posted April 09, 2006 03:03 AM         

Are you an astrologer? If not you should indeed be one. OMG you have vast amounts of useful information.

"Sat is squaring your Mercury ..
so you could be thinking a bit on the pessimistic side at the moment ..
actualy it sits there till may 4th .. after which it moves past your merc .."

I have felt totally pessimistic just in the last two days and amazingly so because I was so upbeat all week. I just don't feel I get back what I give. At the moment I am not sure if it is my imagination or something real that can be backed up with facts.

Well as least I will feel better when my birthday comes May 4th God willing.

I just get tired of waiting for my love life to begin. With every new attraction comes disappointment and I want my life to change for the better. Tired of going to Christmas parties, new year eve parties and events alone. I was starting to loose hope.

May 4 will hopefully be a new day. I have had astrologers on this site tell me about transits a few years ago where I am to meet someone special and have a long term relationship. It never happened. The transits came and left.

HappyDragon are you tall? According to ascendant decan you are supposed to be above average height.

My ascedant was a little off about my height and being average and not above average height but it is right on the money with every other characteristic.

posted April 09, 2006 09:14 AM         

read what you typed over at death prediction ..
read last post ...

.. aim to get back here and type ..

.. you have been dealing with a Pluto transit since aprox begining 2004 ..
(maybe earlier .. will double check)

transiting Pluto opposite natal Venus .. that is still somewhat in effect ..
now Pluto is aspecting your natal Chiron .. which is slightly more 'generational'
Pluto transits are like a big backdrop to everything else that's going on ....
and when one gets hits by a faster moving transit by one or more of the inner planets ..
the Plutonic flavour will come thru as well ... Pluto transits are not easy at all ..
especialy when they contact the personal planets .. e.g. as with yourself .. Venus ..
and madame 'V be your suns ruler .. no doubt has connections to your Mars in libra ..
libra being also venus ruled .. .... Venus or Aphrodite is a bit of a double edged sword ..

this is a 'pluto' thread .. and within are a couple of other related thread links
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008795.html *

posted April 09, 2006 03:10 PM         

Mars transits last about a week .. normaly peaking over a two day period ..
.. bit different when it goes retrograde ..

i've noticed that just the 'other side' of a mars transit usualy leaves me feeling drained ..
after feeling 'upbeat' ... .. mars conjunct venus is a nice little high .. for a week .. :-))

.. just noticed .. transiting Uranus is about 2 degrees from squaring your ascendant ..
have not read back to see if i had mentioned it before .. will double check it's movements ..
but would have some effect on the way you might feel .... or for that matter the type of ppl
and events you may encounter (when driving .. keep mind on road !!) .. :-)

*Are you an astrologer?*
no .. just a planetary technician of sorts ..
I used to be almost obsessed with the subject .. but i wouldn't try and deliver a reading ..
these days it's just observational interest in the subject .. and passing on info ..

*With every new attraction comes disappointment *
awww blu !! .. are you maybe expecting too much .. or something .. or just the wrong type of guy ??
btw: Pluto has been transiting your 7th house since begining of 2001 ..

* It never happened. The transits came and left.*
well .. events are normaly predicted by astrologers using 'progressions' ...
re : transits .. i see them almost like water taps or similar ..
.. connected to our emotional state 'flow system' ..
sometimes the taps are wide open .. sometimes partialy open etc. etc. ..

*HappyDragon are you tall? According to ascendant decan .. etc .. *
ok .. as i have this somewhat embarassing pic that i just emailed a bike crazy friend ..
.. guess it must have been the begining of springtime .. '1986
.. the machine be the same length as a stock harley d. sport' .. (i'm just about 6ft)
.. i've no other pic scanned that has another object for a relative height perspective ..
(there's a current pic over in f.f.a... haven't started shrinking just yet ..)

I shall take a look at what's been going on in your chart over the past few years ..
it may help you understand .. i mean a list of outer planetary transits ..
you seem to have had a few ...

posted April 10, 2006 08:50 PM         

I just wrote a long drawn out, heartfelt, message that for some reason would not post and got erased. Lets see if I can rememember some of my message

Yes you are tall. You fit the characteristics of your Ascendant decan.

My sister drove a motorcycle but I tried and almost got burned by some large hot metal thing on the side. Well it burned my leg and I jumped off the bike. My dad was trying to teach us both.

