posted September 23, 2008 04:35 AM         

My boyfriend has his chiron on my stellium and l actually am enjoying that... it's a very new relationship but l feel calm and somewhat healed/protected in his presence.

posted September 23, 2008 05:05 AM         

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1)You use the rulerships a lot in synastry, don`t you?
2) What orb do you allow for the rulers being in aspect?
3)"Of course, sex could be a hobby for some people."
You really think?
4) "Could be good, but not sure what arc Sesqui is."
135° aspect, or do you mean what orb it had?

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posted September 23, 2008 05:09 AM         

Personal planet on my stelium is no picnic I'm afraid

posted September 23, 2008 07:18 AM         

Great explanation on the sextile.

DEuxantares,

yes, stellia can be tricky. Maybe people with a stellium are more "drastic" in their affections, like if they like someone they REALLY like them (because so many planets are involved at once) or they do not get them at ALL, especially if that stellium is close (not like mine, which is spread all over Sagittarius - I wouldn`t even call it a real stellium, more like two conjunction-heaps).

And if two people with their stellium on each other meet, it can get murderous or heavenly. But somehow there is little in between.

Lara,

eek, Saturn on your Arian / 1st house stellium? That must be really nasty for you.

Kick it,

". Yes and for all types of astrology. It is consistent."
Definitely agree. I have found those connections to be pretty dominant. Interestingly the ruler-aspects seemed to be consistent no matter if I used the Placidus-system (yes I know you do not like it ) or the Whole sign houses / equal houses.

"2. 15 degrees with a seperating or applying 15 degrees to the next aspect."
Mph, personally I use much tighter orbs. But orbs - like housesystems - differ from astrologer to astrologer. And I guess everyone has to find out what works for him or her.

posted September 23, 2008 08:56 AM         

eek, Saturn on your Arian / 1st house stellium? That must be really nasty for you.

Yeah it was LOL
This is my ex husband we are talking about and 4 yrs after our divorce he is still the biggest pain in the ass.

posted September 23, 2008 10:23 AM         

Noone`s Saturn should come anywhere near my stellium!
I would be STIFLED and felt like I was continuously being CRITICISED, which would probably lead me to feel insecure and withdraw into myself, until my FIRE would just fade away.

posted September 23, 2008 11:33 AM         

The sadder part is that my 7th Ruler is also in challenging aspect to his Sun, Moon, Mars. Pluto, Chiron, ASC.

Of course there are harmonious aspects present but these two situations makes me feel like I will be causing serious psychological damage to this guy.

posted September 23, 2008 11:48 AM         

But I imagine that someon`s Saturn falling directly onto my STellium could be difficult, because
1. that stellium is in Sagittarius
2. it is in 1st house
3. it is compromised of a conjunction of Sun and MErcury and a conjunction of Mars, Neptune, NN and ASC

None of these placements are very "good friends" with Saturn, so that is probably no good news.

For someone with a Stellium in 10th house, Capricorn or aspecting his own Saturn, it might look completely different. Such a person might even NEED really strong Saturnian aspects.

posted September 23, 2008 11:59 AM         

Truth is I am not scared of Saturn. I don't know, maybe it's because Í'm Scorpio Sun/Moon. Having a strong dosage of Pluto has made me somewhat intrepid.

Lara,

posted September 23, 2008 12:16 PM         

in that case maybe I should stay away, too, as my Chiron is on 20° Aries and my Saturn on 17° Cancer. Sorry for that.

posted September 23, 2008 01:09 PM         

Btw do you think Chiron on my stellium is healing or wounding?

posted September 23, 2008 01:45 PM         

REgarding Chiron:
I am not sure, maybe he is both.

My first crush`s Sun is conjunct my Chiron and I experienced him as wounding for some time, but now it also seems like he had a great deal to do with my healing.

posted September 23, 2008 06:15 PM         

Why 15 degrees?
I just use 30 degree aspects. There are cases for 15 degree aspects, which is acceptable, but its just too much. The aspects based on 30 degrees represent the 12 signs.

15 either way because it works with 30 degrees, but thats based in a natal. Obviously transits will be much tighter, more around 0-1 degree for best effect. But doing transits when the aspects are not tight, go by which is the best aspect and applying better than the other.

posted September 24, 2008 05:23 AM         

it won´t come as a surprise, but I don`t agree on the housesystem. I have seen Placidus consistent, even if the distribution of signs were different to the equal system.
But I think we better should not go there again, because I have the feeling we wouldn`t be able to come to an agreement.

posted September 24, 2008 05:26 AM         

Uranus is important to have some sparks, stimulation and excitement, but yes, sometimes it can produce unstable situations.

posted September 24, 2008 05:48 AM         

For me one night stand is 8th house and not the 5th. One night is normally just a sex until 5th is love and romantic.
From other side, my opinion is that 5th house is love and sex together. 5th house are children and they come from sex or they don't?

I have seen such a Natal Chart, but it is deleted, where the man wrote he had over 60 one night stands.
For that we should look the Charts from famous singers: they have maybe over 200 one night stands, as also from the girls they do something like that.

For longer relationship ruler from one person’s 7th should be in good aspect with ruler of 7th from other person. There is much more than only that. Those rulers are only the big FINAL of Synastry.