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Topic: When we have sex
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taurus/gemini cusp
Knowflake Posts: 603
From: London, England
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted December 10, 2007 08:13 AM
 
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Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 5787
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 11, 2007 08:07 PM
"you seem like a very kind soul!"thanks. you too. 
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NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1833
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 11, 2007 09:11 PM
Taurus/Gemini why did you delete? I thought you had a grdat response and you are on your way of really knowing yourself.I actually had to think about what you said because I think there is a very fine line between what you do to make you guys stronger together , as a couple, by playing as a couple and actually drifting away, I have been there too but I think we went a bit too far with our fantasies... I don't know, it is hard to tell for sure because there were other issues between my ex and myself...
having balance is not as easy 
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 10902
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted December 11, 2007 11:50 PM
I liked your post as well t/g cusp.  I can see why you'd take it down after not getting a response, though. No one seems to want to get judged for what they might believe on this subject. I'm with you, though.IP: Logged |
tidalwave
Knowflake Posts: 86
From: upper-misery, usa
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted December 12, 2007 02:57 AM
aw, i never got to read t/g's response. if i had i would've replied though! sorry!HSC: i guess no one other than us has opinions on this subject anymore! ha. but i did want to respond to MM officially since i kind of drifted off on the last reponse. i haven't read much on specific sexologists or sex therapists but rather on the study of it. it's hard to describe, i could give advice and talk to anyone about it, but don't necessarily have any factual information other than the obvious: communication communication communication. it's the holy trinity of a good firm relationship. =o] IP: Logged |
tidalwave
Knowflake Posts: 86
From: upper-misery, usa
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted December 12, 2007 03:02 AM
ps. HSC i just added you on myspace, ha...IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1833
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 12, 2007 10:30 AM
^me too! IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp
Knowflake Posts: 603
From: London, England
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted December 13, 2007 09:32 AM
Awwwww - thank you Nelly & AG!  I'm glad you guys seemed to agree with me - I thought I was the only one with "warped thinking" as my sister calls it, lol (she's a proud Leo with a lot of Scorp!) But glad to see that you guys understand what is my normality - I think that's a relieving thing to hear at times!Btw - I took the post down because I was embarrassed!  I thought it was maybe a bit too much information and that it may have grossed some of you out!!!   I still reckon it's only natural though. If it gets out of control then by all means - one should be worried, but some of the time is fine - as long as you can still feel that way for your lover too!!! xXxXx IP: Logged |
tidalwave
Knowflake Posts: 86
From: upper-misery, usa
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted December 13, 2007 06:20 PM
t/g cusp:agreed 100% and no need for embarassment. or maybe there is? i just don't have a filter on my thoughts! ramble on, as led zeppelin would say, ramble on. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 5787
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 14, 2007 01:56 PM
quote:
communication communication communication.
it's the holy trinity of a good firm relationship.
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