I never learned but I would ride on the back with my sister.

I don't know if I am expecting too much. Too be honest I really don't ask for much, in my opinion. I truly like friendship(platonic). I like the company of men because I am so close to my dad, so it is very natural to me.

If I am in a relationship with a guy I give it my all and do expect the same back.

Well to make a long story short the guy I wrote about is now ignoring me. He no longer works with me but was on vacation. He was only at my work location temporarily and was placed at his permanent location. He came back from vacation on a day I was not there to get his things.

He cc me some email regarding something that had nothing to do with me. He has not emailed or called me directly.

One day we talked for 8 hours. He told me all about his past relationships. I was the person who said I really do have to get home, because we could have talked for another 8 hours if it was left up to him.

Before he left for vacation he sent me this beautiful email thanking me and telling me how special I was to him and said I have been a blessing to his life but he looks forward to having more.

I don't know if he is covering himself because of harrassment or work issues.

I have no problem with that but a part of me feels like he is full of it. Maybe he does not want to pursue a relationship because of work but please don't play with my intelligence and make me think I imagined the last few weeks.

I just feel badly. Like the person who I thought was so nice is another game player. I would have no problem with being his friend. Like I said before he was really not my type but something about how he treated me and talked to me drew me to him.

Now I have cut it off. I will not allow myself to dwell on that type of person again but I am just loosing confidence because I so had him pegged wrong.

My sister told me he is insecure and wants me to contact him.

I emailed him back after he sent me that beautiful email but I did not get a response.

How long is Pluto going to be transiting my 7th house? I am just curious, because I know from the bottom of my heart I will be single until I leave this earth.

I will not give in to power plays and games. I love being who I am. I can just feel it. It is so hard for me to change and at this point I refuse.

Every guy is the same. They are so nice until they think you like them, I mean really like them, then they start playing stupid games.

I liked him but I could have easily settled on friendship because I like his company. Now I don't even want to be his friend.

I think it is mean to fool someone like you are the best of friends, and that is another thing he called me his closest friend and a bunch of other crappy meaningless things.

Anyway I think it is mean to act like you truly like someone as a friend and then to make sure you come to work the day they are not working and then to casually cc them some email that really did not having anything to do with anything.

His vacation is the longest we have not spoken to each other in about 7 months.

I thought he may have left a note for me saying goodbye. I mean we are still at the same company. OOH, I have to take a breath.

I have never made any romantic overtures or anything. I am so in controllllllll.

I would have loved for him to come back and say hi, I had fun working with you, I am going to miss you and take care. Is that too much to ask??

Sorry if I am on my soapbox but I am hurt again. What can I say.....My exterior is so not like my interior.

posted April 11, 2006 10:14 AM         

**I just wrote a long drawn out, heartfelt, message that for some reason would not post and got erased**
you got more guts than me !! .. mine rarely get past the thinking stage ..
** and almost got burned by some large hot metal thing on the side. Well it burned my leg and I jumped off the bike. **
i've still got a faded scar from the same .. .. never wore summer shorts on a m.bike again .. .. riding the things aint that hard .. it's picking them up off the ground after a spill that's the b*****d :-)

anyhow bluesy .. basicly dropping this note in here to say i've seen your post .. will re-read and digest later on .. .. and about your co-worker (i'll have to relook at your individual charts ) .. generaly taurs need time to think things over ..

**It is so hard for me to change and at this point I refuse.**
well you stubborn one .. ;-)) .. 'n you say don't necessarily feel like a taur .. ..

'till later .. as i've got to hit the road for a while ..
* *

posted April 12, 2006 01:33 PM         

hi ..

i've sort of got determined to get LGs take a taur into type ..
hence .. have not realy had a good look at the charts ....
and .. just went looking back for his b.t. .. thought maybe Eleventh House may figure ..
.. well the Eleventh figures in yours ...
the 'balancing act' of a Libran Mars .. in both of your charts ..
i.e. how the 'scales' can swing .. may go towards explaining some of the dilema ..
and the airiness of said placement ..

anyhow .. regarding taurus in general .. the sign ...
there may be some relative info in LG's text .. that i'm posting here ..
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008511-5.html *
page 5 on the 'attention all T's' thread ..
i've a couple more subchapters to type ...

re: the Very blu U .. with Pluto transits .. feelings, emotions .. go very deep .. and often hurt ..
.. keep starting to read thru your above posts .. can empathise ..

