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Topic: Desperately need advice about life-altering decision
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sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Durham, NC, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 06, 2005 11:01 AM
Hi Logger,Thanks for checking up on me! How've you been? I think i figured it out this time..., they say third's time the charm! Try these links: * Synastry with Pisces: [URL=http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=18&add=19&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=20&node=-Yn&fix=1&sday=6&smon=8&syr=2005&rs=&orbp=&cid= q0ufilei6CjIS-u1123339825&lang=e&gm=a1&ast=16%2C80%2C433%2C1221]Linky[/URL] * Composite with Pisces: [url]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=621&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=18&add=19&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=20&node=-Yn&fix=1&sday=6&smon=8&syr=2005&rs=&orbp=&cid = q0ufilei6CjIS-u1123339825&lang=e&gm=a1&ast=16%2C80%2C433%2C1221[/url] ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ * Synastry with Scorpio: [url]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&adl=18%2C19%2C12%2C13%2C14%2C15%2C20&node=-Yn&ast=16%2C80%2C433%2C1221&gm=a1&btyp=61&sday=6&syr=2005&lang=e&zod=&fix=1&orbp=&mth=gw&cid= q0ufilei6CjIS-u1123339825&hsy=&smon=8&nhor=1&nho2=3&go.x=10&go.y=7[/url] * [url]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&adl=18%2C19%2C12%2C13%2C14%2C15%2C20&node=-Yn&ast=16%2C80%2C433%2C1221&gm=a1&btyp=621&sday=6&syr=2005&lang=e&zod=&fix=1&orbp=&mth=gw&cid = q0ufilei6CjIS-u1123339825&hsy=&smon=8&nhor=1&nho2=3&go.x=10&go.y=7[/url] Hope everyone's well. I've been tied up with this huge deadline coming up, so I'll do a more detailed reply later. Lots of love,  Sunshine IP: Logged |
sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Durham, NC, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 06, 2005 11:26 AM
MAN!!!! Those links aren't working either!! WHY O WHY does this happen to me?? I guess I need a lesson in handling computers, never mind that i use them day in and day out for work... *goes off to try to find why these linkies don't seem to be working*"I'll be backkk!" *Arnold voice* IP: Logged |
sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Durham, NC, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 06, 2005 12:15 PM
Ok, i give up... Can someone please tell me how to post an Astro link? Now I know that you have to use a guest profile on Astro to allow others to see it. Then, you lift that URL, and ...??? Usually I just paste it in here with no UBB code. That's how i first did it. That's when part of my URL got dropped out, particularly the part with the guest ID in it. That's why you couldn't see it, Logger.After that, this AM, I tried using the UBB code, with the [URL] tag you see up there. You're not supposed to see those tags though. And with some of the 'links' i posted, it doesn't even show up as a link! Argh. This computer?site? isn't liking me much, I guess.  IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL Knowflake Posts: 716 From: MD Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 06, 2005 12:24 PM
Let' see if I can get if for you. Not working,let me go back and look again. Mine work, not sure what that's about. Just a second.
Still not working. Maybe.... [URL=http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=18&add=19&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=20&node=-Yn&fix=1&sday=6&smon=8&syr=2005&rs=&orbp=&cid= %20q0]http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?nhor=1&nho2=2&btyp=61&mth=gw&hsy=&zod=&add=18&add=19&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=20&node=-Yn&fix=1&sday=6&smon=8&syr=2005&rs=&orbp=&cid =%20q0[/URL] ufilei6CjIS-u1123339825&lang=e&gm=a1&ast=16%2C80%2C433%2C1221 Okay Sunshine the only thing I can think of is this. When you go to astro.com, are you clicking on the right link.
It says: Welcome to My Astro! Log in to your registered user profile here: Email: Your astro.com Password: Forgotten your password? Click here and it will be e-mailed! If you don't have a registered user profile, you have the following options: Create a horoscope immediately, as a Guest User or..... Create a registered user profile You should be using this link: Create a horoscope immediately, as a Guest User or..... Are you already registered? If so that might be the problem (?)
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Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 3292 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 28, 2005 12:13 AM
**bump for sunshine9**What's happenin' girl?? 'Zala IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 3292 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted October 09, 2005 02:05 AM
Are you OK, sunshine9??What's been happening with your Pisces-love? 'Zala IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 3292 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted November 05, 2006 11:08 PM
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sunshine9 Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Durham, NC, USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted November 20, 2006 12:17 AM
Dear 'zala,Oh, you're SO sweet!! I'd been away a while, so I missed your posts in this thread! How are you doing these days? Update me on what's happening in your life!! SO much has happened in mine in the past few months! Last year, I ran into a few obstacles that made it harder to leave the marriage (with the Scorpio). Any attempts I made to leave him back-fired in one way or the other. I had to put my grad. studies on hold due to some issues with my advisor, and my job hunt wasn't going well either; it was like everything in my life decided to stop working at the same time. I was in the thick of my Saturn Return, and boy did I feel it!! It was a really low period for me. I'm still just coming out of it all... A few months back, things finally changed for the better. I got me a job back in NC, and moved here in August, and decided to work on finishing up my degree as well! Being financially independent is SUCH a relief; I don't owe the Scorpio anything any more. It has also changed my outlook. I see him for who he is, a guy who is incapable of love and of caring for anyone but himself, who had been trying to guilt me into staying with him all this time; he's played many mind games & is expert at emotional blackmail. Those weren't the real reasons I had felt guilty/torn about leaving though - I had all this self-imposed guilt about hurting him & his parents, and my parents in the process of following my heart... I think it is my Venus in Pisces that contributes to it in a big way, and certain other natal placements. I have Neptune on my Ascendant, which tends to cloud things... Anyhow, this period since I've moved out (about 3 months now), has been eye-opening for me. I've had the chance to do some soul-searching, and I see him & his family for who/what they are. I also see so much more clearly what it is that I would like for my life, outside of everyone else. I would like to be free to be ME, and to follow my dreams, without having to tiptoe around someone else who's constantly feeling threatened by it, or trying to pull me down. My parents & friends have been very supportive of me, and it has helped so much to know they'll stand by me no matter what. I'm going to get the legal process started next month. I'm hoping it won't be very complicated as we don't own anything together. I'm also hoping that the stars will work with me this time. I can't wait to end this chapter in my life, so I can get MySelf back!! As for the Pisces, I still love him with every fiber of my being... I've not been in touch with him much though, but for the occasional email to touch base. It has hurt a great deal to keep away from him, but I think it was the right thing to do, until I'm unencumbered. I saw him in July when we had a meeting together, and though we talked about nothing in particular (but work), the sparks were very much there between us. And now I live in the same town, and by a twist of Fate?!, a scant 5 miles from where he lives! It might be a challenge getting him back, because his Neptunian nature and the fact that he was hurt deeply before, makes him hold back; I see that in his emails, though in person, it is obvious he still cares. I'm going to have to do the work initially, trying to get us to reconnect, which is going to be hard for me (never having done it before). But, I think I will be ready, once I have at least the first step of the legal process under way. Wish me luck!! Your good wishes mean so much to me; thank you for thinking of me!!  Sunshine IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 20, 2006 10:18 PM
Hi sunshine!I read this thread for the first time....i know what you are going through, being from india myself. I don't have anything much to add really, except that i pray that everything will get sorted out for you. I am glad to know that you have the support of your parents in this, and things are finally looking up for you. Take care ILWL
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