posted July 14, 2006 09:48 PM              

Scorpio is always trying to figure out Aquarius' hidden agenda, and Aquarius doesn't have one.

So Scorpio becomes paranoid, develops a nervous twitch, starts seeing black helicopters, and is convinced Aquarius is a criminal mastermind.

"I just know that sneaky Aquarius is up to something!"

They cannot find Aqua's hidden agenda, because it simply does not exist.

But Scorpio believes Aquarius has shrouded their secret goal so heavily in subterfuge that even their devious Scorpio mind cannot unravel their plot.

Power without a personal agenda is something scorpio cannot comprehend. Such a thing does not exist in Scorpio Land.

It is ironic, that all the other signs are scared of Scorpio, and Scorpio is scared of Aquarius, when Aquarius is one of the most HARMLESS signs of the zodiac.

Most of the Scorpios I have known actively avoid me. When I enter the room, they leave.

When I try to bridge the gap and extend friendship, they become visibly shaken, defensive, and are convinced I am orchestrating some large plot.

To which I respond: "???"

They peer at me around corners, mumble something about "I know what you're up to, so don't try anything," then vanish into the shadows like a ninja.

...leaving me baffled and bewildered.

You have no idea how frustrating this is. I have never yet been able to convince a scorpio I'm NOT OUT TO GET THEM.

No matter what I say, they just won't believe it. They think I'm trying to trick them into lowering their guard so I can lower the BOOM.

They never do make a move against me, but this is only because they're afraid it might be an elaborate set up, where they might be playing right into my hands.

My friend has recently married a Scorpio, and I was not at all surprised to learn I am not allowed over to the house anymore.

Her husband thinks I'm either trying to destroy the marriage, or plotting his assassination.

Whatever.

posted July 14, 2006 10:58 PM              

Ugh. They are boring and unintense.

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Things base and vile, holding no quantity,
Love can transpose to form and dignity.
Love looks not with the eye, but with the mind,
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.

posted July 15, 2006 12:23 AM            

I'm not afraid of Aquarius. Just irritated. The tension is tangible from the first minute of meeting.

posted July 15, 2006 12:30 AM              

Scorp I think your comment was very funny rofl. I cant really figure out scorps either I totally do not understand Pisces for some reason...and Sags, lets not even go there...the direct opposition is too much to take even tho I have a ninth house sun/merc/mars.

posted July 15, 2006 01:10 AM            

I'm a Sag, and I, too, find the direct opposition to be difficult to grasp. Our elements are supposed to be compatible, and I guess they are. I get along with Gems, but I can't imagine having a strong emotional connection with one of them.

Otherwise, I think they're fabulous in their dazzling, mercurial ways. But I do often find myself feeling (sadly) "alien" around them.

posted July 15, 2006 01:37 AM              

My husband is an Aquarius and find him very intense and passionate.

As for emotions, he doesn't show them, lets say; like me - a Taurus - and he has a hard time expressing his feelings. He seems embarassed by strong emotions.

However, he writes down his emotions, his feelings and love for me quite well in notes, poems and so on. He has a love for the English language and is a great writer.

Be with him is never boring. An Aquarius range of interests is so wide that I can't never be boring.

posted July 15, 2006 01:44 AM              

I would have said something myself, but I do have a lot of water. (moon, ascendent, uranus, saturn)

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Scorp: The tension is tangible from the first minute of meeting.

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Yeah, and then I get uncomfortable, because they are so uncomfortable.

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posted July 15, 2006 01:52 AM              

I had one Astrologer explain that the Aquarius is a loner, who only "appears" to be unemotional on the surface.

...Then they go home and fall apart.

I am amazed at your description of your husband writing everything down, it's as if you've revealed my own secret.

I write constantly, and will hand a person a letter instead of "talking it out," because I get so overwhelmed by my emotions, and swept up, that I literally can't get the words out and break down.

I am often told that I write beautifully, and am always being called upon by friends to write their letters and speeches, but it's only because I have had to learn how! It's the only way I know how to express myself. I had no choice.

I can't express strong emotion in person, so I do it in print.

posted July 15, 2006 02:50 AM              

The only problem mom had with him was his extreme possessiveness and jealousy,characteristically,his ears would turn red when someone would approach mom ('cause mom was a sex bomb in her time) or there was a chance she was becoming more independent than expected/allowed.Strangely,that'd also flatter her.
Oh and they're both extremely stubborn and persistant,but dad usually ends up following mom.

posted July 15, 2006 05:00 AM              

out of all my good friends, my aquarius one annoys me the most. He is to unfocused, far to dreamy and thinks of far fetched things. yet thinks what he has set up is easily possible and thinks I am wrong for finding obvious holes in his plans. Its not even stubborn or bullshiting, not at all, but a natural (naive) belief that he is right, if that makes sense. That is the worst, because there is no convincing him, because he naturally pulls things out of his ass, but in a way, where he is being naive. A little bit of a bullshitter at times too. and changes stories around to make things seem worse. exgatterates too. which is annoying when you are telling a story the way it happened and he denies it and add things to make you look like a bit of a fool, 100% naturally convinced in the process.

my sister has an aquarius husband. he openly admits to flirting with other girls and sees nothing wrong with it. he can be cold and very moody...his silent treatments are like a 17 year olds and he will not respond to anyones comments no matter how vaild, at time. he is to blunt and finds small character flaws and blows them out of proportion before delivering a strong blow. he somehow came to the conclusion that attempting to go to england for study abroad was not possible for me cause I don't have a liscense. "how do you expect to study abroad when you don't have a liscense". hello dumb dumb, those are two totally unrelated things, not having a liscense has no barring on anything! "oh" he responds, "it points towards a total lack of motivation"....screw you pal is all i need to say..but I just thought it instead.