.. i must get one more l.g. chapter typed up ..

posted April 12, 2006 11:10 PM         

I did read the thread on All YOU BULLS. It was very interesting. I have read about almost every male sign except Taurus. I have never been attracted to one. I know about Aquarius, Scorpio, Libra.

Do you think certain signs are attracted to certain energies that come from your signs?

LG was right when she stated Taurus are not good judge of characters. I always take people at face value and they do indeed have so many layers.

I don't what the transits are doing but I totally feel attacked, especially at work.

Well I did get a chance to see my Taurus at a meeting. After the meeting I went to go talk to other people. He was talking to someone else and I heard him say he must come over and talk to me. We spoke casually about work situations and that was it.

So it is over before it began. I don't feel the same about him. I don't like him anymore. It is the strangest thing but I am not attracted to him and don't feel the intense feelings I felt a couple of weeks ago. It just went away.

I dont' think I will ever be with a Taurus. I don't think that energy mixes well with my air rising sign.

Thanks for all the info though.

posted April 19, 2006 08:09 PM         

*I don't what the transits are doing but I totally feel attacked, especially at work.*
sorry to hear that .. it may be a bit late .. or maybe not .. but this following link shows your chart with current transits ..

* http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/temp/bl.m.trns.gif *

.. it's only in symbol format .. i.e. no explanations .. .. and transiting Uranus .. shown on the outer circle .. is the green one right at the top .. squaring your Ascendant ..
sorry :-) t.Uranus got slightly cropped .. and the Ascendant/Mc usualy works out slightly different on my software .. an explanation in img. format is under construction .. it's to do with time zones / longitude data .. .. be possible that transiting Uranus square to your Asc may make you feel 'attacked' .. as in 'unexpected disruptions' or similar ..

*So it is over before it began.*
mmmm .. disappointment? ..

posted April 20, 2006 06:01 PM         

.. i guess you can figure ..
your friend would have had some of the same transits to his natal placements ..
i've not double checked .. but i reckon .. transits to natal Saturn and Pluto ..
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
transiting Pluto square natal Chiron backdrop: (same for your friend)
.. your natal Chiron is at 28 Pisces ..
the nearest that square gets is 26 degrees .. during May ..
.. it then reverses to 24 degree ..
but returns to 28 degree .. by feb 2007 ..
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

26 jan. status:
t.Jupiter trine n.Moon
t.Saturn trine n.Saturn
t.Chiron square n.Merc

30 jan.
as above plus:
t.Jupiter sextile n.Pluto

2nd feb.
as above plus:
t.Jupiter square n.Mc
t.Neptune trine n.Mars

11th feb.
as above plus:
t.Neptune conjunct n.Mc

14th feb.
as above Except that:
t.Saturn trine n.Saturn has moved away .. and ..
t.Saturn squares n.Merc

25th feb.
as above Except that:
t.Chiron square n.Merc has moved away .. and ..
t.Chiron sextiles n.Saturn

28th feb.
as above Except that:
t.Jupiter trine n.Moon has moved away .. and ..
t.Lillith trines n.Merc

8th march.
as above plus:
t.Jupiter .. now .. retro. once again .. trines n.Moon

18th march.
as above Except that:
t.Lillith to Merc has now moved away

27th march.
as above Except that:
t.Chiron sextiling n.Saturn has now moved away

30th march.
as above plus:
t.Uranus sextiles n.Sun

1st april.
as above Except that:
t.Neptune trining n.Mars has now moved away

4th april.
as above Except that:
t.Jupiter square n.Mc has now moved away

7th april.
as above Except that:
t.Jupiter sextiling n.Pluto has moved away

10th april.
as above Except that:
t.Jupiter trining n.Moon has moved away
now ... on 10th ..
t.Neptune conjuncts n.Mc
t.Saturn squares n.Merc
t.Uranus sextiles n.Sun

12th april.
t.Uranus starts squaring your Ascendant

20th april .. today ..
t.Neptune conjuncts n.Mc
t.Saturn squares n.Merc
t.Uranus sextiles n.Sun
t.Uranus square Ascendant

posted April 21, 2006 09:51 PM         

* How long is Pluto going to be transiting my 7th house? I am just curious, because I know from the bottom of my heart I will be single until I leave this earth. *

sorry blu .. i missed this one ( query about plut. thru 7th) .. *re being single 'till you leave* .. can empathise 'cause i've sometimes felt like that .. but again it's been in phases .. and those phases have matched up to transits ..

anyhow don't worry about Pluto in 7th .. i mean it's got to transit somewhere .. can't exactly kick it out of the solar system .. well ok .. it's there 'till 2010 / 2011 ..
.. in June 2006 .. Pluto is back at 24 deg Sag .. which is 1 degree (1.5) off the opposition 'exact' with your natal Venus .. in october 2007 it's back to 26 degree Sag .. ..

