posted May 12, 2004 10:16 PM         

Yes, I was saying that his interest in you isn't casual, based on all that you have said so far. It's indeed bone-a-fyde, as they say in "O Brother where art thou."

I know how it feels to analyze all the minutia in a new relationship. It's cool that you found someone to like so much.

I would think that your Jupter and Saturn in Cappy in his 2nd would seem somewhat comforting (but remember, I am but an egg when it comes to astrological knowledge). Do they conjunct his moon? Maybe I missed that in an earlier post...

Composite planets concentrated in the 7th and 8th would seem like some serious bonding/karma is possible.

posted May 12, 2004 11:08 PM         

LOVE that movie, "Oh Brother..." I bought the CD like the very next day.

It's comforting to know it's bone-a-fyde.

And yes, you & I are in agreement in terms of security issues. He wants to make sure everyone is ok, sometimes before thinking of himself. Where I come in with my Sun in his 10th is to help him stop to think of how to use his time most wisely.

As for my Jupiter & Saturn in Cap in his 2nd, it doesn't seem to be conjunct, about 10 degrees apart. My Moon in Cancer is Conj his Mars. My Merc in Cancer is Conj his Jupiter. My Uranus & NN in Leo is Conj his Saturn. Any major NN aspects are supposed to be very karmic & in Synastries of people bonded for life. Also, his NN in Libra is about 5 degrees from my Sun.

It's not important that you understand every detail of this, a few months ago I didn't know as much as I do now. But it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see some connections. And I guess deep down us romantic girls think the guy comes out of no where and sweeps us up quickly. I've known him over a year, and then there's his Cappy Moon! hee hee...

But it's comforting because it's like building something on solid foundation, and knowing he's not the type who just sleeps around. I've never known him to be that way, even though he has his share of admirers!

It's not like I'm picking HIM to hang with, you know? It's like the forces that be. Totally.

posted May 15, 2004 09:16 PM         

As for just the Libra part of it, I would say it depends on the aspects a lot, because if for example, he has a lot of Uranus aspects which accounts for jumping into situations, or like a Sag Moon or Venus... Aries...

As for Mr. Turtle - He's the third guy in a row I've dated who has a Mars in Cancer. THAT makes them want to test the waters and color their words to see your reaction first.

Of course, Libra indecision & procrastination, and his PROMINENTLY PLACED Cappy Moon makes it that much more maddening.

Some Libra's are slow starters and prefer the company of more aggressive self-starters who sort of get things happening.

Did that come close to helping you see other sides?

Aprodite -

Hee hee - give me time - maybe one day I'll be spewing out reality. In the mean time, it's my Venus & Pluto Conjunct in Virgo which has me swooning over him. My Venus Sextile Neptune, and my Neptune Sextile Pluto helps keep the illusion alive for a while.

posted May 16, 2004 09:30 PM         

He's said he's mine. He just came out and said it while we were cuddling. I was TOTALLY SHOCKED!! And I told him I've been wanting to be his. To the amatuer, or someone who hasn't kept up with this thread, it may sound like we think of each other as possessions, but it's not to the FULL degree. That's part of the unspoken negotiations we've been busy with the last two months. We've both defined our expectations already so that there could be no misunderstandings, and we are both agreeable campers.

There's the little part of me who doesn't mind a bit of that "possession" trip, as long as it's acknowledged and one is kept aware of its extremes. I think we may have found that balance, so I'm gonna ride it all the way home.

posted May 16, 2004 09:34 PM         

Congrats to you, I'm very happy for you.

posted May 17, 2004 06:41 AM         

I knew it!! It just takes our boys a lil' longer to express their feelings. And you KNOW he must really mean it, cuz these kinds of men don't dally in relationshipy things if they're not really into the other person. Horrah!!

posted May 17, 2004 10:09 AM         

It already feels like someone is loving me just a little bit more than I've ever been loved.

So that's one of the reasons why I'm sharing it. This is new to me.

Guess it took none other than another Libra to reach me. - Ah - Who am I kidding... there's more to it than that, and I'm referring mostly to that astrological "peek" I got in terms of potential.

Here's where astrology is taking center stage and gets my applause. If the planets between us looked really chitty , I would never have stuck it out this well. Nature would have taken over eventually, but knowing we have the planets blessing us helps me from getting as discouraged as I otherwise would be.

And where would I be without all of you to always be true to form - honesty is so important...

posted May 18, 2004 11:47 AM         

It seems when we're together, that somehow it translates into something physical which somehow surpasses what we've shared thus far. Like he's saying, I'll meet your bet and I'll raise you...

It's been a couple of days since I've seen him, and the feeling I was left with as soon as we parted is not only the same feeling I still have now, but the original feeling has seeded something which grows organically into amazing beautiful love.

This is so new to me. I mean, one thing is to feel intense feelings which fade out. It's another to experience someone who can communicate physically better than I can. Or maybe it's how I make him feel which allows him to communicate the way he does.

posted May 18, 2004 08:28 PM         

But it's not like that feeling fades, you need time to step aside and let your heartbeat get back to normal, like a few days at least. And you think to yourself, it could not possibly get any more intense than this, and the next time it is!

posted May 19, 2004 11:58 AM         

Have you ever noticed men being more emotional and sentimental than you are?