posted December 05, 2008 02:53 AM            

I'm going to post up the first meeting chart of my ex-husband and I. We were together 4 years, almost exactly.
And I actually do remember almost the exact hour we met. I know the day, time, etc.. The second he walked into the place, our eyes locked, and we started talking as though we'd known each other forever. So I guess we really 'met' at that moment

The most uncanny thing about this chart IMO is how Uranus is RIGHT on the descendant. The whole thing really did feel sudden and unsettling... I'm looking at it now, and it's the first time I've made our first meeting chart.

posted December 05, 2008 06:53 AM            

SO! This is a Love Relationship, first meeting chart. unique in that, we "loved" each other when we met for the first time.

Important to note that the position of the Moon at 26'Scorpio, is exactly conjunct my natal 7th house ruler Mercury at 26'33 Scorpio. The Sun and Venus are both opposite my natal Mercury.

In this chart, the ruler of the 7th is Mars at 5'Leo. Mars (7th ruler) conjuncts my natal Moon. And it doesn't stop there. If you were to see our Davison Chart, The Sun and Mars (7th ruler in that chart, too) are at 6' and 2' Leo respectively, and the Mars of our First Meeting chart (5'Leo) conjuncts both of them.

FM Mercury at 19' Gemini, opposes my natal Uranus-Juno conjunction at 19' Sagittarius, and is transiting my 7th house. With Uranus in my 1st house, conjunct my Ascendant, I've noticed it's the peacekiller in my chart. Whenever Uranus is aspected by opposition or conjunct, something major happens in my life. With it aspected by Mercury, natural ruler of meetings, natal ruler of significant relationships, this is a good sign

FM Mercury at 19'Gemini also conjuncts HIS natal Juno in Gemini, widely opposing his unaspected Uranus in Sagittarius (ruler of his 7th house)

Our natal Junos are in opposition to one another.

Many of these are 8th/12th connections which lead me to assume a "fated" theme. The Sun and Venus in Taurus oppose our Davison Saturn (unaspected at 25' Scorpio), which could also hint at a fated quality, but also the long wait we had to endure to actually begin something tangible.

I've heard in situations like ours, the First Meeting is actually more significant because of the fact that there was already a past and this was kind of the culmination of the past 7 years. I find it interesting that in our synastry, we have a tight Grand Cross in fixed signs... (My exact Moon-Mars opposition and his tight Sun-Saturn opposition)..3/4 of the planets are at the end of their signs, with Saturn being out of Sign at 1'Virgo (conjunct his natal POF). In our natal charts, My Moon-Mars are at 10' Leo and Aquarius respectively, his Sun is at 11'30 Taurus and Saturn at 13'12 Scorpio. They're at the middle of their signs.

posted December 05, 2008 10:21 AM            

These are out aspects at that moment:
online meeting venus/juno conjunct his n venus (2)
OM venus/juno trine my n sun (1)

We are planning to meet in a couple of weeks and here are our aspects for that time:
1st meet sun trine his n NN/IC (1)
1st meet sun trine my n moon/venus/nn/saturn/AC (1)
1st meet moon square my n sun
1st meet venus conjunct his n sun (1)
1st meet mars trine my n moon/venus/Saturn/NN/AC
1t meet mars trine his n NN/IC
1st meet AC conjunct exact his Saturn

posted December 05, 2008 11:09 AM            

That's lovely Doesn't it feel great? Those aspects for your meet look nice, I hope it all goes well.

When my guy and I met, I didn't even think of checking the transits. Part of me didn't want to look, and I didn't for like a month, haha.

But I was fascinated by what I saw when I checked later. Especially the exact place of the Moon, part of me can't help but be reinforced in my belief in "fate" when I see things like that.

posted December 05, 2008 11:37 AM            

Our composite has sun/moon exact conjunct too

would you say that NN is particularly fateful? I find that the correlations with NN are amazing... for example our composite NN is conjunct his IC/NN and conjunct my moon/venus/saturn/NN/AC !!

posted December 06, 2008 02:54 AM              

I met this person some time ago, and it was really intense. I was just drawn to this person I saw for the first time in my life and it felt like a huge magnetic pull. Unfortunately, being who I am, I never showed a thing to him and I missed my chance. But somehow I believe that, that was a fated meeting. I never had romantic feelings for anyone at first sight. As a matter of fact I'm real slow at developing feelings for people. I always miss my chance because by the time I get interested in someone he's sick of waiting and he's moved on to the next gal.

Months later I'm still thinking of him, believing for no reason at all that he was the one -if there is such a thing. Deep inside I believe that we'll end up together. Maybe I'm just wishing, I dunno. Anyway.

posted December 06, 2008 05:24 PM              

All of these meeting charts have the ruler of an angle in an angular house, often it will be the 7th.