.. was looking at when i had the Plut Venus opposition ( 78-79 ) .. wasn't easy .. but 'relationship' wise it had more to do with immediate family .. and friends .. as i had to say goodbye to both at one stage .. it involved overseas journeys and burning one or two bridges .. (my venus in 9th) .. and it wasn't just Pluto to natal Venus .. it was also hitting on other natal placements .. ..

hey .. looks like we swap .. when Pluto moves into your 8th .. it goes into my 7th (at the same time ) .. so I'll probably come looking for your advice at some point .. :-)

posted April 24, 2006 12:45 AM         

Thanks for getting back to me. I understand about get waylaid by everyday duties.

I guess I might like him a little bit. He told me I was his friend but I have not heard from him in a couple of weeks. I called him last to say hello and he was really nice on the phone but I have not heard from him since, so I am going to act like I never met him. I don't know if I like him as a person because I feel he is a coward, afraid of his own desires.

You mentioned that Mars is transiting my Ascendant and that I may be more noticeable to guys. I hope not at this time. I consider myself very attractive but my face has broken out like the plague. I have so many zits on my face you would think I was in 8th grade. I am so troubled by my recent breakout. I have always had a tinge of acne but not like this in a long time.

I don't want to gross anyone out but everyday I get two new pimples. I am trying to drink a lot of water but I do not feel attractive at all during this time. I wish I could stay in the house for a week until they all go away. I have so many pimples on my chin. I wonder is it someone connected to my nervous system in that area.

Yes, I am a person whose feelings run deep, contradictory to my rising sign. You guess right. I guess I can thank my Pisces Moon for that.

I don't really feel I will be single until I leave this earth anymore. I feel an important relationship brewing but I just haven't met him yet, I do believe.

What exactly does it mean for Pluto to be transiting my 7th house, because it really looks like it(Pluto) will not leave me for a long time?

Well, when you come looking for advice I know I will be able to give it to you. Every one says I should be a counselor, but they had no idea about the other side. LOL

Thanks,

posted April 24, 2006 08:01 PM         

re:
*I don't really feel I will be single until I leave this earth anymore.*
i'm glad to read that .. .. well you sounded like you'd lost all hope before ..
re: this thread .. mmm .. reading wise i'm still at your post just below my bike pic ..
and as i do so i'm aware that time is passing .. as related to the original topic ..

to maybe explain .. i've got uranus aspecting my merc by transit .. i keep getting a run of ideas and getting sidetracked .. forumwise it's reading one post and whilst dwelling on the topic for a potential reply .. come up with an idea or theory related to another post ..

*Every one says I should be a counselor, but they had no idea about the other side*
the Other side ?? .. is there a monster lurking somwhere ? (just kidding)
*What exactly does it mean for Pluto to be transiting my 7th house,*
I think that could be a question for Tim .. i'd be curious as to the answer ... i think in simple terms it would be a case of relationships .. of one sort or another .. would have a 'transforming' effect on you life in some way .. .. in reality i should be able to write at least a chapter on pluto as it's fairly prominent in my chart by varios aspects and i've had enough of its transits .. .. but it's all so deep and i never did learn to scubadive .. i think that if i had a 'vehicle' for exploring the 'depths' it would be a musical instrument .. .. and i guess that's why i like to play guitar .. through it i can reach the 'depths' .. .. i reckon every taur should get their hands on some sort of music instrument .. even if it's never more than a case of 'doodling' on the thing ..