I have an OLD friend born jan 20, a cap/aquarius cusp. In her year of birth, she is actually an aquarius. and quite the little sex fiend..she tried to seduce me and I refused, even though we were pretty drunk. things went slowly down hill from there. she talked behind my back and loyal friends told me of some of the terrible things she said "I don't really care what he has to say" amoung the lighter..yah, true friend, huh? more like a stupid b!tch. not the way you handle friendships and REJECTION.

karen my sister. she is a professnial psychologist but always forgets to leave her BS at work and not bring it home. she wrongfully over anaylzes me, sort of like bob. she says I am not mature enough and says I am spoiled..yet she sees me every other month during college..maybe a few days a month in summer. she has no basis for her stupid anaylsis. and the expressions she gets when I happen to give an attitude to mom. wow, quite the attitude yourself miss aquarius. the "kahuuuuuhhh." I can't even type it. she has selective hearing and doesn't see her own faults to well, but thats my own opinion.

my other aquaruis friend, while nice, does not take a HINT for sh!t. just..wow... no offense buddy, but girls night means girls night. all the other guys in our group got it and are long gone..do all the girls have to spell it out for you...yes..multiple times in fact..and an hour and a half later..and some tricks no less..and he is gone...yah. and he is a loooud mouth..but fun to fool around with and be a jack ass with. but sometimes, enough is enough.

another semi friend, is a touchy feely friend..almost boarder line creep where he creeps out even his friends that are girls..where, even when they tell him to stop, he still touches them as if he did not hear a word..little pats on the head, hugs..

posted July 15, 2006 07:22 AM              

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Not only are they incredibly good looking (anyone with any significant aqua influence is bound to be drop dead gorgeous...the diff between me and marilyn monroe being her aqua moon i believe, SOB!)

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posted July 15, 2006 09:10 AM              

he has a 12th house leo moon and venus in pisces which may help. And she has a Gemini rising and Mars in Cap-

But my Aqua brother can be moody and cold and too self involved sometimes and it drives her nuts, also she is demanding and turns him into a little slave at times.

They can't be apart for long though.

Personally I have Uranus trine Sun and I have noticed the same problems with Scorpios they tend to always believe the worst about me, or probe me. I don't hang out with Scorpios or Cancers because it makes me feel uncomfortable somehow, Pisces is mellow. Scorpios also love staying at home at night, and Aquas like to go out and see new things.

posted July 15, 2006 11:05 AM            

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posted July 15, 2006 11:07 AM              

Now why aint I surprised by yer comment....

How are you girl?

posted July 15, 2006 03:14 PM              

Yes, Aquarius seems to be unemotional and cold on the surface indeed. But they do feel all range of emotions just like demonstrative signs. And they feel in a very intense way. Its just different. Takes a while to get used.

They are not prone to verbalize or show their emotions and strong feelings even to a close person they love and feel comfortable with. I admit this can be unnerving.

My husband loves to write, particularlly poetry and he is good at it. People he allowed to read his writings say he should publish them. And they were genuine in their efforts to make hubby do it. The array of feelings he can express in his writings are overwhelming, strong and intense.

He once wrote me how is to have all these emotions and feelings burning within and not be able to verbally express them. It was a heart-breaking reading for me. Most of people who criticizes Aquas,are not aware of this.

You seem to be just the same as my husband. I totally understand why your emotions are channeled into writing

In my thoughts, people should take their time, if they are really interested, to get familiar with an Aqua. They are multifaceted and each facet worth a try You may found a note hold by the tiny hands of a primitive doll sat on your pillow one of these days!

BerrySweet wrote:

I get so overwhelmed by my emotions, and swept up, that I literally can't get the words out and break down.
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posted July 15, 2006 04:36 PM              

The only hidden agenda is how to get that shocked look on someones face.

posted July 15, 2006 06:06 PM              

I read all these books on the signs and everyone feels the need to go on and on about how cold and unemotional we are. I'm like, What??? I'm the most emotional person on earth!!! But then I realized I never let ANYBODY see how I am really feeling. I cringe at the thought of verbally communicating how I feel.

Just like you and Aquarius_Lover's husband I have to write out how I feel to my family and friends. I could never say it face to face. I'd feel so embarassed and ashamed and extremely vulnerable if I did.

It frustrates my family because I never say how I really feel, even though they know how I feel (I'm easy to read) and then it frustrates me ten times more because I just don't know how.

But thank you for putting it into words the way we Aquas really feel. It was like reading about myself.

And I know I'm not generalizing when I say we Aquas as a whole. Both my grandmother and my step-mom were/are the same exact way.

posted July 15, 2006 06:35 PM            

I love Aquarians......but that could just be my Aqua Mars singleton talkin... :-P