posted November 04, 2008 03:11 AM         

I know from Astrological books that we with DC in Aries fall in love at first sight, what is right for me.

I have met two men: one with Moon in Aries and other with Moon, Venus and Jupiter in Aries and to them happened the same.

I know also, that I can know man for many years and have tried to fall in love with him (one was my friend for 8 years) but it didn't go.

How is with your falling in love?

Buena

posted November 04, 2008 03:22 AM         

Coming next: what do you see when you turn out the lights?

Sometimes you meet someone and the connection is strong from the start. Long-term couples will often say, they just knew, early on or the first time they saw that person.

I don't know if there is anywhere on a Natal chart will map this phenomenon. But I could go along with the 'stars collide' theory of synastry. Some charts together pack a punch, just illustrating how put some people in a room together something is going to happen.

But you can't force these things, Buena.

posted November 04, 2008 03:48 AM         

I have tried three times with the men, they were my friends for longer time (they didn't look me as a friend) but it didn't go. I knew in my heart: they are good looking, well educated, have enough money, but there was no chemistry. What to do? Nothing!

It is strange: I have never fall in love with rich man. Even after 2003, when I was betrayed (Internet Scam) and lost all my money, I have refused one man with the money.

In fact I have met my ideal man and lost him (it was my fault) and since then I suffer on all areas.

Buena

posted November 04, 2008 03:53 AM         

I know there are more Topics about love at first sight.
What I want to know, how to recognize it in Natal Chart or better in both Natal Charts?

I had one Topic (in other language): who loves more? How recognize who is the person that has more feelings than the other one? There is always one that is more in love than the partner.

Buena

posted November 04, 2008 04:15 AM         

I believe at love at first sight! Maybe my pisces moon makes me a hopeless romantic!
Astro-Software says that the conjunction of the sun and pluto creates that feeling:

Conjunction Sun - Pluto

"Positive aspect: It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship won't last forever, it won't develop into a quiet and tender love and even less so into friendship. One will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through."

But, as you can see, just because the sparks are there at the beginning and you love right away and something inside of both of you pull towards eachother..doesnt mean that its lasting.
I guess the question is..does there exist a true love-forever till death do us part-at first sight?

posted November 04, 2008 04:18 AM         

The only common connection were that both had Sun in Pisces.

posted November 04, 2008 04:26 AM         

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What I want to know, how to recognize it in Natal Chart or better in both Natal Charts?

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You're looking for something you aren't going to find in astrological charts, if you want my honest answer.

If life hasn't panned out the way you planned, that's a shame, but it only makes you the same as everyone else. Cut your losses, and get out there and live, that's all any of us can do.

posted November 04, 2008 04:43 AM         

Good that you are from there where it happened to me, but I was there only five months and had to leave.
Such a love normally lasts short time.

About that:

---- does there exist a true love-forever till death do us part-at first sight?----

Maybe there was King Edward Windsor when he saw his great love Wallis Simpson?

I have done their Synastry and both of them had Aquarius Rising.

Buena

posted November 04, 2008 04:45 AM         

lust at first site? Yes.

attraction looks & personality wise? pretty possible.

love though? no.

posted November 04, 2008 04:52 AM         

The warm climate and warm men: Pisces. They must be romantic. I have Moon in Pisces and know only two men in my life with Pisces Sun.

Hi BM,

I think that there was my Topic about my health situation: sometimes you can do nothing. There is no Free Will as some people say. At least, not for me! I have tried all possible in the last years but all looks like I am bewitched. I have feeling to live in a big hole where I will never come out. Like somebody who is innocent in the prison.

Buena

posted November 04, 2008 04:55 AM         

I think it's lust that transforms to love over time. LOVE is the absolute connection and l don't believe this form of connection is possible immediately.

I think it's perfectly possible to have recognition immediately yet this is not pure, unconditional love...

posted November 04, 2008 08:01 PM         

but if the saturn love isn't there, the companions-in-arms, standbyme, day after day, it will end. sometimes even with saturn it ends! that doesn't mean it wasn't love.

posted November 04, 2008 10:13 PM         

Guess we showed "them"

posted November 04, 2008 11:56 PM         

Love at first site, buena? Here's my story for everyone.

I have been determined to get to know people first before falling "in love"... determined for over 5 years.

But when it happens, it happens. And there is no stopping it.

I am drowning in it right now...

and I am sure it is highly impractical.