I had some links to previous 'uranus' threads .. but lost them ..
maybe this thread will go somewhere ..
.. Venus/Uranus ..
* http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008937.html *

.. an interesting read ...
Your Challenge in Relationships (article ..posted in astro forum)
* http://www.mountainastrologer.com/sacks1000.html *

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
ok .. started the above 3hrs back .. then got sidetracked ..
now running out of steam .. so shall honour previous words .. for now ..
so ..from someways above ...
***It is the strangest thing but I am not attracted to him and don't feel the intense feelings I felt a couple of weeks ago. It just went away.***
*I've had that happen to me .. and have been intending to relate the story here .. etc ..*

:: ..relates to venus aspecting uranus i guess .. ::

astrological 'phase' tale ... except i have little knowledge of the astro set up at the time .. i do strongly reckon it were a neptune transit combined with something else .. as 'it' only lasted about 3 weeks .. by 'it' i mean where my head was at .. at the time .. i don't think it was were it should be :-)

anyhow .. it happened about 2 yr after a major split-up from a long term relationship .. the 'other' person was the lass next door .. i mean literaly next door and there ain't no driveway or trees separating the properties either .. they adjoin ..

well we had been neighbours for about 5 yrs .. she (Cancer Sun) had been thru a spit up .. plus some other major events .. and was going thru a series of panic attacks .. .. guess i should mention there had always been some sort of physical attraction between us .. .. so .. being a good neighbour :-) i put some time aside to help her deal with the panic attacks .. well one thing started to lead to another over a couple of days and my head realy was in a cloud .. i even wrote a poem .. .. .. .. then all of a sudden i realised and started to dwell on the fact of .. 'close proximity' .. (and she wasn't realy into starting a relationship ) i mean if things went haywire .. we still had to live next door to each other .. .. the idea of it all working out and making two house into one was interesting .. but the idea of living next door to a (potentialy) unatainble romantic attraction was worse .. .. .. so basicly i put a stop to it and also had a good think .. .. in the short of it .. the high i had been feeling just totaly left me .. it was like a mad few weeks .. .. .. then 'nothing' .. as in suddenly i felt absolutely no attraction to her at all .. .. and things went back to civil normality and neighbouring friendliness ..

a few months later i'm organizing entertainment for a private party .. and who should turn up as a guest with brand new guy .. well miss neighbour .. .. .. actualy it was great and i was realy happy for her .. and it only took 5 minutes to see them dancing together to figure he was maybe a Taurean Sun .. ... and so he was .. .. soon after that they got married .. her long time wish come true .. marriage and kids .. ..

anyways .. he moved in next door .. soon after that .. the children arrived ... then at some point the nagging started .. over the way he was painting the kitchen and god knows what else .. .. at the top of her (very strident and loud) voice like a broken record ... .. it would go on and on .. and on ... she was forever ordering him about .. .. and he would meekly do everything he was told .. and never seemed to object to her (seemingly) constant nagging .. i mean never raised his voice once (i'm sitting next door biting my nails almost screaming at him to SAY something ) .. .. .. I never have come across such a wimpish male taurean :-) .. a bank dept. manager .. probably took his angst out on the customers :-))

.. actualy i know she fancied herself as a bit of a 'mover' in the neighbourhood .. as in she would mind everybody elses business and make waves .. almost like she owned the street never mind one house .. trouble was .. there was another family that thought the same .. .. yes there was a feud between them .. actualy once she had the kids they became like two gangs having a major disagreement ... .. about 3 years back both families moved out of this neighbourhood ..

so at the end of the day ... I sure was Realy Realy Glad that he came along and married her .. and that .. in reality i was not her type .. ( not conservative enough for her family 'ideal' ) .. funny thing though .. over easter they dropped by to visit neighbouring friends .. i bumped into them on the way back from the shop .. i looked at her .. she looked at me .. easy to see the physical attraction was still there .. .. .. but .. i wouldn't dare .. even if she were single .. :-)

I still reckon it was a seriously foggy neptune transit .. at the back of it all

* .. I wonder is it someone connected to my nervous system in that area. *
stress and diet .. nerves wouldn't suprise me .. i had a short case of that in my late 30's .. .. didn't last long .. .. changed my diet by chance .. stopped eating bacon 'n hamburgers .. just went off the stuff .. have had something of a periodic minor skin problem since childhood .. stress would bring it on .. a few months back .. dicovered by accident .. that one particular milk product would trigger it .. I stopped drinking that product altogether .. so far skin has remained totaly clear .. despite some occasional stress .. .. uranus transits can be quite stressful .. and it's squaring your ascendant and there may be some connection between gemini - stress - and skin irritations .. according to one astro forum thread ..

.. think i'm all typed out now ..