posted August 27, 2008 03:20 PM              

His Sun Trine My Neptune (same aspect appears as individuals)

His Sun Square my Uranus (same aspect appears as individuals)

His Venus Trine my Neptune

We are both Leos. My ascendant is Scorpio. His is Virgo. He is currently going through his Saturn Return, and he's doing more harm than good for himself. I want him back, but until then I would like to know what I can do to help him find his way again. Or perhaps I do nothing, and just let him come back on his own. I'd like to think that we can all have a happy ending like Fiona & Robert

posted November 02, 2008 10:01 PM              

I wish all of you Love.. as this love makes me want to give away all the kindness in my heart. I love all of you.

posted December 05, 2008 10:04 PM            

Why have you made a soul connection?

posted December 09, 2008 01:10 AM              

Thank you so much for posting this. Though, have only read the first page before jumping the gun and posting this. I really am sorry for being so rude.

I have a very long "soulmate lost" story that there doesn't seem to be a need to bore you all with, but do have a question about aspect configuration in terms of the synastry. Looking through a very limited "knowledge" regarding astrology, there seem to be so many sweet aspects in this synastry, configurations and house overlays, but most interesting to me is a fractured looking yod-y type thing going on. Not sure if it is an actual yod, though. But, it does seem to be a kind of mutual reception sort of thing. ( i am very sorry, but i don't know how to black out the name/dob and place of birth, so it might not be a good idea to post the chart).

In our synastry, my valentine and amor are quincunx his eros.

His valentine and amor are quincunx my psyche.

Now, in the synastry chart, neither of us have our amor and valentine in sextile aspect to complete the yod formations.

Though, both of us have valentine and amor sextile aspecting in our natal charts.

Strange.

Question: In the instance of these two fractured synastry (almost)yods, would our natal valentine-amor sextiles be applied to complete the yods?

Aside from wondering about this aspect (sort of) configuration, our synastric soulmate connectors seem to me to not be very powerful on paper, (or screen! lo) to say nothing of our composite chart. There seem to be very few bang on indicators, indeed. So i can't help but kick myself a bit when paying an inordinate amount of attention to the astrological as opposed to tangible experience that i have had with a person. Though it seems easy to get momentarily caught up in it.

But the person in (this particular) question- He really does seem to have been a soulmate. With that said...soulmate bah! Soul Smashers is more like! Even if the very last thing we would ever intend to do would be to bleed each other's hearts dry. Too often it seems to be the case. Doesn't it feel that way sometimes?

It's so ridiculous. How could it be that a 16 year old boy who was only in my life for a couple of short months way back when i was a 14 year old girl, and again for a couple of weeks a year and a half later, (with only one crushing, heart breakingly painful face to face meeting at that!)...Still have such a way of making my heart stop with a quickly passing but very deep and real sense of inexplainable existential longing? Though, not longing to "be with" him, in a search him out and try to have a relationship kind of way. It's impossible- and even if it were a possibility, i wouldn't ever want to go back there if the opportunity presented itself. Surely, i believe that the feeling is entirely mutual.

If common sense were applied here, one would believe that i had never actually known that man, nor did he know me. In such a short time frame of contact, when we were just children in the midst of love awakening, how could we have?

But in a completely logic defying way, i feel as though i have known him all of my lives. And felt that way from the moment that we first caught each other's eye. (having a very hard time trying to articulate this, sorry). But, it really feels like homesickness when thinking about this person, and what he meant at the time. I suppose still does in a way...it's insane. really. I'd be absolutely mortified if he ever knew that i thought of him at all, let alone that on the very rare occasion when i still feel the devastating fall-out that the cosmic impact his very presence in my life has had.

That is, i would be mortified. But, i doubt he even remembers who the heck i am after all these years. Because i also doubt very much that the impact or feeling of connectedness was entirely mutual.

Sorry for this very long rambly post....thanks in advance for reading it!

posted December 09, 2008 08:21 AM            

I too am a beginner in Astrology, so in many aspects me telling you this is like the blind leading the blind,... lol but perhaps I can help you.
For starters I would look at your personal planets (IE: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus), and see how they relate first (aspects, house overlays). This should occupy you for hours, as there is much to be learned about your relationship, and your soul connections to each other.
Then you can consider how these personal planets relate to each others Ascendants/Descendants, Vertex/Anti-Vertex, MC/IC, North Node/South Node.

By then you will get a clear picture of what is going on and how it relates to your connection.
The rest should be added on to that foundation.

And sweetheart its perfectly fine to be in love with a man you haven't seen in months, or even years if that were the case because you ARE in love with him. And its perfectly ok for you to feel like you come "home" when you are around him, because you DO. And there is nothing wrong with knowing that you have lived past lives with him , because you HAVE. the reason why you felt that from the moment you caught his eye is because there is a Soul connection between you and him. Synastry need not tell you that, because you know it at the very depth of your Soul. How powerful the connection is remains to be seen, that is where Synastry can guide and shine some insight on to your emotions. Knowledge is power.
You are not insane. And you can rest a sure that your beau is feeling it too. But you must understand this.
That love is a one way street. When you love it is like a gift, the most precious you can give. And you give of that gift freely, as you recieve it. You cannot make choices for your Soulmate, you can only live in the moment with that one and understand that everyone has free will. And that means everyone has choices.. Just know that whatever the Divine takes away on a physical level, he gives three fold on the spiritual one when the lesson is learned. And so congratulations my lady because you are the next contestant on "Learn a Lesson". lol, I know its not a laughing matter, but my Sag moon, gives me a dose of humor on any topic. But look at the tool you have gained.

Astrology really is a most exquisite gift from the Divine, it speaks to the Soul like know other knowledge does, because it is from the very Soul that the knowledge came, It is sort of like the snake eating its tail.... I think it is called the circle of Ouroboros. The Ouroboros is an ancient Egyptian symbol of the Universe in motion as it regenerates itself. It penetrates to the very heart of matter.

Look at how your planets fall into his houses, and how your connection influences his energy and you will see that he too loves you but again he has free will, and his choice is not to show.
So what do you do then?
Well you do what you are doing now, you use this situation to learn about yourself and your energy and how you connect with others. This brings you back to the Divine within you, isnt funny everything moves in a circle.
and circle means harmony. Who doesn't want that?

posted December 09, 2008 10:08 AM              

quote:

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If you miss someone so much you can’t even conceive of existing without them

If you've lost someone and it feels like your soul left with them then read on…

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posted December 09, 2008 12:59 PM            

But when I first felt those two sentences I thought I was going crazy, but those particular two are emotions that come from fear, its the ego telling you those things. So no they are not true, and they are not a healthy manifestation of emotions and should you choose to act off of them, the actions could produce unfavorable circumstances.
But failure to acknowledge there existence gives that fear power. When you do however finally transcend the situation and see if from a different dimension, you understand what is going on, and no longer see things from that egotistic point of view.
And the first step of transcendence is acknowledgement..
you do feel in that moment like life is over, lol as retarded as it sounds....

But the truth of the matter is you will exist without them and your Soul is no where close to leaving. lol
Your ego is though, as soon as you ignore it! lol