And I don't care...
and my sense is to welcome what comes as what is meant to be and the next step in my journey.

I might be mistaken about this, but he was born in the first few days of his sign, so that would make his sun in the first few degrees of his sign... is that right?

If so, his sun will be either exactly or almost exactly trine my sun which then makes it also trine the rest of my stellium (Merc and Pluto conjunct my Sun within 4 degrees I think, and then my Venus/Uranus conjunction is widely conjunct my Sun by 8-9 degrees... and since my Sun is trine my Mars, his Sun would also be trine my Mars.

His Sun is in my 5th house and if it is within those first few degrees, then it is almost exactly conjunct my Saturn by 2 degrees or less. His Sun and my Saturn are opposite my Neptune and Jupiter so I swing between elation and confusion.

From what I've researched it seems his Sun is also quindecile (or the other word/aspect like that) to my moon exactly if the degree is what I am assuming.

Our first connection charts are also phenomenal... but from MY perspective. Like it seems there are romantic gestures or revelations when Cancer is on the AC and Cap on the DC... right on my moon. So, I never know if it is because that is what is meant to happen or if it means I am just reading too much into the relationship because it was the "right time" for me to feel extra emotional or receptive or romantic or uuurrrrgggghhh! It's this delicious agony.

I could probably get the year out of him now... but it's become part of the flirting game and I want it to last as long as possible. My guess is he is a few years older than me and both years I stuck into an astro program came up Venus trine Mars, and the year before those two it would be Venus sextile Mars, so those aspects MIGHT have something to do with it as well, though I really have NO idea of his birthday. One minute I think he's younger, the next minute I think older.

But each time we meet there is this instant connection, even across a room... the second time I saw him (which was almost a year ago) our eyes locked and I was surprised he was looking at me... and then forgot about it until now that this is happening. When I first saw him again recently, on my birthday, he was a foot in front of me and we were practically in each other's minds.

And I am a completely different person around him... so much more vibrant and confident. I think it is his solar power plugging into all of my planets with such a clear straight easy channel. And because his Sun is in my 5th he brings out my artistic qualities to a fuller expression and oh God do I love that.

And I couldn't stop thinking of him before... since we talked the first time... but he hugged me when he was walking me out to my car (I asked him to walk me)and now I can sit for LITERAL HOURS and play that moment over again and again in my head. You remember I said his Sun is trine my Pluto??? Well, if that isn't what causes that, there must be more because I am completely obsessed. If this is one sided, I am headed for a crash.

Any and all insight welcome and grovelled for... *oh sigh* in a deep and soulful sort of way. :')

posted November 05, 2008 01:09 AM         

"Quindecile is 165 degree separation. Research so far shows this is an obsessive sort of love. "If you dont love me, I will die". That sort of love!" ~ by IQ Hunk

oh ...

posted November 05, 2008 03:39 AM         

That was love at first sight or how do you call that? Why you could marry him if there wasn't something deep at first sight?
Good for you to see somebody's soul. I would like to meet somebody to see my soul!

Buena

posted November 05, 2008 03:56 AM         

Is that new Formula for great love?

Since when is this aspect Quindecile is so important?
165 degrees: 120 + 45 degrees. A bit strange!

Now I have counted: my Sun + 165 degrees is about 21 degrees of Scorpio. I have met somebody very important (in the past) with Jupiter at that degree. It was love at first sight.

Your research is not bad.

How you can see 5 years ahead? That means you are Astrologer and Clairvoyant.

About this man I don't understand very well: are you with him or not? Are you waiting that 5 years are over or what?

Your story is great mystery for me.

Can you explain it in simple words, please?

posted November 05, 2008 04:16 AM         

Don't parents often say they immediately fell in love with their child? I'm sure some don't have that experience, and they shouldn't feel badly if they didn't. Sometimes that parent-child bond takes longer to develop. But many people do have that experience. They meet their child and are instantly in love. They don't need to get to know the child first. They don't need to witness their child's character and see if they love who their child is. They instantly love their child regardless of who their child is as a personality.

Love at first sight is a different experience from loving someone as a personality. Loving a person's character traits takes times since you have to first meet those traits before you can love them. And I guess those traits we fall in love with or those that we value, something shown by our Venus.

posted November 05, 2008 04:20 AM         

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I might be mistaken about this, but he was born in the first few days of his sign, so that would make his sun in the first few degrees of his sign... is that right?

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Yes, that's right.