquarian does have NN scorpio though and my venus conjuncts it....this could change things

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posted June 12, 2013 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquagembaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BerrySweet:
"I know what you're up to, so don't try anything," then vanish into the shadows like a ninja.

...leaving me baffled and bewildered.


LOLOLOL scorpio ninjas

Love the writing

As far as Scorpios being scared of Aquas, I don't really see it as being scared. I think Scorpios just don't know what to do when confronted with a giant wall of indifference. The two are soo different even though they're both fixed signs.

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posted June 13, 2013 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Speaking as a Scorpio with an Aqua moon, I am anything but distant and detached. So, the Scorpion intensity may have had a balancing influence. As lots of things might on an Aqua sun.

I know another Aqua moon minus Scorpio sun and he shows an intriguing ability to funtion at two levels. He can be fully engaged and but can also stand back and view himself from a distance. So, he can and does have great control over his emotions which I am very envious about.

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posted June 14, 2013 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Sun, Venus, Jupiter in Scorpio and I'm completely smitten with a fellow who has Sun and Jupiter in Aqua. My NN is in Aquarius with 8' apart from his Sun, I still feel it.

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posted June 15, 2013 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dont know if its a big fear but for me aquarius are a nightmare.

I have dated many scorpios. Dont know how they can be attracted to them. Barf.

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posted June 15, 2013 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Full-fifthhouse-loulou:
I do kind of get you Berry (I'm a scorpio sun, venus and jupiter) but I'm in awe rather than afraid of the inimitable aquarius.
The only aqua I have is my north node so I guess I'm thriving to be more aqua-like....maybe this is why I seem to be surrounded by them and do enjoy them very much! I have a delightful friend who's aqua sun and moon, a couple who are just sun and one who has the moon there.
I find them interesting...yes a little distant and cool occasionally....but I'm quite 'liking my own space' so I can go with that.
I do sense the differences between us which maybe causes the 'awe.' But I do sure as heck respect them!!
But as to being afraid....I'm a scorpio Berry m'love, I am afraid of nothing!!!


It's like I wrote this. We have the same chart from what you posted! haha!

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posted July 31, 2013 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DarkPisces93     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio Moon and instinct says stay away.

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posted August 02, 2013 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lyrica     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a Scorpio rising woman and am completely entranced by an Aquarius/Aquarius Venus man.

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posted August 21, 2013 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mskimx4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Aquarius sun, Scorpio rising...just sayin'....lol

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posted August 21, 2013 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mskimx4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Aquarius sun, Scorpio rising...just sayin'....lol

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posted August 21, 2013 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I'm a Scorpio sun with Aquarius rising, and I'm always trying to figure out my hidden agenda!

I know I'm up to something.....lol

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Bluejay
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posted August 21, 2013 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oops, posted twice

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posted August 24, 2013 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpionAz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe it's already been said .... Scorpios do not fear Aquarians. If anything they annoy the sh** out of us and we want to grab them by the shoulders and shake them out of frustration! If anything, they fear US because they can't handle our intensity or emotions. They practically run in fear when emotions are displayed. Just sayin' .... :P

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posted September 20, 2013 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm i've noticed scorpios and aquarius have something in common, they both look at society/people from the outside looking in. They are both outlaws, they are partners in crime! They are definately not weak characters.

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posted November 13, 2013 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am an aqua and I love Scorpios. I know they can be really scary as well ... so I stay on their good side

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